Can you fall back in love with someone you don’t trust?
Last Updated: 05/31/2021 at 6:30am
Lauren Abasheva, LMHC
Licensed Professional Counselor
A sex positive, and kink knowledgeable therapist with an open mindset and a clear understanding that we are all different.
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You can, but that love will never be the same. The reason you don't trust them will never leave your mind. It'll nudge at you and keep poking its way back in. You'll look at them and know you love them, but you'll see them differently. I had an ex that cheated on me. We stayed together, which was dumb, but I loved her. I still loved her more and more every day. But I couldn't look at her the same at all. Looking at her would throw my mind into a frenzy. It didn't last much longer and we split. Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean that being with them is the right move. Put your own happiness above all else.
I think a good question to ask is why don't you trust them in the first place and if it's a good idea to love without trust. More importantly, do you think it's possible to love without trust?
It may take time and a lot of work but if you truly care about that person anything is possible. Love has no limits.
Trust once broken, breaks the heart too......and to love the same person again with a broken heart is very difficult. Trust is the basis of every relationship.
it all depends on how strong your feelings are for them, if you dont trust them it is because they would have done something (considering they were in your life and something happened that made you have serious trust issues) but if you are anticipating they can break your trust again and are not true to their words, it might be the right time to take a step back and think if you might be placing your heart before your heart, after all dear you are amazing and if someone who has broken your trust is not worth all that, move on and find what you really want.and if they messed up and you think giving them a chance can change your perspective...then its ok to trust them again. let alone fall in love :)
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