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I'm attracted to people for their personality but I'm not interested in any type of romance with them, what's my sexuality?

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Last Updated: 04/13/2020 at 3:03am
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Aayla
- Expert in LGBTQ+
August 5th, 2019 10:08pm
If you aren't interested in sexual or romantic relationships, then you are asexual and aromantic. And that's ok, you can still feel emotional, intellectual, personal connections of any kind, and you can enjoy them and be happy in your own way.
Sushibeeeee
August 7th, 2018 3:28pm
I believe you may be aromatic since you do not want romance :)
brilliantTurtle89
August 12th, 2018 6:15pm
No one can tell you your sexuality but yourself. Being attracted to people for their qualities is a good thing. Maybe one day you will be attracted to them sexually and find out your sexuality that way.
Anonymous
October 30th, 2019 9:35am
No one can tell you your sexuality but yourself. Being attracted to people for their qualities is a good thing. Maybe one day you will be attracted to them sexually and find out your sexuality that way. If you aren't interested in sexual or romantic relationships, then you are asexual and aromantic. And that's ok, you can still feel emotional, intellectual, personal connections of any kind, and you can enjoy them and be happy in your own way. If you aren't interested in sexual or romantic relationships, then you are asexual and aromantic. And that's ok, you can still feel emotional, intellectual, personal connections of any kind, and you can enjoy them and be happy in your own way.
TenderQ727
April 13th, 2020 3:03am
Your sexuality is whatever you identify it to be and no one else could define it for you. You may self-identify as aromantic which to put simply, is typically when a person does not experience romantic feelings toward anyone while asexual is when a person does not have sexual feelings towards a person. But either the presence or absence of feelings or sexual attraction does not mean you have to apply a label to you. Sexuality for many could be a fluid thing and we don’t have to pick one or thing that our attraction must be defined as something specific. It’s a complicated thing but you get to identify how you want or not identify. :)