I have hated my parents for the past year and they make me suicidal how do I stop the arguing?
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Last Updated: 11/16/2020 at 5:34pm
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I have had a troubled relationship with my parents for the last few years now. I have always felt that I was better off not talking to them about things because it would lead to another argument. This made me deal with most of the issues myself and also made me wise enough to understand that sometimes things happen so that they teach us lessons we would have not have learnt otherwise. Now that I talk to them, some of our issues still remain, but the understanding that I can manage on my own, has helped. Some of their words don't hurt as much. They have also tried to take a step forward in this relationship. Overall, we both have matured and learnt not to take everything the other person says, to heart, and we are both happier for it. Hope this helps, please feel free to reach out to talk! Sending thoughts your way
Anonymous
November 16th, 2020 5:34pm
If your suicidal thoughts are consistant you should definitely seek professional help. To mend your relationship with your parents , the first step is to identify why you feel hate towards your parents. Is it because of their beliefs and opinions on life ? How did your hatred develop over the years? Most children do have arguments with their parents but continuous arguing is not. Both you and your parents are responsible for the arguments. You should work together and have a discussion on how you'd like to this to stop. It wont get better overnight but you should keep trying to have a lot of conversations wih your parents and try to solve the underlying issues.
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