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Why is it that people always have to judge us just because we are a "Loud Family"?

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Last Updated: 07/21/2020 at 11:01pm
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March 4th, 2015 9:56pm
Unfortunately, people will always judge! It's a terrible fact. No matter what, people will judge you. Just do what makes you and whoever you love happy, that's all that matters :)
April 20th, 2015 11:26pm
Loud families tend to attract attention in a positive or negative way depending on the norm they are attracted to.
May 30th, 2015 12:41am
People tend to like what they are used to because it makes them feel comfortable. If they are out in public or visiting someone's house and the people around them are acting differently they may just be unsure how to react not even trying to be judgmental.
July 7th, 2015 5:21pm
Some people just feel like they to live peacefully and can feel like a loud family can get annoying.
November 10th, 2015 7:25pm
I suggest you speak with the people who claim that you're a "loud family" and attempt to pinpoint the lack of communication between you and your detractors. Are you comfortable with doing that?
March 22nd, 2016 2:12pm
People like to judge others by what they themselves lack. They want to find anything seemingly wrong to them, something that doesn't fit the status quo, and pick at it until it becomes an issue. Being a "loud family" means many things to many different people.
April 5th, 2016 2:35am
People are always shocked or taken a back with difference. Some people accept it as a good thing while others reject it as a bad thing. But personally I think difference is what makes the world interesting and less boring,
June 14th, 2016 12:35pm
If people want to judge you -they will. If you don't like the title of "loud family", you have to ignore it. People will talk regardless of what you do or your intentions.
August 16th, 2016 11:08pm
They can probably heart what you are saying and they will add therir own thoughts about whats going on
November 27th, 2017 10:05pm
well loud is different some times and its not a bad thing and they shouldnt judge but its somehting new and fun
July 21st, 2020 11:01pm
Typically, a lot of people can be judgmental of things they don't understand or don't experience on a regular basis. They forget to think that just because you are a "Loud Family" doesn't mean you're an argumentative or rude family. It's common for people to associate being a "Loud Family" with negative connotations such as the tension between family members. These people tend to focus on judging others without looking at their own life situations first and only make themselves unhappy and unfulfilled in the end. If you and your family feel happy about life, continue to be yourselves; there's no need to change a happy and amazing family.