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How do I know when my child is mature and responsible enough to have a pet to care for on his own?

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Last Updated: 06/30/2020 at 2:09pm
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Noreb
February 7th, 2015 4:31pm
I would say that if your child is responsible enough to take care of himself, i.e., brush teeth take a bath, feed themselves etc, that is sufficient. You will still have to remind them and be sure it gets done, but taking care of a pet is a great teaching moment for responsibility.
Anonymous
November 3rd, 2015 3:32pm
you wont know it till you give him a chance.....buy him a pet even if hes not mature he would be taking a step to be mature.... :)
KurtCups711
July 24th, 2018 3:17pm
Pets are great for childhood development at any age. As a parent, assume they cannot manage the responsibility alone. Plan to take care of the pet with them and you can be pleasantly surprised if they don't need your help.
Neil22713
April 13th, 2015 2:06am
The fact is there is no specific answer. Try starting with a small pet like a goldfish or something that is easy and low maintence or even by allowing them some small responsiblity with a family pet. Then work your way up to their own pet as you see them succeding along the way!
Anonymous
April 29th, 2015 12:46am
Observe their care of their possessions and how they handle their chores. If they handle these with care, they will likely also handle the pet in the same manner.
butterflykisses27
July 11th, 2015 7:08am
When they can take direction from you and complete the task on a regular basis. Taking responsibility for other things around the house is a good indication they maybe able to care for a pet.
TheFilipinoHeart
August 10th, 2015 4:11am
Bring him/her to a zoo and that should act as an examination to test whether or not he/she will have a pet to care on his/her own.
Anonymous
November 1st, 2015 11:55pm
You know there child best and you can always help if needed. Can they tidy their room regularly, make their own breakfast or snack? Give them small responsibilities such as doing dishes or taking out trash? Teach them the importance of tasks and reward them with praise encouragement and their own pet :)
vinylbkwrm333
July 25th, 2016 3:08am
I would honestly start out with a plant, then a fish, then a small bird. If you have a family pet for the whole family, try assigning tasks for the child to regularly feed, water, walk or otherwise care for and clean up after that pet first. I know so many pets that were given away because a parent or grandparent gave the child a pet with the best of intentions, but the child quickly loses interest because other things compete for time and attention.
Bonnie1
November 21st, 2016 5:20pm
How does your child handle his other responsibilities around the house? If he does his chores with relatively little protesting, and is able to manage his schoolwork successfully, then perhaps he is ready for the responsibility of a pet.
Keepyourmindcalm
June 30th, 2020 2:09pm
This question made me smile! Well, in order to know if your child is going to be responsible to take care of a pet, you could tell him/her to pass a “testing period”. The child could either take care of a fake baby -there are babies for new parents who cry when they want to eat, poop, sleep- or be responsible of anything similar. It may sounds silly but it would be really helpful. Of course a dog doesn’t have so many needs as a baby, however both you and your child could see how ready is the child to take such a responsibility. Good luck ;)