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please give me signs to know confirm that I'm trully a bisexual ?

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Last Updated: 12/07/2020 at 5:33am
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UntilThen
July 17th, 2018 10:06am
If you are attracted to both men and women, you are bisexual. No mater how often or how much, and regardless of experience.
JumpyGoiaba
July 28th, 2018 6:15pm
If you experience any sort of romantic/sexual attraction towards men and women, you are most likely bisexual. The intensity of these attractions can vary and you might have a preference for one of the two, but it doesn't automatically make you heterosexual or homosexual. If you really feel like you're attracted to more than one gender, chances are you really are. I think that's the definite confirmation :) I hope my advice was helpful.
Aayla
- Expert in LGBTQ+ Issues
August 5th, 2019 1:25am
It's all based on your attraction. If you feel like you can be attracted to more than one gender, if thoughts and fantasies of this kind give you a good sensation, then you are bisexual! Your feelings, emotion and physical attraction are enough to determine it, there's no need to experiment or to date people to "confirm" what your body and heart already know.
hope0207
June 9th, 2020 2:50pm
hey, so i think that this is different for everyone and there don't necessarily have to be 'signs' but some things you can ask yourself are "can i imagine myself in a relationship with both men and women?" or "am i sexually attracted to both men and women?" if the answer is yes, then there is a chance that you may be bisexual. but it's also possible for you to be attracted to someone as the same sex as you but not want to be in a relationship with that person, in which case, i think there's a pretty good chance that you're bi-curious. i guess what i'm really trying to say is that if you really are bisexual, you'll kind of just know it deep down.
Kierschan23
December 7th, 2020 5:33am
Sexuality is a journey. There are not really any "signs" per say. You have to figure that out on your own. Are you attracted to both men and women? Or are you attracted to one gender and forcing yourself to be attracted to the other because of societal norms? It's very much a process of self reflection, self discovery, and self exploration. There are no quick and easy ways to just know, confusion is normal. Even more so with bisexuality I think, because its on the fence. You are attracted to both, but society sort of pushes you to feel like you have to pick. You are either gay or straight, and that can make figuring out if you are bisexual even more difficult. So don't worry about it, you will figure it out eventually. One day you will wake up and just know. Until then, explore that sexuality. Date guys, date girls, mess around, in the end it'll make sense to you. You'll know, it just takes time.