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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

ListeningSam
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Hi, My name is Sam, I'm a  26 years old, homeowner who is currently living in my third country. I decided to give my time now and then on 7cups to make use of my listening and caring side. I am openminded and non judgmental with situatations and like to provide honest friendly support. Being only in my mid twenties I am fully aware of the many stresses in everyday life, school, work, financial, relationships, ect, I have been there and happy to help others in their time of need.
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IngeniousFriend590
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*I truly believe that every single person must go through something that absolutely destroys them so they can figure out who they really are. * "The worst part about having a mental illness is PEOPLE expect you to behave as if you  DONT"   -Joker Welcome to 7 Cups! Remember that you are brave for being receptive to help; as well as acknowledging that you can't figure everything out on your own. It is strong because it requires you to be honest with yourself, others and tends to make one more vulnerable.   Here for whatever you'd like to discuss ❤ I've been through a lot and learned a lot.  I can't discuss most Chronic Illness topics. If you have a topic to discuss, please tell me honestly so we can be on the same page. I'm here for you.   People in depression aren't lazy. people with anxiety aren't rude. People with suicidal thoughts aren't attention seekers. People with mental illness aren't crazy. Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!!!!
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SheKnowsHope
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Please READ If I did not accept your personal or general request and message you, I am unavailable to chat. Please do not message me. Hello, my name is Crys and I'd love to help you. Remember the invisible staircase [https://ideas.ted.com/why-are-we-so-bad-at-predicting-what-will-happen-to-us-in-the-future/] in front of you. (Courtesy of T).  As a listener, we are trained in Active Listening, which is listening in a way that shows compassion and empathy. Listeners will ask you open ended questions to help guide the conversation. It is meant to be a supportive environment for you to grow and learn more about yourself. We are here to listen and support you in your time of need, thus advice will not be given.  Advice is really easy to give, but it can sometimes be wrong or even harmful. I don't have a full understanding of your life or world. Any advice I'd give you would be limited and potentially wrong. You are the expert on you. The best thing I can do for you is to help you figure out the path that makes the most sense to you. Thank you for your understanding.  If you are suicidal please go to crisischat.org [http://crisischat.org] or imalive.org [http://imalive.org] to speak with a trained professional.
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LemonTea2
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1.) Introduction I've been through anxiety myself, and I know first hand the struggles of feeling alone and left out. Worry not, just take my hand. I'm here to guide you to the promised land.  2.) Personality 💛🍋I'm a bittersweet lemon💛🍋 I am also an INFP; 4% of the general population Introverted; Indicates a person who is energized by time alone. Intuitive Who focuses on ideas and concepts rather than facts and details. Feeling Who makes decisions based on feelings and values  Perceiving Who prefers to be spontaneous and flexible rather than planned and organized ❇ I'll always be less than my other selves So I feel like I'm competing with someone else ❇ 3.) Likes and Dislikes Likes 🎡 Motorbikes 🏍 🎡 Photography 📷 🎡 Anime 🉐 🎡 Rain and Thunder ☔ 🎡 Martial arts 🙏 🎡 Alternative Rock 🎸 🎡 Video Games 🎮 🎡 Mechanical Pencils ✏ 🎡 Psychology 💭 🎡 Chicken noodle soup with a soda on the side 🍜🥤 Dislikes 💀 Sea Food 🐠 💀 Plane crash documentaries ✈ 💀 One word replies 🆗 💀 Group chats 👥 4.) My perspective  An important point to make is that sometimes the way we feel is nothing more than an echo from the past. It's been conditioned into you. Scorched into your brain. If you sit around and choose to wallow in that familiar pain, then you can never hope to feel relief. Even in the fell clutch of circumstance, you do have a CHOICE to make. Choose to get up and DO something. It's not about the hand that you are dealt. It's about creating your own reality and label the old feelings for what they truly are; Pathological liars. If you never allow your mind to be saturated with healthy, positive emotions, then you will forever be stuck in your own quicksand, sabotaging yourself. I know that it may be a slow step by step process but that first step is all it takes. °·.    ·  ✦ ·* .  •    ·  •.   ✶˚  .   ·*✧* ˚  · . ·* . ✵.         ✧✵ .·    ✵  ✫˚            · · .             ·✦ ˚  · .           ⊹   · . *            ..   . °  You are never as down and out as it may         seem, and you are definitely not alone.
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Holmes33
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Hello! I'm here to offer you a compassionate and supportive space on 7 Cups. As a listener, I understand that life can be challenging, and sometimes we all need someone to talk to who can provide empathy and understanding. I believe in the power of active listening, empathy, and kindness to make a positive difference in people's lives. My goal is to create a safe and non-judgmental environment where you can freely express your thoughts and feelings. I'm here to lend an ear, offer encouragement, and help you navigate through difficult emotions or situations. Whether you're facing stress, anxiety, relationship issues, or simply need someone to vent to, I am here to provide a listening ear and a caring heart. Drawing from my own life experiences and continuous learning, I aim to offer you insights and perspectives that can help you find clarity, resilience, and empowerment. Together, we can explore strategies to overcome challenges, build inner strength, and foster personal growth. Remember, you are not alone. We all face ups and downs in life, and it's okay to seek support. I'm honored to be part of your journey and to provide a compassionate space where you can freely express yourself. Feel free to reach out to me, and let's embark on this journey together. Your well-being and emotional health matter, and I'm here to support you every step of the way.
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Ashy
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a busy IT worker that cares and makes time to listen to you. i care❤️
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stargirl123456
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I am here to listen to you so that you don't feel alone and know that you can always ask for help. We are not alone in our negative emotions.
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YourNeighbourhoodsuperhero
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🎅🎉🎉🎄🎄Merry Christmas! And a happy new year to all! May all your dreams and wishes come true 🎄🎄🎉🎉🎉🎅
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delicateMonkey
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Hello, it's nice to meet you! I have a B.S. in Psychological Sciences and have plans to become a psychiatrist. I am in the EST time zone and am typically available at night. If you personally request me and then my status changes to offline, I will be with you soon! I set my status to red so that I can focus of my current chats. I like to keep chats to ~1 hour, as that allows us to make progress. Reaching out is the hardest part, but you've already taken the first step! If we talk, please leave me a review! I strive to better myself as I go through my journey as a 7Cups listener! 💮 -Please be patient and kind to your listener. We are not professionals and need you to meet us halfway.- "You will succeed in whatever you choose to do, and light will shine on the road ahead of you." ------------------------- I currently do not have the capacity to take on more long-term members, but I will happily take one-off chats! For listeners: I do peer support - please PM me if you need! You will often catch me in the LSR 💘
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Evelynna
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Take a big deep breath... Inhale through your nose 1..2..3..4 Hold your breath 1..2..3..4..5..6..7 Exhale completely, through your mouth 1..2..3..4..5..6..7..8 Maybe it was fate or maybe it was the search engine but you're here now and you're reading this so, Hello! I'm Lynn and I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.  I'm an active listener and I like to support people struggling with life or if you just need an ear. I'm someone you can come to. I know what it's like to have made mistakes and have messed up a lot of times in life. This is a judgement free zone. So feel free to contact me if I am on-line. Otherwise you can send me a message and we can schedule a time that works for us. I always reply albeit late sometimes. Happy to help. Looking forward to talking to you!
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milo87
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Sexual and Sexuality Issues. Relationship stress. Breakups.  Helping others is always different and always interesting – no two conversations are the same. It feels like a privilege to have people confiding in you. Spending a few hours helping other people makes me feel I've made a difference.
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Hearzeroyou
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