I love him, but I am not proud of his physical appearance. I'm ready to get married and I think he does not worth my family expectations. What can I do to be proud of him?
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Anonymous
April 3rd, 2018 7:45pm
You just have to sit down and think if you really love and wish to spend your life with this man. Do not worry about what other people have to say, he's not marrying your family, he's marrying you. If he makes you happy, that's everything you need.
If you're really sure you love him and he loves you equally, don't let these thoughts affect you. If you marry a very handsome guy who your family also likes and he doesn't love you, wld that be better. They'll be happy with your marraige but you won't. It's actually you, who should be happy with it.
Love is what really matters in the end. Trust me..!!
Humans that are truly in love would automatically try their best to look or be grand for their loved ones, his physical appearance should be his problem, not yours. Just be proud that with million people you have met he's the one who makes you happy and safe, someone who's brave enough to share secrets and pain with you.
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