The way am I feel I am bit reserved, sometimes I feel its okey to be like this after all this is that my birth nature is but sometimes when I can't able to open up n mingle I feel left out wat I do?
Last Updated: 06/26/2018 at 12:21pm
Serene Sarah George, MA in Psychology (Counseling), Diploma in Counseling Skills
Counselor following person centered therapeutic approach, also drawing from techniques of CBT.
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It seems to me, you're at a crossroads between wanting to socialize and being stuck. I feel that everyone at a time has been here. The thing is, no one else can answer this but you. When a situation arises that this is true, it's all up to you. "In this situation, what will make me happiest?" Next time you're in this type of situation, think about it... 1.) Do I want to socialize? (Yes) (No) 2.) Will I feel left out later if I don't? (Yes) (No) 3.) Will (not socializing, socializing) make me happy in this situation? (Yes) (No)
Accept yourself for who you are and other people will accept you too. We are all different and that is the beauty of it.
The most important is you. You have to concentrate on your goals and what you want. You have to adapt on changes and pick out the most valuable thing. You surely can do it.
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