Is it okay to be confused around your sexuality?
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of course. There are many different types of attractions, such as aesthetic.romantic, sexual etc. Experiment lots! You may just be confused about which type of attractionyou're experiencing.
This is completely okay! In fact, most LGBTQ members had a time in their life where they were questioning their sexuality, you do not need to feel in any rush to put a label on yourself, you will figure it out someday :)
Yes,it's normal. You are just looking for who you really are and who you really like, most of us have been there.
Anonymous
May 2nd, 2016 1:46am
Sweetheart yes it is. It's really okey, thats how we are like? What ever you found aout you are, it's okey.. these things isn't easy, but talk with people about it, ask if you have question.. and then after a while you will found things aout:)
Of course it's okay, you don't need to have it figured out. Sexuality isn't always an easy thing to understand, especially if it's your own. Sexuality can be fluid, meaning it can change over time. You don't need to rush to figure it out now, you have a lot of time.
Anonymous
November 4th, 2015 5:50pm
It is perfectly normal to be confused around sexuality as not eveyone finds out their either, Gay, Lesbian, Trans or other until their older.
Anonymous
November 17th, 2015 3:50pm
Yes, it is 100% ok to be confused about your sexuality. Not everyone knows their sexuality right away.
Anonymous
January 4th, 2016 3:11pm
It is totally okay to be confused around your sexuality. Honestly I think even the straightest, most heteronormative individuals have had at least one confusing gay dream or lack of romantic attraction connected to sexual or something along those lines. It's perfectly normal to be confused.
Of course it is! You don't have the answer for everything, and if you haven't your sexuality figured out just yet, it's alright. You are still figuring out who you truly are, and you should take your time with that. But remember: don't try to be what others want you to be. If you want to be happy, you'll have to be true to yourself.
Anonymous
March 29th, 2016 2:41pm
it's okay. you can figure this out. just keep your mind and heart open and someday you'll know the answer.
Yes! It is 100% okay to be confused about your sexuality.
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