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Why am I so emotional right now?

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Last Updated: 05/25/2022 at 12:08am
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Anonymous
September 11th, 2020 6:16am
I'm not sure why you are so emotional, but sometimes it's good to embrace that. It doesn't always have to be a bad thing, at least if you mean it in the way I think you are. It's good to let out the emotions inside you or else you would bottle them up, which isn't particularly a good thing to do. It would damage you later on and it isn't healthy. So if you need to cry, let it all out. It's nice to have a good cry every now and then. If you need to let out this anger you have fueled up inside you, let it out. Don't hold it in - although, don't release it in an unhealthy way.
aLightInTheDark3
September 13th, 2020 10:15pm
It’s okay to be emotional! It happens to all of us sometimes. Often many small things or aswell big things can just trigger your emotions and make you feel a lot. Sometimes we don’t notice how much truly goes on around us, and in us, until we look closely. It can be tough to deal with, but venting is one things that truly helps with simply everything a lot. When you’re emotional, it helps to have a person that understands and cares for you! Don’t stop looking on the bright side, because everything will be okay, even if it doesn’t seem to look that way.
Anonymous
September 23rd, 2020 4:54am
We are emotional because our dopamine bank is running short. When we leave our emotions and feelings unattended, they tend to return to us always even sometimes in horrible ways. Its better to address whats bothering you. Listen to that what your inner voice and emotions are screaming at you. Answer that. Do not ignore. Just do it for once or for a day, listen to what your emotions are trying to tell me. Watch out what need of yours remains unfulfilled. The more you will ignore, the worst it will impact you. I send courage to you all that helps you confront that.
hopebeyondpain
October 4th, 2020 2:11am
Emotions can be so wild sometimes. It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed by them at times, especially if they're particularly distressing. Being emotional can be a perfectly normal experience. You might be particularly sensitive to certain emotions because of past experiences, or because you spend more time mulling over them. Of course, it's also possible you're feeling a lot of emotions because of various sources of stress, or cycling hormones, or a chemical imbalance in your brain. If you're feeling particularly terrible for no clear reason, or you're prone to feeling uncomfortably emotional for extended periods of time, you can consider consulting a professional to check if there's an underlying cause
CaringSharon
October 29th, 2020 11:46pm
There could be a variety of reasons why you feel emotional. You could be 1. tired, 2.hungry, 3. stressed, 4. hormonal or 5. sick. In order to discover what is the reason why you are emotional, check the 4 points first. Give yourself some slack if it is one of the above. Then, you could be emotional because there really is something coo-coo in your life that is causing you to feel overwhelmed with emotions that make you feel out of control. There's always help available. Sometimes you just need a good cry to get that tension out of your system. There's nothing to be ashamed of for being emotional. Everyone has emotions to let them know how they are doing.
Anonymous
November 11th, 2020 12:20pm
This question is perfect for your chat. It is hard to know the reason you are emotional from a paragraph. Emotions are feelings you get. What are those emotions? There are so many descriptive words on emotions from happiness to anger. A great way to find more about how your emotions play into your life is finding a good therapist that can assist you in exploring your emotions. Your emotions are never the issue. It is a response to the issues you are having. So it is important for you to figure out what issues are triggering your emotions. And the second part is how to manage it so you can actively participate in your daily routine without your emotions getting in the way. Well, I hope this helps. 
LaszloSzakali
November 11th, 2020 2:33pm
You may be feeling emotional today. But guess what? You’re allowed to be. We all feel happy, sad, low, or exhilarated. Emotions are a normal part of who we are as humans. Everyone processes events and emotions differently. Unless your emotions are interfering with your day-to-day life, you may just feel things a bit more than others. Or, you might just be feeling extra sensitive today. If someone tells you to be less emotional, they’re probably basing it off of societal standards. Don’t let them put you down. Emotions aren’t weak. They’re human. While emotions are normal, being naturally more emotional may actually have a genetic component. Several older studies suggest that emotion is influenced by genetics. Though there are other factors involved, such as environmental and social influences, human emotions are somewhat inherited. If a family member has an affective disorder, such as major depression, you may have a higher risk of experiencing one as well. Everyone knows what it’s like to wake up on the wrong side of the bed, so it’s not hard to imagine that a lack of sleep can affect your emotional well-being. Sleep deprivation has several effects on your body, including: trouble thinking and concentrating higher risk for anxiety or depression weakened immune system poor balance and a higher risk of accidents It can affect your mood, too, especially the longer sleep deprivation occurs. .We’ve all heard the physical health benefits of exercise, but exercise can also have a big effect on mood and emotions. To keep your emotions in check: Make sure you’re consuming a nutrient-dense diet. Avoid processed, fatty, and fast foods. Avoid skipping meals. Make sure you’re not lacking vital vitamins and minerals.
Anonymous
November 11th, 2020 6:23pm
Our emotional states can and do often fluctuate. Sometimes, we find that we are more susceptible to strong emotions than is usual for us. Many different factors can play a role in this. They can include: physical needs (hunger, exhaustion/tiredness, et cetera), mental health concerns, hormones in the body, situational circumstances (work stress, hardships at home, any "bumps in the road" so to speak), and current or recent life events (grief, recovery, et cetera). If you want to know what is affecting your heightened emotional state right now, you should review those types of factors and see if any of them have deviated from what you consider your norm, to assess which one (or combination of ones) is the probable cause of your emotionality.
Adrijawithyou
February 21st, 2021 6:38pm
There can be a variety of reasons. There could probably be an incident, that happened with you, in front or you, or to a relative that made you feel emotional. Or, it could just be that you're not having a good day, or things are suddenly not going according to plan. It could also be that your life has taken a sudden turn that you did not expect. Or, maybe, you remembered an incident from the past. Or, it could simply just be that you're feeling emotional without any evident reason. No matter what the reason is, it's okay. Take a deep breath, and you will feel better.
Anonymous
February 24th, 2021 12:16pm
Emotions are a healthy part of our life and you cannot run away from them. If you feel that you are being emotional (more than you usually do) it reflects on your inner turmoil. At this point it is important for you to understand that you need to pay attention to yourself and do not think about what people say. Take a break from things that usually consume all your energy. Take a break and take care of yourself. Indulge in some self care techniques like yoga, meditation etc. If you feel that it's safe, you can also take a mini vacation.
JanetAtDrexel
May 23rd, 2021 12:53am
Sometimes we are emotional because our body and mind are reacting appropriately to the stimulus around us. If, like many of us these days, you have a lot of stress in your life, then you just might be reacting as you should. But, if the level of emotion you are experiencing are bothering you, then it may be worth trying some activities to manage them. Two of the best things to manage emotion are exercise and sleep. I know, they seem opposite, but they each have benefits. Another great option to reduce the impact of high emotions is to talk about it - with anyone. If you don't have someone to talk, consider reaching out to a 7 cups listener or one of the communities.
hopefulArrow2212
June 5th, 2021 2:51pm
Firstly it is totally fine to feel emotional. Sometimes an outpouring of emotions overtake us because something may have triggered something we feel about strongly, or it could have released a damn of thoughts and feelings you might have been holding in for some time, even if it's subscioncious. It may seem like a small and silly thing right now but we do not always consciously realize the amount of things buried inside us. The important thing is that you relieve yourself of the emotions in a healthy way. Perhaps by pouring it into a creative outlet or even just by talking it out with someone close to you. Write it out in a journal if you prefer to keep it private or something. What's important is accepting and acknowledging you are in a vulnerable state and from there you can move on once you have let it out.
Kpopcat2020
February 12th, 2022 1:22pm
Feeling heightened emotions or like you're unable to control your emotions can come down to diet choices, genetics, or stress. It can also be due to an underlying health condition, such as depression or hormones. Crying more than is normal for you may be a symptom of depression or a neurological disorder. Some signs that you are suffering emotionally are: Personality changes in a way that seems different for that person, agitation or displaying anger, anxiety or moodiness, withdrawal or isolation from others, poor self-care and perhaps engaging in risky behavior, and hopelessness or feelings of being overwhelmed and worthless.
mwood5
February 26th, 2022 1:00pm
Hi there! There can be several reasons as to why you are emotional. Has something happened lately in your life that's upsetting you? Anything at all? When did it happen? How did it happen? Maybe that is what is making you feel low and emotional; it happens a lot more than you'd realise. Whatever the cause is, do you know how you could overcome that? Any strategies when dealing with it? If not, try to find some, and if that isn't possible either, try some distractions. Usually, happy/upbeat music will help! (It helps me whenever I feel emotional for absolutely no reason!). If you want to chat about this more, please feel free to DM me anytime you wish so!
spicyvaish
March 17th, 2022 2:24pm
You could be emotional due to a multitude of reasons. It could be stress, hormones, or due to a mental health illness like depression. It's important to acknowledge your feelings and find the root cause of what's making you emotional so that you can work from the bottom to the top. It is okay to cry and express your emotions in a healthy manner as long as it does not negatively effect you or your loved ones. Rather than trying to suppress or repress your emotions, try regulating them in a healthy and appropriate manner. Take a deep breath and try practicing meditation. Keep track of your moods throughout the day. And try to take a break and give yourself some time and space away from other people.
Train1
March 18th, 2022 12:10pm
Let me know what is on your mind. Then we can discuss the problem together to find a solution. Just venting or discussing the problem will help because you never know, I may be experiencing the same thing or may have experienced it in the past. The way that we cope with our problems may be different but it is always worth discussing as it will reduce the loneliness that you are feeling by dealing with your issues alone. Have a deep think because the problem that you have may not be what you think. But the most important thing is to not give up hope.
Anonymous
May 18th, 2022 9:38pm
feeling very emotional can be a result of bottling up a lot of emotion over time. it can also be due to a lot of pressure, or stress from external factors, such as school, work, or even friends and family. when feeling confused it is good to talk to someone that can help you navigate through these emotions, and help you understand their source. discuss which emotions you are feeling with someone you trust, and even if you don't figure out the answer, perhaps allow yourself to discover ways to clear up these jumbled emotions, or find a way to express your emotions rather than bottling them, and keeping them in you.
Sunisshiningandsoareyou
May 19th, 2022 3:05pm
Hey there, thankyou for reaching out with your question. Sometimes we may struggle to understand why we are feeling the way we do, it's likely more common when some heavier emotions are involved. I want to assure you that it is okay to feel as you do, it is super okay to let your emotions flow and simply to *feel* them. We don't have to rush into, what or why or how of things, and can always take our time to manage the same. Would you perhaps consider journaling? It could be a personal moment for you, where you can sit with your feelings and talk to yourself, self introspection, is so important, I feel and we should definitely allow ourselves time and space to check in with how we are doing. Some possible questions you can ask yourself to gain more clarity of your emotions could be, how do you feel right in the instant?, what's something good that happened recently?, what's something significant that happened recently?, To try and recollect the past week's experiences, what happened, how were you doing, how you feel about your days, if something affected you, if you'd like to change something etc. Again, you're allowed to feel as you do, as your emotions are valid and it might not seem currently, but you will be able to cope better, please be gentle to yourself and take it one emotion at a time. Sending love.
Anonymous
May 25th, 2022 12:08am
Sometimes I feel like we are in a tough place, and we need to take a step back and really reflect on what is going on in our lives right now. If we do not understand what is hurting us, how are we going to move forward and fix the problems that we are facing? For me, I like to spend 10 minutes writing down everything on my mind at that time. Then, I will go down the list and see if there are a couple things that are common among things on my list and start to figure out how to conquer these problems.