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I like girls romantically and sexually but I like guys, I just don’t want to have sex with them but I would like to be in a romantic relationship with them. What would be my sexuality?

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Last Updated: 07/19/2021 at 7:03pm
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PatrickRainbow
October 5th, 2020 3:47am
Thanks for asking my friend! Sexuality is weird and easily confusing, and so is romance. If you like guys and girls romantically, a term you could use is 'biromantic.' Since you only like girls sexually, you could be straight or gay/lesbian, dependent on your gender. (Some girls who like girls prefer to be considered gay, and some prefer to be called lesbians. Both are valid.) Based on the info in the question, you could be biromantic straight, or biromantic gay/lesbian. But it's also ok if these terms don't feel right to you, and its important to remember that everyone's path to labels is different, just try to be confident in who you are and everything else will be great. Hope this helps!
NinaBee
July 19th, 2021 7:03pm
Hmm. If you identify as a man, you would be heterosexual and biromantic, or if you identify as a woman, lesbian and biromantic! I say lesbian, but you could be sapphic, too. Do some exploring and researching online, ask around, see what labels you like, and whether or not you even like labels! Most importantly, you know yourself better than anyone else, so only you know which label, if any at all, are the best fit for you. Don't get discouraged if no label seems to fit! You can use as man or as little as you like, and don't even need to keep them forever!