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How do I stop thinking about my crush?

15 Answers
Last Updated: 03/06/2018 at 3:05pm
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Top Rated Answers
Anonymous
July 7th, 2015 1:21am
well honey there isn't a specific solution unless you make your crush a girlfriend but until then there isn't a problem with thinking about her because your into her
KatyAlexandra
October 27th, 2015 6:47am
Crush is the most beautiful and most attractive person in your life. But it hurts alot too when you don't get your crush. It's everyone's wish to get their crush. But it's always better to try your luck when you have chance. Chances are that you will never regret in your life but will still have sweet memories. It might seem impossible at that time but as time passes by everything becomes normal. Even though you might not forget but you will also not obsess. Time is the best healer.
PoppieVanPelt
March 4th, 2018 3:35pm
It's difficult to stop thinking about crush by just telling ourselves to do so. Sometimes doing new activities helps, but it'll be hard if you still can't take your mind of him/her. If you are anything like me, probably you can start making a list of why you should stop thinking about your crush, e.g. you have a lot on your plate so you need to concentrate. Then, every time you think about him/her, read the list you've made to convince yourself that you shouldn't be thinking about your crush. By putting logical reasoning in perspective, your mind will find ways to put the matter aside. And finally, please give yourself a time. I'm sure you'll be fine. I hope it works well for you! All the best :)
SuperSaiyanGod
February 2nd, 2016 4:38pm
Remember that you yourself might be someone else's crush. It's natural to feel that way but crushes get crushed easily so try spending your time and energy on other things that make you happy.
Anonymous
February 16th, 2015 7:19am
What always works for me is just busying myself with other matters, like absorbing myself in work or studying. Getting over your crush will take time, and distraction can help make that time fly by.
Haley622
June 9th, 2015 10:37pm
You can distract your thoughts from your crush by thinking about the other things in life that make you happy--friends, family, exercise, art, reading, etc-- other than one person.
intellectualvoice29
July 7th, 2015 10:00pm
Start by doing things that will take your mind off things for a while, like reading, exercising, talking to friends, etc. It will always come with time and slowly you will forget he/she even exists until someone reminds you of them.
olimaar
October 26th, 2015 3:50pm
Try to find a hobby or somebody new to think about. Watch movies or read books to keep your mind off of others.
GoneGirl81
March 7th, 2016 4:15am
I find that when thoughts start to dwell on the object of our affection too much, having a list or plan of activities you enjoy as a go to can be a great help! Reading, Music, exercise or yoga. pick up the phone and have a non related conversation.
Anonymous
June 13th, 2016 10:51pm
Tell them how you feel and get closer it is the best thing you can do and they may even feel the same about oyu
SandAndStars
May 25th, 2015 3:07pm
Stay positive and calm. Try and focus on a particular activity, such as music or drawing, in order to divert your attention.
JCGeorge95
September 26th, 2016 3:41am
Start to focus on yourself. You may find it can help you re-balance your emotions and help you to move forward!
Anonymous
March 6th, 2018 3:05pm
Indulge yourself in other pursuits. Adapt new hobbies if possible or divert your mind by focusing on other people/situations/event.
Anonymous
March 6th, 2018 12:47am
To stop think about you're crush you can either drift your attention away from thinking about them like doing alternative activities or talking your feelings out about it with a close friend.
ImAllaramo
August 16th, 2016 2:39am
Try different activities. Keep you always busy! Make new plans, discover new hobbies and talents. :)