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I have never felt so sad in my life. Why do I feel this way?

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Last Updated: 06/11/2022 at 6:43pm
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Tracy-Kate Teleke, PsyD, M.A., LMFT

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I assist adults and couples in CA experiencing relationship challenges and interpersonal struggles including anxiety, depression, and a myriad of other life challenges.

Top Rated Answers
LiveLaughLearnLoveSoSelfishly
January 2nd, 2016 12:23pm
Me sad that people feel that way :(. Only you know! Talk to someone!
JuliaK073
June 24th, 2018 9:13am
we are all people and we all feel sad sometimes. Just accept your sadness, as an important part of our life. You may think about doing things that make you feel good and get moving forward.
MissNadia
May 31st, 2018 8:08am
Maybe somethings in the past may be affecting how you feel.dont let negative thought over power you..you thought have a huge role to play in how you feell overall..rhink positive happy thoughts.
YourFriendforever
July 12th, 2017 6:32am
Feeling sad is a part of life.. It's okay to not feel okay at times.. And now you are feeling this way, doesn't mean the next moment would be the same.. Time will pass and bring happiness along! :)
delightfulHand34
September 21st, 2016 8:27pm
Evaluate what is making you feel sad. Write a positive and thrive list then find a way to use those happy thins that make you happy to cancel out the negatives.
Anonymous
January 30th, 2016 3:54am
Sometimes, things happen in our lives to make us sad. It can be a breakup, a lost opportunity, a failure at work or in school, etc. Life is full of challenges, but it is also filled with reasons for joy! However, if you can't attribute a precipitating factor to your sadness, or your feelings have been persisting for weeks, you may want to consider speaking with a physician about what you're going through.
MarkoP
December 19th, 2015 8:25pm
Perhaps it is a phase. You need to allow yourself to feel sad, everybody feels sad once in a while. It is just a matter of time and work on your feeling that it will come to pass.
Anonymous
December 4th, 2015 10:06am
That is a hard question. We can start by recognizing the events that had happened and what have affected you emotionally recently. Emotions are sometimes fickle things. It comes and goes. And to be sad, is okay. Let the feelings run its course in you. Cry if you need to, scream if you need to. And then, slowly let it passes by like the wind brushing past your skin. Say goodbye properly. You might be sad again, but it's okay. It's okay.
kindheartedSky78
April 2nd, 2015 8:47pm
I am sorry to hear that you are feeling so sad. I am wondering if you know what it was that triggered this sadness.
Suryansh
October 22nd, 2020 2:53am
Hi There! That seems tough to feel that way but I truly understand how you must be feeling. Even I too would have felt the similar way if I would have been in your shoes because your feelings are valid. It is very obvious to feel sad sometimes and it even enhances our emotional capabilities and our state of mind. We experience sadness that is the reason we could know what is happiness because there is no feeling of happiness if we don't have sadness at all. Dear they both are part of this long journey of life and we have to face them bravely and go ahead nourishing our emotions. If we feel sad at times, remember, after sometime we will experience happiness. These both are part of life so we will experience both we just don't have to give up at any time of life, we have to continue and continue exploring and experiencing things. Though for now, I just wish you feel much more better than before soon and I hope you feel happier very soon with a smile on your face. Have a great day and take care!
Anonymous
August 9th, 2020 7:06am
It's okay to feel sad sometimes without reason too, however there's always some dormant thought that is making us question things and making us sad. Maybe you could try to understand if there's something worth making you feel this way at the moment , maybe it's your mind's way of telling you that it is exhausted and that you should take a break, practice self care, do something that would take your mind of negative emotions and could help you make feeel better . There could be many reasons for an emotion , what matters is how you choose to deal with it 🙂
EarlGreyHot
December 20th, 2015 7:02pm
Feeling sad usually means you feel that you've lost something important to you. It could be a relationship, place, job, activity, or even an idea about yourself or the world. I wonder if you've lost anything recently?
PeacefulMermaid84
June 23rd, 2015 1:56pm
There are many reasons for that, only you know the answer to this. Try to figure it out and work your way through it
starryPeace76
September 3rd, 2015 8:52pm
Sometimes life can be rough and bring you down. But you have to look on the positive side even when it doesn't seem like there is one.
Anonymous
October 23rd, 2015 4:24pm
Things happen. Days feel like they're going spectacularly until they're not, and suddenly, everything is awful and sad. The most you can do is push through it. Remember that you've felt better before and you will feel better again. There isn't always a clear reason as to why you're feeling sad and if it isn't something you can fix by talking with someone, don't beat yourself up about it.
BellaIvy77
July 21st, 2015 8:02pm
We all get down in our lives, for a lot of reasons, and sometimes its harder for some, but you're not alone, we've all been there, if its affecting your life more than normal, seeking out Doctors advice, could be helpful.
Peacefulmeditation
August 20th, 2015 5:55am
Sadness is part of life. There are situations in life that will cause you to be sad. Many times this has to do with loss, like losing someone. It is normal to feel that way even intense sadness is normal at some points in your life. If you are feeling sad for no reason or have felt sad for a long time then you may need to ask you Dr. about it.
Drimezan
August 29th, 2015 1:25pm
Sadness is an emotion and being an emotion, there are factors that cause you to feel sad. Consider looking at your environment, your social relationships and other events or situation in your life before you started feeling sad. This will help you understand and find the root cause of your sadness.
WhodunitAlley
May 7th, 2015 11:49pm
The reasons may vary. It is important to look at the current situation and underlying factors that may have lead you to feel that way. It can be just normal given the circumstances. But if it gets habitual or feels sad without any reasons, it can be a symptom to depression or another clinically defined psychological imbalance. Again, it is important to look at the present situation. If being overwhelmed by the situation, better to seek help either ptofessionally or to someone who you think can help you.
chanelsdaisy
June 22nd, 2015 6:02pm
We all have a time in our live where we are sad for no reason. It is completely normal and it will be over. Maybe you stand in the middle of your life. Still trying to find yourself and where you belong to.
ThatLimaBean
January 31st, 2018 9:02pm
There are many times in life where you feel like you have hit rock bottom. Maybe you have a problem you aren't dealing with properly?
Anonymous
January 3rd, 2018 8:14pm
This is normal if you've been going through a very difficult time. If there is no apparent reason for you to feel this way, you might want to talk to a professional about how you're feeling.
Anonymous
March 2nd, 2018 10:59pm
Anything stressful can bring on sadness.its okay to feel this way sometimes,you just need to talk and let it out
Elena2081
April 26th, 2018 9:37pm
Puberty? Issues? Depression? Emotions? Everything is possible. Try asking people around you. And if that doesn't work, try asking people here on 7Cups
melsue84
April 29th, 2018 1:07pm
Many things can cause sadness in life, especially if depression is a long time struggle. Depression can make you sad for no reason at all. Try to find ways to get your sadness out and try every day to take a step torward feeling better no matter the fear.
QuietHawk
May 26th, 2018 8:11pm
Sadness is experienced when we have suffered a loss or witnessed something traumatic. I sometimes feel sad by listening to the news. It's heartbreaking which evokes the feeling of sadness.
Anonymous
May 30th, 2018 1:00am
depression can be a factor in this. this really depends on the situation... if you truly suspect you are depressed, attempt to contact a doctor or therapist
believefaithdetermination19
October 20th, 2018 10:04am
Everyone has such a phase in his or her life. It maybe a sudden burst of emotion or maybe a particular problem may be annoying you. People do react on situations. Remember life is 10% what happens and 90% how you react.Understand your emotions and embrace them. At some point of life you feel out of the situation and tired. Its totally natural.Find the reason for this and work on it. I am after this certain period you will enjoy your life with happiness and success, and will be able to go through the problems in your life. Than you
JustWantToListen
July 18th, 2018 4:07pm
Sometimes feelings overgrow us. It is normal to feel that way and we should try to find ways to feel better. Reaching out is a great way to start. Always remember, nothing lasts forever. The bad things will eventually be part of the past. Stay strong.
Anonymous
August 1st, 2018 8:34pm
A lot of times sadness can have many underlying cause to it. Sometimes it so happens that we tend to focus so much on all the aspects of sadness that we forget the tiny bit that's actually causing it. If we look deep within ourselves, ask ourselves probing questions and accept the honest answers with dignity, then we might reach the source of our sadness. We can then heal ourselves, and that's how the journey of healing ourselves and caring for our mental well being begins.