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Will I find someone who really loves me?

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Last Updated: 06/07/2022 at 5:56pm
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Spreadinglove16
January 30th, 2018 9:24am
Yes offcourse you will...But before that you need to learn how to love yourself. once you will start embracing yourself and acknowledging your worth, you will start shining. People will start noticing you and they will fall in love for the free and beautiful sprit of yours..! So love yourself first.
Anonymous
May 1st, 2018 9:47am
Yes. We all never know when we will meet the love of our life’s but let the hope not die. He/she will come one day
Anonymous
January 15th, 2018 10:59pm
Yes. Absolutely. I'm sure there is a lot of people already who love you. Eventually, you will find someone who you love with your whole heart, and who loves you with their whole heart.
fearlessLemon4853
February 5th, 2018 2:47pm
The earth is big and beautiful so definitely you will find someone who will love you .finding a person who loves just like searching a beautiful house just wait and move on
ITJoy64
February 13th, 2018 1:00pm
You can find someone to love you but also self love, self acceptance, confidence, and independent its what attracts partner to give you that love.
endearingLion70
July 10th, 2018 11:06am
Sometimes the person we are looking for is in our line of sight but we look further into the horizon and so we miss them.
DarkPiT23
December 13th, 2021 6:41am
Probably, but the lucky thing is it doesn't matter really. Ultimately we are all alone with ourselves and need to love ourselves first. It is wonderful if we find that special someone, but it is wrong to tell everyone they will. The numbers in the world don't add up for one thing. Not everyone will find a partner. And look at the divorce rate. Many of us have found we prefer to be alone than to tolerate unbearable living situations just to be able to say we have a partner. Build an active life with lots of activities and friends, and if it happens, great, but if not, oh well, you like your life. How do you know when someone really loves you? If you find they want to spend almost every minute of free time with you. If they always compliment you, no matter what. They care about the little things that make your day better, like giving you a ride home when it's raining or cooking dinner for the two of you on your days off work. When somebody truly cares about somebody else, love evolves into something physical and mental that needs to be shared with the one person who takes up nearly all their thoughts and time." As humans we are programmed to need relationships; they’re essential for our survival emotionally and physically. Relationships keep us grounded which in turn helps us stay sane in this chaotic world. But not all of us are lucky enough to find someone who loves us unconditionally. Some people don’t even know what love truly means. People generally think that they know love when actually the only thing they understand is lust. Lust is a strong desire or craving. Lust can be triggered by almost anything: food, sex, money--you name it. What we don’t realize is that lust can become addicting and that by feeding this addiction, we are becoming more delusional. There comes a point where lust can trick you into thinking that you’re in love with someone, when in reality you just wanted them physically.
DahliaFields
June 7th, 2022 5:56pm
Hopefully! It took me a lot of trial and error but it happened eventually! Looking for love is like watching cold water come to a boil, feels like it takes forever! But finding the right person is worth the wait. Keep up hope! And remember to value yourself and finding the right match matters. Loving yourself is the first step to finding the one for you! Take your time, concentrate on what makes you happy and they will find you naturally. I know it is frustrating and isolating but the right person will come along. All in good time