I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex and I feel extremely guilty about it, I don’t know what to do with myself, help?😔
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Last Updated: 09/14/2020 at 11:54pm
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Think about why you cheated, think about if you were unsatisfied in a certain way, and what could have satisfied you. Focus on self improvement and improving communication. Talk to a therapist if you're able too.
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I understand how difficult this can be. Feelings of guilt can be quite the challenging emotion. We want to acknowledge that guilt so if needed we can alter our behavior but also accepts ourselves as who we are, human beings. We are going to make mistakes along our journey because we are imperfect. Accept the feeling you have without judgment, and see what lesson, value or new perspective you can take from this experience. It is your choice whether you want to share this with your current boyfriend but remember to have compassion amd forgiveness towards yourself. If it helps, imagine the advice you would give a friend if they were in your shoes.
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