It's been months and I'm still in love with him. I've tried to get over him but I just cant and every time he texts me it hurts so bad knowing it'll never be the same. I just can't bring myself block him. What can I do?
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It's going to be hard but I do suggest, generally, to at least take enough time away from them so you can get over this person. How long? At least half the time you dated is a good rule of thumb, and you should probably block him for that time because it sounds like hearing from him is kind of painful right now.
So what should you do?
Pick up a new hobby
Take a night class
Read
Join a book club
Learn a language
Plan a trip
The point is to occupy yourself doing something you want to do. Invest in yourself. Focus on yourself and not him and you will be okay.
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