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How do you get over a crush?
Relationship Stress / by singularitypls
Last post
 February 10th
...See more I went on one date with a guy 2 years ago and I still haven’t stopped thinking about him. There was a lot of chemistry but it was also awkward and we both had some embarrassing moments. The ending was pretty anticlimactic but I was still charmed, and we kept each other in our contacts but never contacted each other since. Ever since I first laid eyes on his picture he’s just been stuck in my mind and I can’t understand why. Maybe it’s because he was the first guy I talked to after I broke up with my ex. The obsessive thoughts have become so irrational and time-consuming and I just want it to end, but I really don’t want to reach out to him. I just want to forget about all of this so I can have full focus on my goals right now, which are already a lot to handle. So I’m here to ask if you’ve ever had an unhealthy crush on someone and how you got over it?
My dad says he wishes he had my disability
Family & Caregivers / by singularitypls
Last post
 August 16th, 2022
...See more I haven’t seen my dad in 7 years but he would sent me birthday and Christmas emails every year. I told him I have epilepsy by asking him to translate my medical records, but he never asked about it, only telling me afterwards that if I wanted to know how he was I could follow him on FB. My therapist told me he’s a narcissist. I never thought about it until our recent exchange of emails where he complained about how I didn’t tell him I had an accident last year. I told him that it was caused by a seizure which he knows I get because I have epilepsy, and that I didn’t tell him because we don’t talk and he never asked about my condition anyway. He proceeded to express how neglected I’ve felt over the year. He told me that I was selfish and spoiled because I was being ungrateful to him who provided me food, shelter and an education for 15 years while he said nobody in this world has ever worked harder than him, and that I can’t understand his struggle with stuttering which he said is worse than whatever I have, that he’d exchange his stuttering for my epilepsy any day. That really hit me and ever since then I’ve been feeling worthless.
A year later and
Relationship Stress / by singularitypls
Last post
 March 20th, 2022
...See more My ex called me out of nowhere after over a year of no contact. He cheated on me and I deleted everything about him from my life, and then I told him never to contact me again. He called with an unknown number so I answered and he started crying. He said he was just so happy that I answered because he’s been meaning to reach out to me but didn’t have the guts to do it. He sounded so dark/sad, like he was out of it, but he said he wasn’t drunk (this was in the middle of the day). He said he still loves me and will always love me, that I was the only person who really saw him for who he was, that I was his only best friend, and that every time he’s sad he’d read my letters. He also said he hoped that one day we would find love in each other again. But I told him that we could be friends but I can’t go back and I don’t wanna take these calls. It’s not good for me. I don’t know what’s going on in his life that’s making him do this, and it worries me. But also, being with him created so much emotional turmoil that I just don’t want to be reminded of the drama.
Did i do something wrong
Relationship Stress / by singularitypls
Last post
 January 17th, 2022
...See more The past year I’ve been active on dating apps to fill thus void of loneliness after a bad breakup, and I’m used to guys asking to see me again after a date and hookup, but the past 2 guys I slept with never asked to see me again. On both occasions I chatted with them for some time before meeting. And on both occasions I ended up sleeping with them at their place. I know, I sound impulsive and people would call that slu*tty, but I’m trying to live out my youth while I still can and I could count my past sexual partners in one hand. I’m just wondering what could be different. I still look the same as before. And the last guy said he hadn’t been on a proper date in two years and that he was having a great time. It’s not that I’m interested in either of them, because I thought they were too much of a “bro”. I’m just confused
How do you cope with the concept of death
Anxiety Support / by singularitypls
Last post
 December 24th, 2021
...See more It’s been bothering me nonstop. For those who don’t believe in an “afterlife”, how do you cope with the idea that everything will one day cease to exist?
Cum-ing
Relationship Stress / by singularitypls
Last post
 November 12th, 2021
...See more I once asked a guy if he had a condom during foreplay. He paused for a bit before leaving the room then coming back to bed and saying that he couldn’t find one, but it didn’t matter because he pre-came anyway. I thought pre-cum just meant a bit of semen came out, so you’d still be able to continue having sex and orgasm? Later that night we finally found a condom, had sex, and he came in like 3 min. Is there some sort of explanation for this
How to move on after someone leaves you for the person they cheated on you with
Relationship Stress / by singularitypls
Last post
 June 7th, 2021
...See more I was just so in love with this guy who manipulated me throughout our relationship. He would do things that hurt me and when I’d break up with him over them, he would guilt me and then love bomb me after, and being the hopeful and stupid person that I am, I’d take him back. But then he cheated on me with this girl who he continued seeing after I found out and broke up with him for the last time, and they’ve now been together for a year and God, it hurts. It’s so so unfair. I was hurting while in love, and then hurt a hundred times more for it, and even after leaving all that behind, I’m still getting hurt. When will this pain just end?
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