I was ghosted recently without any explanation. I feel humiliated how the guy is not responding to me. The feeling is unbearable and I've done nothing wrong. Why did he not respect me and care about me?
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I wish I had the perfect answer... but there will never be a good enough reason why he ghosted you. I can say though that we have no control over others actions. We could be the best thing since sliced bread and someone could toss us away like yesterday's trash due to them not recognizing tasty bread, right? In my experience, I have pushed through the embarrassment and taken the high road. Just because they can't see it, doesn't mean you're not worthy of the respect you deserve. Keep your head high and believe that there is someone searching for exactly what you are! Good vibes, my friend.
Anonymous
September 24th, 2018 6:03am
I get your feeling a litte down about yourself. There is no need for any of that. The guy might be going through something on his end, maybe give him a little time to answer before jumping to conclusions. he probably does respect and care about you. you’re an amazing human being and i’m sure he’ll come around soon enough. if he doesn’t, no worries. there are plenty of other guys out here who would just be perfect with you. you don’t need to always have a man either. but, he will probably come around. if you’ve truly done nothing wrong, there is nothing to worry about, i promise.
I understand how it feels, makes you think weak of yourself, might even make you feel embarrassed and you would lose hope and not want to try it out again. Trust me it’s alright, not everyone will feel the same as you do. He was just someone who wasn’t meant to be with you and this means that someone better will come into your life. Some guys don’t understand how it feels until they haven’t been in that scenario. Just don’t demotivate yourself. You’re beautiful and you deserve better. Just always keep saying this to yourself and see how confident you get later on
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