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My boyfriend says he loves me but he doesn't act like he cares..it..he never really calls or texts unless i do...when we meet he acts luke he really cares,im tired and confused.what should i do?

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Last Updated: 07/27/2021 at 4:48pm
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gentlebonk1999
August 27th, 2018 4:27am
You should sit down and talk - that way, you can tell him how you feel. He may love you, but be unsure of how to show it, in which case, talking it over can help to come to a consensus. If you wish to have a good relationship, communication is key - however, if one is unable to demonstrate their emotions for you, then that doesn't mean they don't love you; however, it can be incredibly harrowing to a relationship if one isn't able to demonstrate how they feel. Often, the best thing to do is to sit down and talk.
LivieGrace
December 22nd, 2020 4:33am
My first recommendation is always communication. That is probably what you've been told a lot, but you're told it a lot because it's true. If you're feeling one way, but you don't ever tell him that you're feeling like that, he may never even know that something is wrong that you're feeling. You can't work together with your partner to solve a problem if both members don't know there's a problem. I know it's a tough situation in, but open, honest communication can truly reshape how the interactions in the relationship change and can improve. Let him know you want him to show that he cares. Let him know that you want him to call or text. Tell him.
LightKitten
July 27th, 2021 4:48pm
Hi! From personal experience it is important to have a good level of communication in your relationship, so that you can both better understand how the other person feels. I would recommend trying to talk to him about how you feel in a mature way, so that you can have an open discussion about each others feelings and why you feel this way. Being able to talk to your partner will help you to understand and connect with each other better. Though I cant fully give advice on your specific situation, I hope this advice helps you and that you are able to talk to him about it!