Do my friends care about me or are they just using me?
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Last Updated: 09/07/2020 at 5:55am
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Anonymous
September 7th, 2020 5:55am
It can be painful to be used by a friend .Sometimes though we may read the signs all wrong. Our friends may have good intentions but don't clearly show it.Like she/he may be going through something and might not tell you.Look out for signs that your friend is using you: like if the come to you when they need something, doesn't treat you well in front of your other friends they may be too controlling and hurts your feeling a lot then guilt trips you.Assess their behaviors around you before getting to close.Be careful not to judge them too quick.If they get too toxic be sure to let them go
For being sure, you must see the way that they treat you when you're not making a favor or making them feel good. Like, how much they really care about you and how they show it
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