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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

TheFantasticPengua
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༻✦༺༻✧༺༻✦༺ Hello, Ciao!  I'm Pengua, an active listener here on 7 Cups, and simply, someone you can always reach out to! ABOUT ME:  - The username Pengua stemmed from my fascination with penguins!  - My favorite Celsius flavor is sparking orange.  - I enjoy volunteering for historical sites.  - My favorite restaurant is HuHot.  - I love to complete paint by numbers.  MY FOCUS:  I am comfortable with providing support with... 『』Anxiety*                             『』Grief*  『』Depression* 『』Eating Disorders 『』General Mental Health* 『』Getting Unstuck 『』Grief* 『』Self-Esteem* 『』Managing Emotions 『』OCD 『』Panic Attacks* 『』PTSD 『』Social Anxiety* 『』Addiction 『』Alcohol/Drug Abuse 『』Cancer * Indicates personal experience.  MY STATUS:  🟢 Full send! Reach out to me via personal request, and I will get back to you as fast as possible! I will always be here for you.  🟠 Hey traveler, I'm busy right now, but I will get back to you as soon as possible! If I have an orange status, expect me to be working with other members or working towards my goals! As said earlier, I will get back to you.  🔴 Stop! I'm offline! Still leave me a message, but whether or not I'll get back to you within a reasonable time is questionable. My response time is 24-48 hours if online. If I am traveling, I will be unable to reach out to you until I'm back.  MORE INFORMATION:  - If you are in an active crisis, please contact your local center.  - I am an active listener. That means I can guide you, but I am not here to provide advice.  - I prefer 1-1 chats rather than group chats! - I normally do not take personal requests right away, but I will find a time that works for the both of us.  - I am excited to reach out to you and begin your journey. I understand how life can lead you through the thick of it, and I am here to help. Please note, if I am unskilled in the area you're searching help for, I may refer you to a different Listener. I always want to help, but I want you to have the best help possible. I will let you know right away if there is an issue, and how we can solve this.  CREDENTIALS:  - Smile Spreader  - Quality Listening Program 04/08/24-05/20/24 - Internship Alumni 04/01/2024 - Community Building Alumni 04/07/2024 - Active Listener 12/25/2020 NOMINATIONS:  Nominations on 7 Cups allow members and listeners to receive recognition for their hard work on this platform. Do you have a favorite member or listener? Here are two options you can take.  The Tulip Awards recognizes Listeners who go above and beyond. You can only submit one entry for a certain listener, and you must not have the newbie badge, and you need 100 1-1 chats to do this.  The Peer Appreciation Form allows you to recognize any member or Listener whom you show appreciation towards. After submitting the form, a post will be made thanking the certain individual.  If you have any questions regarding nominations, please reach out to me. Thank you for making 7 Cups a better home for all.  Are you ready for this wonderful journey through your mind, traveler? Reach out to me today!
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Justmeforyou
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Life can be tough sometimes, and feeling lost or alone is okay. It takes courage to reach out for help, and I want you to know you've taken a big step by considering chatting.  I have been where you are and know how it feels to be misunderstood and marginalized. But I know finding support, love, and acceptance is possible, so I'm here to help. I am a verified and trained listener with many years of experience supporting and guiding individuals. No matter what you're going through, whether it's depression, anxiety, loneliness, finances, break-ups, or bullying, I'm here to listen and offer a safe space to talk about your feelings.  I know it's not always easy to trust someone with your thoughts and emotions, but I want you to know I will always listen with empathy and compassion. I will not judge you and always keep our conversations confidential.   When we chat, we'll talk about whatever is on your mind, and I'll provide you with the support and guidance you need to move forward. Together, we'll work through your struggles and help you find a way to live your life to the fullest.   So, please don't hesitate to reach out to me.  I am here for you, and I am ready to listen and support you through whatever struggles you're facing. Take care, and I look forward to chatting with you soon. A Heartwarming Experience with "JustMeForYou" A Sweetheart and a Fantastic Listener! With an impressive 50 years of listening experience, Chris deserves sincere appreciation for the exceptional qualities he brings to this platform as a listener. His non-judgmental approach, coupled with a profound sense of empathy and compassion, sets him apart and, in my experience, may place him among the very best. Chris possesses an extraordinary talent for uplifting spirits, providing invaluable guidance, and offering the support necessary to navigate life's peaks and valleys. I express my deepest gratitude for all he has done for me. His genuine care and steadfast support have truly made a significant difference, and I consider myself fortunate to have connected with such an exceptional listener. She was 92.  We cried together.  It was a happy cry. I want to share a true story with you that has shown me the incredible power of compassion. Recently, I visited a nursing home where I met a 92-year-old woman who felt lonely, scared, and depressed. As we spoke, I realized what she needed was a connection with another person, someone who could offer comfort and companionship. I read a children's Bible at her request.  As we read, I held her hand. We cried together, and at that moment, I could feel her pain, but I also saw hope in her eyes. It was a small gesture, but it made a significant impact. By simply showing her kindness and compassion, I connected with her and brought some comfort.   It was an incredibly moving experience, reminding me of the importance of reaching out to those who may be lonely or isolated.  Seeing how a small act of kindness can instantly turn someone's day around is incredible.   So, if you can visit someone who is lonely or depressed, I encourage you to do so. Your presence and compassion can make all the difference, even if it's just for a short time. Let's spread kindness and love wherever we go and improve the world - one person at a time.  My Happiness Philosophy When I was a little boy, around 11 or 12 years old, I experienced a sense of sadness that lingered for several weeks. My parents noticed my distress and approached me with concern, hoping to understand better what was troubling me. Despite their efforts, I struggled to pinpoint the root of my feelings and underwent several medical tests that yielded no answers. It was clear that something was amiss, and I felt lost and disconnected from my usual self.  I turned to my mother for guidance, and she suggested I try reaching out to help someone in need. At such a young age, this proved to be a challenge for me, but my mother encouraged me to offer my time and assistance to our neighborhood veterinarian by taking their dogs for walks after school and on weekends, free of charge.   As it turned out, this simple act of kindness was transformative for me and set me on a path of helping others. Over the years, I have expanded my efforts from animals to people and served as a listener and mentor for over 50 years. These days, even in retirement, I have plenty of free time to continue supporting those in need through systems like 7Cups and in my community. I'm grateful to have found a sense of purpose and fulfillment through helping others, and it brings me great joy to know that I can make a positive difference in the lives of those around me.
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insightfulOcean9885
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whatever you need i'll do my best to listen.  my DMS are open so don't be shy and pop in, I will try to chat when I can. whatever it is you've got this, never doubt that i have autism, adhd, hEDS, POTS, IST and me/cfs Due to being chronicaly ill with hEDS and its coomorbid conditions i may take a bit to respond depending on whats happening 
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TheMetanoia
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I won't be taking any chats regarding sexual related topic or seeking personal relationship outside 7cups Thank you! ​​​​​​ hello there! I am glad you found me on 7 cups of tea . I am a trained and active listener here. Most of us have probably had at least one period of big change in their life. These periods tend to be challenging and uncomfortable to say the least. Whether it is a realization of a recurring pattern, letting go of a limiting belief, a new understanding – the breakthrough is a hard time. There are life-changing events taking place, accompanied by all sorts of uneasy feelings – doubt, fear, lack of direction and an overall sense of doom. But, ultimately, this is how life works and this is how we learn and level up in the game of being. I am happy to help u and i care to listen. I will help you recognize your feelings. In case you're having a hard time expressing yourself in writing, do feel free to reach out to me here for paid VC sessions. I will try my best to understand your pain my friend :-) I believe and hope that you and I together can solve any problem. Feel free to share your thoughts                                                    
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SiddJain
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hopefulTime
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Hi am here to hear u.feel free to share ur problems
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Happylifemoment
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Hello, I'm here to listen to all your words and thoughts to make you to be a happier person so you can text me at any time, once all of us have gone through difficulties but now we are more stronger than yesterday so just trust the process.  Reminder: I don't accept any topics related to sexual / LGBT.
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twingo
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ShadowFaerie
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Hi, I'm Faerie, & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha If my status icon is Red 🔴 I am currently unavailable and I will try to return your message as soon as possible but it could take a while. Please allow for up to 24 hours. If my status icon is Orange 🟠 I am busy with another member or with other roles here. I will return your message as soon as possible but it may take an hour or two If my status icon is Green 🟢 I am available and should return your message shortly Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246
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SleepyPersonListens
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Please note, I am unavailable to take new chats at this point. I've been helped here a lot as a member, so if love to share that care by being a listener!
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MidwesternCalmSeeker
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"You deserve the love you keep trying to give everyone else. Don't give up on yourself."—Bianca Sparacino I'm a friend, mom, step-mom and a grandma. I'm here to listen, support and encourage. Bring me your challenges, happy moments, lonely times, or whatever it is that you're working through right now. I suffered the loss of my father a few years ago. I thought I was empathetic to others before that experience, but going through that grief process made me a much stronger person emotionally. Having someone to talk to about those feelings meant a lot to me. I hope you'll become a stronger person through your interactions with the listeners here at 7 Cups. Thank you in advance for trusting me as you share your thoughts and feelings.
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Alvish22
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"Tea, though ridiculed by those who are naturally coarse in their nervous sensibilities, will always be the favorite beverage of the intellectual"                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      
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