What is it you consider "normal" in a woman/girl ?
I once read, that the best way to be unhappy / depressed, is to compare with other people.
Even if we know that's totally true, it's hard not to compare with others, especially cis people... It's hard but focusing on the negative things (the things you may think you "lack" or that you "shouldn't have") only feed that thought that trans people are "less" etc.
Let me set you a little challenge : try to focus on some nice/positive things daily. Like "hey, it may be hard for me to find shoes in my size, but at least not a lot of people have the same shoes as me!" or "I can't bear children... but well, not having period is quite a advantage (no cramps, no blood stains on your panties, no need to buy protections, no risk of having to get an aborption, or get an episioto my during child delivery..). I know it may seem like small things, but it can help see positive things and balance a bit the things that you're sad about.
Keep in mind that lots of cis women don't have uterus, are sterile, have pilosity issues, have small breast and flat hips, are tall, have a low voice etc, if that's the kind of thing that make you think you're less than cis girls...
Maybe some things are in your power to change to fit your needs, but for the things that are not, practicing mindfulness, mediation or yoga can help a lot, to accept thing we can't change about ourselves, to learn how to love our bodies (or at least have a good relationship with them ^^) etc.
I hope you'll get there. Feel free, you or anyone relating to that question, to contact me or other trans peers listeners to find a good hear and get support. :) You're not alone..