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I am fall in love with my old friend at jhs and now we both are university students at different collage and different province. I could not forget about him and even dream abt him oftn wht shld i do?

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Last Updated: 04/24/2018 at 7:11am
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PhoenixAsh
November 19th, 2017 10:36am
That must be a really tough situation! If you still have feelings for him, perhaps you could consider reaching out to him online or by phone if you have his number? Whether that's for closure, or to reach out to him and see if things might be able to develop is up to you. It's important to consider that even if you do reach out to him, things may not go the way you want - and that's okay! As tough as it may be, life goes on, and university is an awesome time to make new friends and develop relationships! I hope all goes well!
Anonymous
April 24th, 2018 7:11am
That's a difficult one. I have had old crushes that I start thinking about again repeatedly, when I find myself doing that a lot about the same person, I ask myself, "what is it about the person that I miss most?" and see if there's something from that friendship/relationship that's one of my basic needs that isn't getting fulfilled lately, or if there's something else that I'm missing. My own experience with trying to rekindle friendships (lots of times, like at least a few dozen times, I tried this a lot for a long time) didn't go very well, because I kept forgetting that people change a lot when I've been out of everyday contact with them for a long time. This may not apply to your situation, but I hope something in it maybe gives you an idea of something that would apply for you.