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My friends have basically abandoned me?

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Last Updated: 08/18/2020 at 9:06pm
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Anonymous
August 18th, 2020 9:06pm
I'm sorry to hear this. Social problems are never any fun. Do you have any idea why they've abandoned you? Do you think it was something you did or they did? Do you think it's healthier to move on from then or try to repair your friendship? It's really up to you to proceed from here. Do what feels right. If these friends are just dropping you for no reason maybe it is time to move on. However you are the expert on you and you get to decide what's best. I'm really sorry you've had to go through this. However, you are enough and even if your friendship with these people is over, it'll be ok and you'll find a way to move forward. Best of luck to you!
Anonymous
July 21st, 2020 8:53am
The pain we feel once, will go. And the space they left, will be filled. Maybe they left so better one can come? And maybe they will come again? Either way it does not matter, the only person that matter is yourself because its the only one staying forever. Be yourself! You are not alone. People come, others go. This is life! No one abandoned you. You just upgraded. You might feel lonely, disappointed, angry, sad, and maybe in pain , but it is temporary, it will fade with time. The people that love you will fight for you .