is it okay to date someone if I don't know if I like their gender?
Last Updated: 12/30/2019 at 2:01am
Jennifer Fritz, LMSW, PhD
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Day to day life can be stressful and overwhelming and my strength is assisting my clients in a supportive, empowering and practical manner.
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Of course! It's always ok to date someone we're attracted to if they make us feel good and they treat you right. You can figure out your sexuality as things develop, but in the meantime, you have no reason to let go of this chance to be happy with a person you like. You might find out that you're attracted to more genders than you thought, but whether it's true or not is something you'll find out with time. Just follow your heart and see where it leads you. There's always time to rethink your label, if it will feel like the right thing.
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