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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Andrew13
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Hey! My name is Andrew and I am 31 years old. I'd like to listen to your story and what has brought you here. Some people just need someone to listen to them, others need a friend. Consider me both your friend and the person that will listen to you in your time of need. Sit back, relax and enjoy your stay here on 7 Cups of Tea. I am confident that you won't leave disappointed.
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SheKnowsHope
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Please READ If I did not accept your personal or general request and message you, I am unavailable to chat. Please do not message me. Hello, my name is Crys and I'd love to help you. Remember the invisible staircase [https://ideas.ted.com/why-are-we-so-bad-at-predicting-what-will-happen-to-us-in-the-future/] in front of you. (Courtesy of T).  As a listener, we are trained in Active Listening, which is listening in a way that shows compassion and empathy. Listeners will ask you open ended questions to help guide the conversation. It is meant to be a supportive environment for you to grow and learn more about yourself. We are here to listen and support you in your time of need, thus advice will not be given.  Advice is really easy to give, but it can sometimes be wrong or even harmful. I don't have a full understanding of your life or world. Any advice I'd give you would be limited and potentially wrong. You are the expert on you. The best thing I can do for you is to help you figure out the path that makes the most sense to you. Thank you for your understanding.  If you are suicidal please go to crisischat.org [http://crisischat.org] or imalive.org [http://imalive.org] to speak with a trained professional.
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agentsky1705
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Welcome to my profile! Feel free to request or chat with me. (╹◡╹)♡ mental illnesses and triggers listed below!! ~teen ~she/they ~gaming, writing, drawing, cosplay, psychology, horror ~has CPTSD, depression and OSDD (all diagnosed) ~please refrain from discussing topics of child abuse, sexual assault and grooming with me! Thank you for understanding.
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InsightfulPhoenix
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My name is InsightfulPhoenix or Phoe 🥰 I'm 100% Nonbinary bean, my pronouns are she/they I'm a proud parent, I'm also very much engaged💖 I enjoy the little things in life. Please respect my pronouns, boundaries as a person. We all have things we go through so choose kindness, because some people fight silent battles💖
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walkalot
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*Not taking new members for now. I need to slow down. I will still support my current members. Thanks for your understanding.* I don't claim to be an expert, but I appreciate when people listen respectfully and attentively to me. I hope to provide the same for you.
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˚    ✦   .  .   ˚ .      . ✦     ˚     . ★⋆. ࿐࿔    .     ˚     *     ✦   .  .   ✦ ˚      ˚ .˚    ✦   .  .   ˚ .                    ˳·˖✶   ✦   ₊˚⊹♡ Welcome! ♡⊹ ˚₊ It’s not always the easiest step to reach out for help when you are experiencing life’s struggles. I’d like to congratulate you on being courageous and absolutely precious.  Thank you for taking a step forward by just being here on 7 Cups.  You presence here matters. 。゚゚・。・゚゚。    –You- matter.  ゚・。・゚  I am Gentle Healing, a trained active listener on 7 Cups. This means that I will be here to listen to you with compassion and empathy. I provide a safe space to heal without biases, judgement and prejudice. Feel free to share with me as little or as much as you desire. ˗ˏˋ ★ I am with you. ★ ˎˊ˗ Think of me as your virtual friend and well-wisher. My listening style is warm, gentle and interactive. I cannot give advice, but I will help you in navigating your thoughts and feelings by asking questions that will push your thinking. During our safe space, anonymity is strictly held. You can lean on me. I would be honored to be a part of your support network. ˚    ✦   .  .   ˚ .      . ✦     ˚     . ★⋆. ࿐࿔    .     ˚     *     ✦   .  .   ✦ ˚      ˚ .˚    ✦   .  .   ˚ .                    ̣̇˳·˖✶   ✦  
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RoxanneChristiana
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I am retired and have two cats, Hansel and Gretel.  Besides cats, my interests include writing, painting, science fiction, UFOs, art, music, reading, spirituality, and paranormal phenomena.  I am also a news junkie.   I believe that forgiveness and gratitude are two big components of mental health.   I try to be on here every day except Sunday from 9:00am to 1:00pm, Central Daylight Time, USA.  If you would like to chat with me during those times then please leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I'm able.
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Soulfulbeing75
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Please read before requesting me  Hi there! I'm a compassionate and understanding listener, but I'm also direct and I will not sugar coat your situation. I'm here to chat with you about what's on your mind and/or troubling you. I'm very easy to talk with, and nothing you tell me will shock me. I will listen without judgment and help you the best way that I can. However, I prefer not to take chats related to gender, religion, relationship or sexual related issues. If you are a listener, and want to chat personally, please contact me on your member account. I've been trolled quite a bit on here. Please don't be selfish and waste my time. There are members here who are reaching out for genuine help. I'm not here to stimulate your sexual interests... you will be blocked.  Rest assured that our chat will be a safe place to express yourself, as confidentiality is extremely important to me. Honesty is just as important. So, please be honest with me at all times. Lying to me will only decrease my passion for helping you.  I've been through plenty myself... You're not alone. Come say hello ;) Also, please keep in mind that I'm not a professional, and I do this voluntarily. Thank you! 💗  
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Tamikiiii
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Hey there! My name is Tamiki but you can call me Tami in short. I go by (she/he/they) pronouns. I'm 15 and I'm always here to listen and support you <3. Late replies are to be expected sometimes because I am a working student. I joined 7 cups because helping others makes me happy and it warms my heart. I also want to be the reason why people smile and maybe become someone's trusted friend too 😅. I really want to thank the other listeners who have helped me during my newbie days and helped me grow to become a good listener for everyone. I really appreciate the support they have given me <3. ________________________________________ To whoever is reading this, No matter how hard life can be, there will always be someone out there who loves and cares for you <3 We all have our ups and downs and that's okay, everyone goes through this and you are not alone in this tough battle. Be easy on yourself, buddy! Your feelings and emotions are valid and you shouldn't feel bad about it. You are no burden. These hard feelings may take some time to get rid of and it's alright <3. These will all fade away eventually as long as we don't give up! Keep smiling, keep laughing, keep enjoying stuff, stay healthy. You are perfect the way you are. Love and respect yourself, always 💙.
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lucy2
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Please note I listen to teens only at present. Hello my friends, I am pleased to say I am now available to take chats, you can also leave me a message and I will get back to you asap<3 I am so pleased you have found me on 7cups of Tea! My roles on 7cups I am the Community Mentor Leader for General Support. (Previously) Adult / Teen Listener Needs reply team (Previously) Door Keeper Global Moderator I'm a trained Teen and Adult Listener  and I look forward to supporting you. I hope you will feel comforted knowing there is someone here who understands your needs and worries and I look forward to chatting with you. If my status is shown as offline or busy, please message me and I will get back to you asap. Chat soon Lucy2 <3
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IdealChaos
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Verified (: Hello. I'm anonymous, accepting, kind, and dare I say .. humorous 😌  Feel free to msg even if I show as busy.  This should feel more like a friendly listening ear as opposed to sitting in a therapist's office. ☺️ I tend to not be able to help much with breakups. 44yo INFP  
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delightfulUnicorn38
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i m unicorn an active listener and peer pro too , if you need any help just pm and i ll be happy to have you  i ve been since 2017 i adore this place , witch learn me  to survive and help others.                                                                                                                                                                                  
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