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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

CheeryMango
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Welcome to my bio!  Please note that my response time is within 3 days.  Hello, Bonjour, Hola, Guten Tag, Ciao, Ola, Ni Hao! I'm CheeryMango or commonly known as Mango here on 7cups. I'm currently the Subcommunities Coordinator which means I oversee all operations within the Subcommunity Domain.  Please feel free to reach out for support connected to the site and Subcommunities! I am unable to take on chat requests right now. Please connect to our listeners here!  [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]
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Bella20
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I do NOT take sexual chats of any kind. Please do not request me if it is sexual in any kind of nature Hiya everyone! My name is Kayla. 😊  I would like to start out by saying that I am super excited to be here as a listener! I have been through a lot in my life. Without all of the trauma and challenges, I wouldn't be who I am today and I wouldn't change anything given the chance. 🥰 I have personal experience with many different  areas of Addiction and I’m also 2.5 years sober as well! I am very passionate about listening and helping others. Everything listed as chats that I take, are issues that I have personal experience with. 💕 HOURS I AM AVAILABLE ***(Hours are subject to change dependent upon my personal life)*** Monday through Friday: 6pm - 11pm EST time Saturdays: 9pm - 12:00am EST time Sundays: Self-Care Day, Not available for chats, May take a few but it truly depends on the circumstances of the day for me ***If I am offline when you message me, I will respond as soon as I can!*** CHATS I TAKE✅: Work Stress Panic Attacks Alcohol/Drug Abuse Chronic Pain Family Stress Forgiveness Parenting PTSD Relationship Stress Women's Issues Self Esteem Spirituality CHATS I DO NOT TAKE❌: Anxiety Depression Sexual Health (I will not take any chats that are sexual in any nature. Whether that be fantasies, roleplays, or in general sexual health.) Domestic Violence Grief Loneliness Men's Issues  Personality Disorders Self-Harm Schizophrenia  Everything that is said between me and you will remain between me and you. 💕  Remember: YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND YOU ARE LOVED! ♥️ Looking to send an appreciation for a listener or member? Click the button below to spread some smiles🥰 Peer Appreciation Form Button [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AppreciationGratitude_170/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationFormButton_285738/] Community Projects I am a part of: ⭕ Peer Supporter ✨ ⭕ Listener Chatroom Supporter ✨ ⭕Room Supporter for Member Community Room/Sharing Circle/Support Room 24/7 ✨  ⭕ Peer Appreciation Team  (Star Leader, Dashboard Designer, and Smile Spreader 💕) ✨ ⭕ Leadership Development Program ✨ Listener Twins: @OllieRNLI999 💕 & @MindfulJourney22 💕 Mentors: @Kristynsmama🌸 & @Sunisshiningandsoareyou🌸 LINKS FOR MEMBERS Moderator/Listener Review Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScmfpQqScgcFxOSHveQfbP52m-XNu-DBC6oK7ieTHrGQ4hJ3w/viewform] Why did I get this warning? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/underconstruction_44686/] Rules of Engagement [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Welcome_27/CommunityGuidelinesandProtocol_446/RulesofEngagement_62/1/] Member FAQ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/GroupSupportMemberFAQ_37007/] Group Support Chat Room Emergency [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScRXkwrrPicWRzUvBPYq2wrblHE5HexqFmVA3k3B4QLEoNyHw/viewform] Report A Missing Discussion/Event [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8EnUN-ZDdjEBQDP5D6-vi2noQdLndJ2H13woo89UhxlkhlQ/viewform] LINKS FOR LISTENERS Sign Up to be a Group Mod [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScX7nNahJocq0tgDYBesRicWxTfExFCe5QMI-O-04K-qBjZrA/viewform] Sign Up to be a Room Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform] Become a Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/PeerSupportForum_397/PeerSupportBadgeGetInvolvedSupportTheCommunity_2474/1/] Join a Support Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/]  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/] New Listener Hub [https://www.7cups.com/home/welcome/?notifyID=178791978] Apply to Become an Adult-Teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/WelcometotheListenerLearningSupportForum_59/ApplytobeanAdultTeenListenerHere_1035/1/]
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Waltzzzz
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Hello! I Don't Take Requests anymore. "  Use This 😊👇  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]/  
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Sventek
L Marvel 7 2462
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“Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone's soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ― Rumi *** I am not suitable for long-term care. If you need a Listener that is long term, please locate someone else on 7 Cups that can provide that service. I'm excellent for short-term, single chat sessions as my work schedule (the one I'm paid for) is unpredictable. Please Note: I *ONLY* handle relationship issues, marriage/boyfriend/girlfriend, including but not limited to alternative relationships (poly, sharing, etc.) and sexual issues of any type - men or women. I am VERY strict about it. If you have OTHER serious conditions for which you are also seeking support - I am not the Listener for you. My background includes extensive experience with handling situations of infidelity, relationship problems, sexual problems, and various open or closed relationships.All other issues - please find yourself another Listener. I do NOT accept Listener Chats. If you'd like to talk with me, must be a member account, no exceptions. I am also not the type of Listener to tell you what you only want to hear. There are plenty of other Listeners who do that. I'm more factual, to the point, sometimes blunt, but always reasonable and fair without ANY judgment whatsoever. Selecting me as your Listener is YOUR choice, not required to do so; no one forces you. There are MANY talented Listeners on 7 Cups to choose from, so if you are very sensitive and prefer someone to tell you pretty things without any substance or depth - please find another Listener to support you and your needs. Not that it matters, but I maintain an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy from a regionally accredited university - Summa Cum Laude (3.973 GPA), and I'm currently working on my Doctorate, which will be completed in Jan 2025.
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AriadneLove
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 (IMPORTANT if you are having anxiety, panic attack [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8xZ2L8il6W4] Now and I am offline please scroll to the bottom of this text to the section marked:  🐬) Hello, Thank You for checking my profile! I am Aria, nice to virtually meet You.  For me, it is significant that You feel comfortable and safe talking with me. I will be more than happy to do anything I can for us to talk in a friendly and trustful atmosphere. My purpose in 7Cups: I am here to listen to You because what you feel and think matters, [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=veEQQ-N9xWU&list=LL&index=43&t=8s] support You to the best of my ability,  be with You so You do not feel like You are alone and assist with figuring out steps in your situation.  (I will try to tell you the basic things about me which could be decisive for You to know before You start talking to someone) My personality:  I am a rational,  optimistic, and open-minded person. I do not have a 'judgment bone' :)  For me talking things out is often helpful in getting clarity and identifying the best next step with any issue.  Do you know what is your Personality Type?  You might enjoy finding it out > here [https://www.16personalities.com]<. I would love it if you drop me a line about what you have found out and how did it make you feel. My personality type is Protagonist A   „…Protagonists take a genuine interest in other people, approaching them with warm sociability and a helpful earnestness. They are valued for the capacity for insightful and inspiring communication and sensitivity to the needs of others.’’(16personalities.com [http://16personalities.com]) My Experience: I had a lot of challenging events in my life including, health issues, several relocations to another country, challenging relationships, school/work troubles, and war. All resulted in me being personally acquainted with anxiety, panic attacks, sleep troubles, PTSD and personal crises. Those events transformed my life drastically, I became braver and changed my path. Me Now:  I am checking the box 25-30 years old. At the moment, adjusting to a new period in my life, at a new place and trying to claim my authentic identity after major crises and learning about freshly diagnosed ADHD.  Therefore, unfortunetly not as often on Cups as used to be. We all have periods in life when it is not easy to be 'present' in our own lives, but as Robert Frost once wrote: 'the best way out is always through'. This is especially true when battling a traumatic event.  Thank You for reading until this point, You are a very carrying soul! I hope it helped to get an idea if you feel like writing to me.  _________________________ ✨My Active Roles: Chat Support Peer Support Doorkeeper Group Support Room Mentor Support Team Leader for Sharing Circle Listener Chatroom Supporter Listener Sharing Circle and Sharing Circle Host Safety Patrol My inactive roles: GLDD Academy Mentor Leader CDM Academy mentor Group Chat moderator in Anxiety Support, Relationships Support, Support Plus and Newbie Hub communities _________________________ (I trust my Tweens can support you with issues that are out of my range)   @alwaysindigo [https://www.7cups.com/@alwaysindigo] is my generous, devoted, and very gifted Tea Twin.  They are so electrifying and knowledgeable,  thanks to them I am on my way to speaking a new language.  Indigo [https://www.7cups.com/@alwaysindigo]has experience helping with eating disorders [https://www.7cups.com/eating-disorder-help/],  self-harm [https://www.7cups.com/self-harm/],  bullying [https://www.7cups.com/bullying/], exercise motivation [https://www.7cups.com/how-to-get-motivated-to-exercise/],  forgiveness [https://www.7cups.com/forgiveness/],  [https://www.7cups.com/sleeping-well/]sleeping well [https://www.7cups.com/sleeping-well/] and others. @jovialButterfly6752 [https://www.7cups.com/@alwaysindigo] is my brain mirror image, sometimes it seems we absolutely, can communicate telepathically. Jovi is a tireless innovator and the most efficient leader.    @kindLemonade [https://www.7cups.com/@kindLemonade]i [https://www.7cups.com/@kindLemonade]s my incredible Multipotentialite [https://www.ted.com/talks/emilie_wapnick_why_some_of_us_don_t_have_one_true_calling?language=en#t-181079] Twin. With their kaleidoscopic abilities, they challenge me to be better every day.  @mentalspace7cup [https://www.7cups.com/@mentalspace7cup] is my talented Listener Twin. A very kind, loving and caring person. They can support with issues like depression [https://www.7cups.com/depression-help-online/], loneliness [https://www.7cups.com/how-to-deal-with-loneliness/], eating disorde [https://www.7cups.com/eating-disorder-help/]r,  and others.  @SparkyGizmo [https://www.7cups.com/@SparkyGizmo] is my kind friend. Honorary recipient of Aria's Biggest Heart Award. One of the most encouraging and supportive people here on 7Cups. _____________________________ 🐬 I am so sorry you are going through severe anxiety right now. I know it is very scary and even physically hurtful sometimes, but You will be Ok. It is not a physical failure it is just your brain got scared because of some trigger. A panic attack usually lasts between 5 and 20 minutes, rarely up to an hour (www.nhs.uk [http://www.nhs.uk]) but It Will Pass, it always does.  Please if you have the ability to reach people who can support you it might be a good idea to do so. The most important thing is to get in control of your breathing, it might calm down your brain.  1) Diaphragm breathing helps when you have difficulties breathing and will help to calm down, here is the link to a video guide >Breathing [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-_NNCrrdus]<   If you need it urgently, the direct instructions about breathing start at 00.43 (You can come back to my profile to try other steps after checking the link)  2) It is possible to use the gif to regulate the birthing rhythm. Just breathe in when the flower opens and out when it closes >Gif to breathe with [https://www.7cups.com/img/exercises/breathing.gif]<. You are doing well! You will calm down soon. 3) To calm the anxiety it is important that we Ground ourselves there are many techniques to do it including Bilateral stimulation. Here is one of them, it is simple and can be done in any situation: > Butterfly [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGGJrqscvtU]<  If you need it urgently, the direct instructions start at  00.17 You might search for 'grounding technique’, 'bilateral stimulation’, 'dissociation for fear/thoughts’, 'cognitive defusion techniques to find more mechanisms that can help you to calm your anxiety. 4) Defusion, separation from fear. Anxiety usually circles a scary thought in your mind, you feel afraid. Please instead of saying 'I am anxious about… or I am afraid of… ' try to use this templet out loud: 1*st say: I am feeling fear about…..  after saying that  2*say: I have a thought that I am feeling fear about… after go for 3*saying: I have noticed a thought that I am feeling fear about… 5) I am so proud of you for helping yourself and seeking support!  If you feel like it please connect with another Listener. You might benefit from getting in touch with the listener, who has personal experience with Anxiety, to do it click "More filters” -> „Topic” -> „Anxiety" and you will see the list with listeners. Browse for listeners here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] You are amazing and so strong for coping with anxiety! ❤️ >My love [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=prEtWxsKe3U]< and care are with you! I hope you will feel better as soon as it is only possible. (Please,  write to me a few lines about how are you feeling after the crisis or when you are feeling like it because I am worried about you. I will answer as soon as I see it)
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