What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?

Sometimes simply asking the question "Why are you ignoring me?" can open the communication to start understanding and working on solutions together.

Well, first and foremost is observing the situation objectively. You feel ignored. What is he doing that makes you feel that way? What behavior would make you feel heard? And then gently (without accusing him of ignoring you, although I know it can be tempting) bring up the situation. Maybe ask if there is something on his mind, or let him know that his opinion is valuable to you. Addressing the issue in a caring and open manner helps take away the possible sting of accusation and the reactive defensiveness that often comes with it. Hopefully he will be open to sharing his side of what is going on and to listen to you. Don't forget to be open and to listen to where he is coming from too!

Being ignored feels awful. I can relate. To answer your question: it depends on the situation. Is he ignoring you because he's upset with you for some reason, or is he down and just wants some alone time, or is he ignoring you out of the blue and you don't know why? Is it chronic? If it's chronic, meaning he does this daily or very often, or if it's a big enough issue that it really bothers you, I would talk to him about it. Even if it isn't daily, but it still hurts you, eventually you'd have to talk and let him know how you feel about it, in order for both of you to move past it. With my partner, I talked to him about the times when he ignores me, and how it hurts me because I felt like he was mad at me. He actually said he isn't mad at me, he just wants his space sometimes. So I wouldn't necessarily go chasing him if he ignores you - I give him space and then bring up the topic later when you feel his mood is good and he's willing to chat. When you do talk about it, however, pay close attention to if he's being sincere about it. What does your gut tell you? And go from there :)

Address the elephant in the room. Putting the issue under the carpet is never a solution. Tell him how you feel and have an healthy discussion about the matter. I'm sure it's gonna be alright :D

Try and talk to him, or access why he is ignoring you. If its for a reason try and fix it. If its for no reason ignore him back

Communication definitely is key in a relationship, and in a relationship its no longer just about yourself. Make sure you tell your boyfriend how you feel, and ask him why he ignores you.

In a personal exercise, us a kind and respectful tone and ask he to chat with you about the issue that has him feeling that way and share his thoughts with you openly.

From what I know, it's best to comfort him about it. Communication is the key of every successful relationship.

Make the Boyfriend regret doing it. Tease. Entice. You also need to ask him as to why...after a couple of hours or the next day. Communicate.

Ask him what's wrong. Try to talk to him, and see what's up. Engage in conversation as companions and see what;s happening.

Keep your mind busy, by doing things that please you (reading, singing, dancing, cooking etc) and make sure that your mind doesn't get the slightest chance of being bothered by his ignorance. He surely must be busy with some sort of work. He'll get back to you ASAP. You know that! :) Until then, stop worrying about it by keeping yourself busy! :)

To definitely have a chat with him. Try to ask him gently and in a calm environment why this might be. It could be because of either how he himself is doing emotionally or maybe that he's worried about your relationship, etc. Be careful not to be judgmental immediately as there could be many reasons why he is doing what he's doing.

Don't jump to conclutions.Gently express to your boyfriend that you have something you want to share with him.

If it happens once or twice? Then he may just be buzy. Give him some space (but not too much!). If it's a regular occurrence? Sit him down and tell him how it makes you feel, let him know that you would like abit more attention from him and explain very carefully that you aren't angry or annoyed, just slightly hurt. Hope this helps!

Feeling neglected by a loved one is never an enjoyable experience. When we feel ignored by the person we consider closest to us-- we can become temperamental and become distant ourselves. A positive approach to this situation is simply communicating your concerns to your significant other. By letting them know that you feel neglected or ignored in an open, and honest way--you are inviting them to respond in a positive manner. If you approach the situation with hostility and frustration, you will more than likely put your partner on the defense and minimize any chance of conversation about the situation. Open and loving conversation about your feelings will help your significant other to understand your side of things without putting anyone to blame.

If your boyfriend is ignoring you he is probably mad at something you did or isn't feeling the "spark" anymore. I think you should talk to him about it and maybe you'll find out why. Hope I helped xx

I would try to reach out to him and tell him how he's making you feel. If you tells him it hurts you and makes you question your relationship see how he responds. If he cares enough about your relationship and your feelings, he should know ignoring you is wrong and he should try to make it better.

Communicate, perhaps ask him what is going on, finding out if anything has happened, allow him to know how you are feeling, so that a solution can be sorted out.

Understand that he need space. Send him a message that you are here if he needs you. Give it time. If it is about the relationship, wait for him to approach you.

Let him have his moment, contact him when you think the storm pass away. Bhut if it still doesn't chanfe confrontnhim.

When your boyfriend ignores you, ask him if everything is okay, and make sure he know how it makes you feel when he ignores you.

Ignore him, too. Maybe he is occupied with other things. Send him a message before you go to bed. If he loves you and cares for you he will show you.

Sit him down and personally have a conversation with him, telling him exactly how you feel. Question if there's something wrong.

I think it depends on the situation. Sometimes we feel ignored when in reality someone is just busy or occupied with other things. If he's ignoring you after a fight, it might mean that he needs time to cool off. The best response I can say without knowing the exact situation is to talk to him when you get a chance - let him know you felt ignored, hear his side.

Hunny, if he's ignoring you he isn't right for you. He shouldn't ignore the one he claims to love even if he is mad you two should talk it through and not result to that.

If he ignores you, then, ask him why. Don't tolerate it. But, don't be quick in jumping into conclusion. Honesty and openness should be the key.

it would be annoying if you would try to talk to him all the time so ignore him too, and if he misses you he will text back one day

You should ask him directly why he is doing so. If he does not respond or responds with an answer that indicates he is not interested anymore, then you should not waste your time and attention on him when he is not reciprocating to you. However, if you feel that he has things on his mind and needs some space, realise and understand that sometimes you can help by just being there when he actively asks and seeks your help. It does not immediately mean that something is wrong in your relationship if he is ignoring you.

Try and talk to him and explain to him that you feel ignored. Ask him why he is doing it and suggest ways you would feel more special. If he continues to ignore you you may have to consider getting some help by a professional relationship adviser.

I would say be open with him about it. You don't know maybe he is not ignoring you on purpose and if he really is then you'll find out the reason and maybe you'll find a way to solve it together.