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How can u stop your feelings for someone that you been with for more then 9 years?

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Last Updated: 10/13/2020 at 3:04am
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December 23rd, 2019 7:53pm
You can never stop those feelings,Love never leaves you.Moving on is hard and causes a lot of upset but you have to remember they loved you also and are doing the same as you. Once the routine of being together leaves you it gets a hell of a lot easier.think of the bright side of having both pillows and a full bed to lay in.Waking up and maybe things are not the same but you can be who you want to be again and look forward to the game of finding that someone who makes you smile again and you can share that pillow with
October 13th, 2020 3:04am
It will be a long, not so great road but slowly detaching things in your life that remind you of the person; places, movies, songs, etc. Knowing that deep down you do not need another person to make you happy and that you can discover a new kind of tranquility on your own. Find new things that you enjoy doing on your own and live your best life! It is important to remember to put yourself first especially if it is a situation that has been bothering you for this amount of time. You deserve to have peace and happiness.