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i've loved a person for 6 years and i still love them but they hate me. how do i get over them?

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Last Updated: 05/17/2022 at 6:47am
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Top Rated Answers
northernangel
February 5th, 2018 5:06pm
I’ve been i a situation mirror to this. You just have to keep telling yourself, that even though you have all the love for them in your heart. Those feeling we’re just not reciprocated. And you have to just keep repeating to yourself that it’s okay to move on, and let yourself find someone new who’s open to sharing that love with you.
Anonymous - Expert in Managing Emotions
March 20th, 2018 1:25am
Always know that you gave your 110% and its time to let the person go and be happy for them. If you love somebody you will be happy when they are happy.
Anonymous
May 17th, 2022 6:47am
i think the best thing to do for me was to keep my friends and family close. and make sure that i told them my feelings. find shows i think or things i like to do to try and get my mind off of them. over time it helped me start to feel better. i would draw or write into a journal about how i felt that day. wether i was happy or sad. my mom helped me a lot too. especially during the really dark days when my friends were busy and i didn’t feel happy. it was great to have some one to open up too. sports and or getting outside doing something active helped too. i bettered myself afterwards. and i think it molded me into the person i am today.