I broke up with my ex the day after he poured his heart to me and said I love you. I moved on today and found a new guy. Is it bad to move on too quickly?
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Last Updated: 06/06/2022 at 8:50am
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It really depends. If you moved on that quickly, I am guessing that you did not feel the same way. It also depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking to just date and mingle, I do not see an issue with this.
If you did love him and moved on that quickly, it might come back at you. Usually if we try to move past feelings too quickly or ignore them, they will eventually resurface. If that is the case, you might end up hurting the new guy too.
No dear , obviously not , it's fine to move on quickly . You do deserve nd have every right to love the guy you want to. Your happiness and well being should always be your first priority nd it's fine to choose your happiness over anything . Be with the person you enjoy being with , there's no meaning of holding on to your past . You did the right thing nd there's no need of feeling guilty about it 😊. If you are happy with this new guy then that's absolutely fine. Stay happy nd always keep your happiness above else things💖
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