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I dreamt about kissing someone of the same-sex, what does it mean ?

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Olivia321
December 16th, 2015 10:14pm
Hi! I'm Olivia. When I was younger, I dreamed I kissed one of my best friends, who is the same sex as me. It could mean you are just curious, or it could even mean nothing and is just one of those weird dreams that are random. But for me, it definitely scared me, I didn't have much knowledge of the LGBTQ+ community at the time. But now that I'm older and a little more mature, I have realized that I am actually pansexual... who knew? I came out to my friends a few months ago, actually. Anyways, it meant something for me, but really you don't need to worry too much.
cuteava
December 18th, 2015 12:48am
It could mean nothing, but it could be your subconscious trying to tell you you might not be straight as you may have thought you were. but don't stress out about, you'll always be learning more about yourself as time goes on
Jonsayshello
December 18th, 2015 2:54am
It really can be interpreted any way - many people who identify as straight have homosexual tendencies, and that's alright. Feel free to explore your sexuality and find out what it means, because you're the only person who can find that answer.
miamaiamaya
December 18th, 2015 11:42am
It could mean you were subconsciously thinking about kissing them. Or it could simply be just a dream :) I think you should interpret the meaning yourself based on your reaction and feelings.
xMoonlightMysteryx
December 18th, 2015 5:52pm
It simply means that you are having an attraction to the same-sex. If you are wondering if there is something wrong with you or you feel as if you shouldn't feel this way, it's completely normal and you having nothing to worry about.
Arontastic
December 18th, 2015 8:19pm
Usually, stuff like this don't really matter. Dreams are just a deeper side of your thoughts. I do a lot of weird stuff in my sleep, and I don't think I'm allowed to tell you guys what. And sometimes they are affected by what you see in real life. Many people have dreams of having sex with their worst enemy. So really, it might be your sub-conscious playing tricks. I'm not an expert on this, but ask yourself how you feel about same-sex.
birdwatcher444
December 19th, 2015 2:19am
You may be curious about homosexuality. It's actually perfectly normal to be curious. I suggest doing research on sexuality. Best of luck!
Anonymous
December 19th, 2015 4:01pm
It doesn't have to mean anything. You don't have to overthink it. It's okay, dreams are dreams it could've been triggered by anything. If it stays on your mind for too long then, maybe you might want to try to do it for real !
becauseimhere
December 19th, 2015 5:43pm
I think in this situation it's important that you know that dreams ARE NOT real! I once had a dream that I was in a relationship with a giraffe.. that doesn't mean that I have some weird fetish for them does it? Nope! I think you're over-thinking it a little.
CrashListens
December 20th, 2015 1:57am
It doesn't necessarily have to mean anything at all, although, out dreams are made out of our subconscious mind for the most part. It doesn't have to mean that it is what you would like to do or like to be, and I speak from mass amounts of experience, but maybe it's your mind telling you you could possibly like both genders or the same as yours, or that you'd like to try it out. Either is perfectly okay. :)
Anonymous
December 20th, 2015 7:44pm
It can either mean your bisexual, which means you like both genders, or that you could be gay/lesbian. Or you just dreamt of it.
Anonymous
December 23rd, 2015 1:46am
It has given me further proof that I am bisexual. Sometimes they seem so real and in every dream, the girls look like my type.
Harpplayer
December 23rd, 2015 5:23am
It might mean that you look up to this person. Another thing it could be, is that you are gay or bi.
Anonymous
December 23rd, 2015 12:52pm
Perhaps you have been questioning your sexuality recently. Dreams are the messengers of your subconscious! Or maybe you think you might be homosexual and afraid to come out. Talking about it helps. We are here for you! :)
Anonymous
December 23rd, 2015 11:41pm
That is just a dream, it could mean nothing at all. What matters is your thoughts while conscious,
StormyStorms
December 24th, 2015 10:03am
It could be you just processing new feelings towards others that aren't in the conscious part of your brain yet. You may be feeling like you want to experiment with the same gender as you "Bi-curious." This is absolutely fine and many people experience these thoughts at some point in time.
WittyWaterMelon
December 24th, 2015 11:56am
It means that you are a warm loving person. Kissing someone is an act of great fondness and affection and an expression of love. Kissing someone of the same-sex or opposite sex, does it really matter? Isn't it sufficient and great that we are capable of loving somebody?
Anonymous
December 25th, 2015 1:34am
It is okay to dream about kissing someone of the same-sex, you might be lesbian or gay and that is okay. :)
Anonymous
December 25th, 2015 5:44am
Doesn't have to mean anything. Or it could mean that you're curious to experiment. Either way, don't let it stress you out! You'll figure it out at some point. Embrace yourself, regardless!
StormyAngles18
December 25th, 2015 8:37pm
It could mean something but then again It may not. Our dreams are made by our subcounsious so we really may not know the actual reason why we are dreaming of what we are dreaming of.
dreamaboutme
December 25th, 2015 9:16pm
Dreams may sometimes contain visions of the future. This may be telling you that you will soon discover that you are queer, or it may simply just be a dream.
Anonymous
December 27th, 2015 4:44am
It doesn't have to mean anything at all, our dreams mix feelings with situations with people, in a scientific way it is a brainstorm of activity. Yet today we don't understand what dreams are for or how they exist. From my personal experience I dream about things that I have given some time to think about but in no way they relate to eachother, they are usually set up in a situation of nonsense.
Anonymous
December 27th, 2015 11:22pm
This can mean anything! It could have been just a dream. It all depends on how you personally feel about the dream and what happened.
Miranda1999
December 27th, 2015 11:25pm
It doesn't have to mean anything, but it could mean that you are attracted to the person if the same sex you are kissing or it could mean nothing.
Anonymous
December 30th, 2015 6:42am
Sometimes it may just be a dream and not mean much so don't immediatley assume that you're gay/lesbian/bisexual. It's normal for these things to happen don't worry.
Anonymous
December 30th, 2015 9:06pm
It doesnt necessarily mean anything, dreams are just exploring possibilities. It doesn't definitely mean you are homosexual. If you are having these thoughts at other times aswell it is possible but bit definite.
HelpWisely
December 31st, 2015 2:08pm
It was just a dream, it does not mean anything at all. You can put any meaning to it if you like but dreams are just dreams and when you wake up you find that this is not a part of your reality.
Dreeger
December 31st, 2015 7:37pm
I think most people are able to dream about such things, I have those dreams too sometimes. Dreams are the brain's way of dealing with experiences in the past. That could mean actual experiences, but also feelings and thoughts that you had. For example, if you see people of the same-sex kiss on television, it is in theory possible to dream about that, while your brain substitutes one of the two people for yourself.
ToxicReject
January 1st, 2016 3:33am
Well, you could be bisexual or bicurious. Or you could be gay/lesbian. But, don't base your sexuality on a dream. I'd say you're bicurious.
WaltzingRavens
January 1st, 2016 7:30am
Right now, it doesn't mean anything bad, or anything good. You had a dream, everyone gets these, including myself. If you feel conflicted about this, try thinking about why you had the dream, if it was of someone you know or just a body, how the dream kiss made you feel. There is absolutely nothing wrong or weird about experimenting, or loving the same sex. Love is love, and if you feel like this dream is trying to tell you something, listen. Whatever you decide, you made the right choice.