I dreamt about kissing someone of the same-sex, what does it mean ?
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Anonymous
January 1st, 2016 2:37pm
it doesnt mean much, if you keep having dreams of the same sex then maybe you should test out kissing someone of the same sex. if you like it you may be gay :)
It most likely means nothing. Having dreams like that is normal. Straight people have them. You could be not straight though.
Anonymous
January 1st, 2016 7:00pm
I may mean nothing, or on the contrary it could mean you're not entirely straight, that depends on what you think about kissing or having a romantic relationship with a person of your same sex when you're awake.
It's normal for these kinds of things to happen especially around puberty, it doesn't mean your gay or anything.
It doesnt necessarilly mean that your homosexual it coud also just be curiosity. Maybe you would like to experiment.
it could have just been a dream and mean nothing; or it could mean something entirely. it doesn't mean your gay, but if you think you are their is nothing wrong it just means you feel attracted to the same sex.
Anonymous
January 2nd, 2016 5:24am
Sometimes, very strange dreams happen that have nothing to do with your subconscious desires. At other times, dreams are the best ways to become aware of your subliminal desires. If these dreams (or similar ones) persist, and if you think that you may be suppressing your feelings toward said person (or towards the same-sex in general), do your best to self-reflect on your romantic/sexual orientation. Ask yourself questions about your past romantic desires and experiences. If this was a one-time occurence, and you have never felt any kind of attraction towards this person or towards anyone of the same sex ever, then don't worry about it.
Anonymous
January 2nd, 2016 5:58am
While it could mean that you're attracted to the same-sex, it's most likely meaningless. These sorts of dreams are pretty common and generally don't mean that you're secretly attracted to members of the same sex; people regularly dream about things they wouldn't normally do or even want to do.
What really matters is what you think and feel in person. Try to see your attraction towards others and feel carefully. The dream can mean a lot or possibly nothing at all, often time our minds can be fascinating
It means you're exploring your sexuality and on the way of finding out who you are. It's perfectly normal, and you'll never know unless you try. Don't be afraid to be a little experimental!
If this has occurred in your dream in which you have dreamt of kissing the same sex it could be a signal that your is body trying to show you. You could be confused which is completely normal. It could mean that you are attracted to the other sex and you want to experiment. It is completely normal and there is nothing to worry about.
The science of dreams is currently quite unclear. It doesn't necessarily mean anything about your sexuality. It simply means that you had a dream about kissing someone of the same-sex. Nothing more, nothing less.
Anonymous
January 2nd, 2016 10:08pm
You know yourself best. How'd the dream make you feel?With those feelings, what does it mean to you?
Dreams are tricky, sometimes they can tell a lot about a person, sometimes they are completely random. This particular dream could mean that you're curious about experimenting with the same sex, which is completely okay! But it could also mean nothing, just that your subconscious happened to fill up that space in your dream with a person of the same sex. What you decide to do about it is completely up to you, you could ignore it or act upon it. :)
It doesn't necessarily have to mean anything. Dreams are a weird concept. It's possible you saw people kissing before you fell asleep, or someone told you about it, and it affected your dream. But it could also mean that's something you'd like to do. You can do whatever you want with it, think about how it made you feel and how you'd feel about doing that for real, and perhaps act on it if you want to. Follow your heart :)
Anonymous
January 3rd, 2016 2:45pm
it means you are accepting of the thought of kissing someone of the same sex, it doesnt mean you are attracted to the same gender though. i used to dream like this and found out my sexual orientation this way
It could mean anything. You might have attractions to the same-sex but it could just be one off incident. Maybe try looking into other sexuality's if you want to know more. .
Honestly, it usually means nothing, sometimes it can mean something though. It all depends on how you look at things. It could mean you're just curious, or it could mean you were listening/watching something in the day and when you slept it triggered that dream. Dreams are often reflections of our daily life just modified during sleep with different outcomes.
You could be bi, but I'm not exactly sure because the only person who could truly answer that is you. If you have this dream a lot then maybe bisexuality is something to consider but if it was only once then there isn't much I can say
It really doesn't mean anything. You had a dream, and dreams are only dreams. You don't have to worry cause it happens to a lot of people.
Anonymous
January 3rd, 2016 10:32pm
It doesn't necessarily have to mean anything, but you may want to consider that you could be attracted to people of your own gender. In either case, just know it is not anything negative or to be ashamed of.
It could mean you're just curious, or maybe nothing at all. If you think that you would actually enjoy that though, maybe think it over and keep an open mind. There is no wrong way to question yourself just get out there and test things out:)
Anonymous
January 6th, 2016 6:54pm
It doesn't mean anything. You want to experience difference things so instead of doing it in real life, you did it in your dream. It's good to experience different things. There is nothing wrong about that.
Anonymous
January 7th, 2016 6:44am
It could mean many things. But it is not reality. It is a dream. It really depends how you wish to interpret it.
well it doesn't always mean anything but sometimes it can mean something, i suggest thinking if you like that gender, it doesn't always mean you're gay or lesbian. It could mean you're bi sexual.
It could mean anything. Perhaps you're attracted to the same sex, but perhaps a kiss is just that - don't be hard on yourself. Just take it easy and live life; you don't have to label yourself if you're not ready. Maybe find somebody of the same-sex that you're attracted to and who is attracted to you; see where it goes. But don't be too harsh on your heart - it wants what it wants.
I already made the same experience and I know it might be a bit confusing. Although our mind uses dreams to reflect situations, feelings etc. we had while being awake, they often don't directly correlate to the reality. Especially if this was your first dream of this kind it's extremely likely that it doesn't mean anything really.
Anonymous
January 10th, 2016 4:38pm
This usually won't mean anything if it's just a dream, but if you feel this way when you're not asleep then it's okay too
Anonymous
January 10th, 2016 8:53pm
It could just be that your body is considering the possibility of a same-sex experience. It's not unusual, as the human mind tends to be thoughtful and curious. The feelings that the dream gave, however, can be an indication that perhaps you are interested in the same sex, to some extent. Continue to explore your feelings and don't be afraid if you are interested in someone of the same gender :)
It doesn't necessarily have to mean something. It doesn't mean you're officially homo. But if you truly have feelings for that someone..
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