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Sometimes I really think I was meant to be a different gender, but then other times I really like my gender. What's wrong with me?

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Last Updated: 08/27/2019 at 12:05am
Sometimes I really think I was meant to be a different gender, but then other times I really like my gender. What's wrong with me?
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ashbradbury42
February 22nd, 2016 6:47am
Nothing. You may be genderfluid, which means your gender changes daily or weekly or monthly or whatever. You're fine.
TangledRivers
February 21st, 2016 7:24pm
There is nothing at all wrong with you. It sounds like you may be gender fluid. You may want to look into resources for gender non-binary people or research more information on gender fluidity. If you need a definition, gender fluid people feel like both genders or neither but at different times. For instance, today, this hour, you may feel like a woman. But later tonight you may feel like a man. Or, for some, it may be different for an entire day or week or longer. You may feel like a woman this week and a man for a few days next week, and then maybe neither for a while. This is perfectly fine and there is nothing wrong with it or you.
bdvhood
February 20th, 2016 6:14am
Nothing is wrong with you we were all born special :)
Cecelys
February 19th, 2016 7:45pm
Hello! I myself identify as nonbinary - my gender shifts too much for me to understand. To me this sounds like genderfluid, genderflux, or another variation. I'd do some research on those words to find out more! I hope you're okay - and remember, there's nothing wrong with you.
MonBon
January 19th, 2016 1:50am
I don't think anything is wrong with you :) It sound like you are gender fluid, but you could also be agender, bigender, genderqueer, etc. I wouldn't stress too much about it though
bella0909
December 15th, 2015 2:07am
well some people can be genderfluid. That means that the man/women can choose what gender they want to be whenever they feel like it .... at least that is what i have heard... so nothing is wrong with you. you are probably just curious
Anonymous
December 14th, 2015 8:02am
some of us have more complex personalities that the norm, and we are capable of relating to ourselves and others in a variety of ways. It is ok to have all sides of you, and the more you can accept and express all of who you are, the happier you will be. Nothing is wrong with you!
yourangelus
November 16th, 2015 7:24pm
There's nothing wrong with you. I would recommend looking into different gender identities and seeing what fits. Sounds like you might be genderfluid, but that's for you to decide.
wonderfulKiwi70
August 10th, 2015 7:31pm
There's nothing wrong with you at all. There's a possibility that you might be genderfluid, which is a gender orientation where you naturally alternate between different gender identities. You can find more information here: http://gender.wikia.com/wiki/Gender_Fluid
maxh
May 23rd, 2015 8:21am
It's possible that you're bigender or genderfluid. Sadly, even with trans issues getting more notice, gender is still often cast as a permanent choice from one or two options, but that simply isn't true; there's a whole world of non-binary gender out there!