How do I know if I'm bi? Is it 'enough' that I can imagine being with a woman (I'm a woman) and that I would like to try it? I never had a crush on a woman so far.
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Orientation are not based on our experience, but rather on our feelings. If the thought of being with a man or with a woman both feel good, you can definitely identify as bisexual. What you feel is enough to determine who you are!
this is a tricky one, if you think you would date a women and a male, then that would make you bi. from my standpoint, maybe you could be bi-curious, but go with your heart. if you think you're bi, then you are. if not, maybe you're just questioning your identity, which, by the way, is one hundred percent normal. i would take some time to think about it by yourself and truly dig deep to think if you really would date a woman like you would a male. it's not for everyone, and some people are just curious. and so go out and experiment. i would say that you're questioning, but don't just go for what i'm saying. listen to you're heart and brain, and you'll know. â¤ï¸â¤ï¸â¤ï¸
Anonymous
May 6th, 2020 10:54pm
I am going through the same thing (kinda) !
But what i learned and know is that you need to do some exploring to see what and who you like. go hang out or go on like a date with a girl just like you would w a guy and see.
its okay not to know who you like because sometimes it's about finding that right person who you want to be with and not about know if you are straight, bi or any of the other labels. as long as you are happy :)
try also not to rush anything as well
i hope this helped a little bit
What ever your heart desires, go for it! If you feel as though you're bi, then you can classify yourself as bi. Just because you have not found the right woman to be with, does not mean you can't be bi. :) Whatever choice you make, we are here to root for you, we are a completely supportive community and we are 100% willing to listen to you. If you'd like, you can connect with one of the listeners and talk about how you are feeling while making this decision, I understand it can be sometimes super stressful.
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