Why is it that people always have to judge us just because we are a "Loud Family"?
Last Updated: 07/21/2020 at 11:01pm
Brenda King, PsyD
I treat life changes, women’s issues, and issues of aging using evidence-based treatments with healthy doses of warmth, empathy and humor to enhance healing and growth.
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Unfortunately, people will always judge! It's a terrible fact. No matter what, people will judge you. Just do what makes you and whoever you love happy, that's all that matters :)
Loud families tend to attract attention in a positive or negative way depending on the norm they are attracted to.
People tend to like what they are used to because it makes them feel comfortable. If they are out in public or visiting someone's house and the people around them are acting differently they may just be unsure how to react not even trying to be judgmental.
Some people just feel like they to live peacefully and can feel like a loud family can get annoying.
I suggest you speak with the people who claim that you're a "loud family" and attempt to pinpoint the lack of communication between you and your detractors. Are you comfortable with doing that?
People like to judge others by what they themselves lack. They want to find anything seemingly wrong to them, something that doesn't fit the status quo, and pick at it until it becomes an issue. Being a "loud family" means many things to many different people.
People are always shocked or taken a back with difference. Some people accept it as a good thing while others reject it as a bad thing. But personally I think difference is what makes the world interesting and less boring,
If people want to judge you -they will. If you don't like the title of "loud family", you have to ignore it. People will talk regardless of what you do or your intentions.
They can probably heart what you are saying and they will add therir own thoughts about whats going on
well loud is different some times and its not a bad thing and they shouldnt judge but its somehting new and fun
Typically, a lot of people can be judgmental of things they don't understand or don't experience on a regular basis. They forget to think that just because you are a "Loud Family" doesn't mean you're an argumentative or rude family. It's common for people to associate being a "Loud Family" with negative connotations such as the tension between family members. These people tend to focus on judging others without looking at their own life situations first and only make themselves unhappy and unfulfilled in the end. If you and your family feel happy about life, continue to be yourselves; there's no need to change a happy and amazing family.
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