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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

lucy2
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Please note I listen to teens only at present. Hello my friends, I am pleased to say I am now available to take chats, you can also leave me a message and I will get back to you asap<3 I am so pleased you have found me on 7cups of Tea! My roles on 7cups I am the Community Mentor Leader for General Support. (Previously) Adult / Teen Listener Needs reply team (Previously) Door Keeper Global Moderator I'm a trained Teen and Adult Listener  and I look forward to supporting you. I hope you will feel comforted knowing there is someone here who understands your needs and worries and I look forward to chatting with you. If my status is shown as offline or busy, please message me and I will get back to you asap. Chat soon Lucy2 <3
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fruityPond7887
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Hello! My name is Fruity or Pond or FruityPond!! 😉 I'm so glad you're here! 🌈 (Yes, I finally have a bio) My Schedule:  Wednesday: 3:00 - 5:00 pm ET Sunday: 7:00 - 9:00 pm ET 
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Endure777
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"I'm still standing better than I ever did, looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid. I'm still standing after all this time." - Elton John I'm Endure, but you can call me Cole :) I am a recovering addict/alcoholic and person with Bipolar 1 Disorder, severe anxiety, and PSTD. I have many years of mental health and listening experience. I have been to the darkest depths of not only the mind but this world as well. I'm here for you, to help you move on and overcome your problems. You don't have to be or feel alone. <3 My Roles in 7 Cups:  Listener Room Supporter Safety Patrol  
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SummerBreeze00
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* I’m currently on 1-1 chat hiatus* Hi. I do listen when I can. I hope by listening, I can help to support as you work through your healing journey.  I used to be actively involved in leadership roles here : CML, CM, CS, Mod you name it but due to work & family commitment, my time online is lesser than before.  Please spare me from sexual related and graphic physical description shares. Thank you for understanding. 
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bookworm274
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Not currently taking new member chats  Hi there! I'm bookworm274 but you can just call me bookworm, book or worm. My chat style: My chat times range from 20 minutes (typically a more casual chat) to 60 minutes. However, I am always happy to do longer chats as long as they have been scheduled. Please scroll down to the list that states the topics that I am comfortable taking before asking to chat with me, thank you. Status meanings: My status is typically on Red or Orange, I hardly ever have it on Green. So please feel free to send me a message no matter what colour my status is because I may be on the site! If I'm not on the site when you send me a message then I will get back to you in a minimum of 24 hours as I check 7 Cups at least once a day for messages!  My roles: Verified Listener - I have been verified for my active listening skills which means you can trust that I am a high quality listener! Project Agent - I am a Project Agent for the 7 Cups Leadership Community mainly focusing on the Needs Reply team as the team-lead and onboarding new Forum Supporters but also working on overall subcommunity areas. Listener Twins: @tami150 - my first 7Cups twin - if I'm unavailable check out her account. She's an amazing listener and person and super sweet and helpful!  @Azalea98  - my supportive twin - she's super amazing and is always there to support me!   
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LoveLilly
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Hello to everyone checking out my bio! NOT CURRENTLY TAKING NEW CHATS I am Lilliana, but go by Lilly, Lils, Lilliana and Ana or any other nickname you know of and it is so wonderful to meet you all. I love listening to people and supporting you whatever you are going through. You are strong and it is so brave of you to be reaching out for support. I am friendly and kind and will listen to you for sessions between 15-45 mins. Feel free to send me a message and I will respond when I can. You can also find me hanging out in the group support chat rooms. I bring cookies and hugs ❤️ Take care❤️🌻  #EdGang #Edgangforlife (spreading awareness and support for eating disorders and love for my eating disorder team)     Chat topics I have experience with and am best at supporting: -Anxiety -Panic Attacks -Eating Disorders  ​​​​​​-Spirituality -General Mental Health  -Social Anxiety Hugs for you for reading my bio ❤️❤️
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JustOneMoreEpisode
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Due to irl being a bit busy at the moment, I am unfortunately unable to take 1-1 Chat Requests a lot. However I will definitely try my best to check messages more frequently and will always respond back the moment I see it. Please be free to connect with one of our amazing listeners here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] ❤❤❤🌻🌻🌻❤❤❤🌻🌻🌻❤❤❤🌻🌻🌻❤❤❤🌻🌻🌻❤❤❤🌻🌻🌻❤❤❤ ------------------------- Just thought of sharing some quotes that helped through tough times; (1) If you don't like where you are at in life, change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it. (2) If your heart is broken, make art with the pieces. ------------------------- Things that helped me be happy with life; (1) Scrapbooking                 (3) Annotating                           (5)Daily Affirmations         (2) Finding New Hobbies     (4) Romanticizing Life                (6) Family/Loved Ones      ------------------------- My Past Roles: (Hoping to get back into a few leadership positions slowly and be active more) (Adult-Teen Listener, Doorkeeper, Safety Patrol, Peer Supporter, Listener Chatroom Supporter, Project Agent for Listener Sharing Circle (LSC) and 7 Cups Internship, Care Team Guide, Academy Mentor for 7 Cups Internship) ------------------------- Listener Twin: @alwaysindigo, @Shay673751, @NovaGalaxy and @HealTheHealer (Four of the most amazing peeps I have ever met) ------------------------- ❤❤🌻🌻❤❤
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Theotus00
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We're all living in each other's paranoia.
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Helper127
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Here to listen and provide support with no judgment 💚💛💙 I usually host in the sharing circle on Wednesdays and Fridays during the 8pm Eastern time slot. (Currently on a self-care break from hosting my regular schedule but still hosting when I'm able.) Please note: A green circle near my profile picture means I am available to chat. An orange circle means I am unavailable to accept new chats because I am already chatting at capacity. A red circle means I am offline or unavailable to chat. Orange or red means I will TRY to reply when possible IF I am able to, as my schedule allows. Thank you. I am currently not able to accept scheduled or long-term chats, as I am at capacity, but I can occasionally take on an unscheduled chat if free time opens up. Sending support to everyone 💙💛
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Izzy274
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Hi, I’m Izzy. I used to be very active on 7 Cups a couple years ago, and helped out in many different leadership positions, hence the large number of badges you can see on my profile. I am no longer in these positions, please reach out to a current mentor if you are a listener seeking support 💕. I’m rejoining 7 cups because I want to be able to make a difference. Over the past few years I’ve learned a lot about mental health through my own personal struggles, and I know the power that having someone to listen to you holds. I’m not here to solve your problems. That’s almost certainly something I cannot do. But if you’d like to chat something through, bounce ideas off a buddy or simply get something off your chest, feel free to shoot me a message. I am happy to talk about most topics aside from those sexual in nature. I have most lived experience with: eating disorders, anxiety, social anxiety and depression. I am also autistic and asexual so am happy to support neurodivergent individuals and those who are part of the LGBTQ+ community :).
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StarlitSky4762
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Personal update 04/19/2022 [forum link] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BorderlinePersonalityDisorderSupportCommunity_81/General_2436/starlitskypersonalupdatelearningtobalancelearningtosayno_303441/] I am a community leader for the Personality Disorders community. (currently semi-active) Please note: all upcoming groups are listed on the Community calendar [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] - use CTRL+F to search "personality disorders" Topics: DBT/mindfulness, understanding schemas, healing shame & self-compassion >> Everyone is welcome!! No diagnosis is needed. <<    If you are new to 7cups and want to unlock the "Topic Rooms" like Personality disorder room, follow these steps  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/NewCriteriaUpdatesGroupChatsEasierToAccessNow_280544/]https://tinyurl.com/36h5cr6h For LISTENERS: How to support members with personality disorder - 7 Cups Forum [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BorderlinePersonalityDisorderSupportCommunity_81/ResourcesInformationonPersonalityDisorders_459/ResourceListenerguidestosupportingmemberswithpersonalitydisorder_233845/]  ( + more resources [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuidesMockChatTranscripts_1850/PersonalityDisorderChats_233827/1/])  Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/NavigatingPersonalityDisordersCommunityandEventsMasterThread_254844/] for a masterpost about what the Personality Disorders community provides. I am not taking new 1-to-1 member chats, except for members who participate in Personality Disorders groups.  Apply to be a Room Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform?fbzx=1067715697025948349] for the Personality Disorders team!! Both Members and Listeners are welcome to join!!  Resources: DBT Resources:  *  A guide to naming emotions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/ForumandGroupSupportDiscussions_1312/Howdoyoufeelacolorfulguidetonamingemotions_238928/] *  DBT Mindfulness skills (beginner's guide)     [the "WHAT" Skills: Observe, Describe, Participate [https://dbtselfhelp.com/dbt-skills-list/mindfulness/what-skills/]        & "HOW" Skills: One-Mindfully, Non-Judgmentally, Effectively [https://dbtselfhelp.com/dbt-skills-list/mindfulness/how-skills/]] * DBT videos [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjZkvz33S-5_i6Ri12X0SwQ/playlists] (free, high quality, created by a therapist) * https://dialecticalbehavioraltherapy.wordpress.com/wise-mind/  * 7cups - DBTuesday Masterpost [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/DBTuesday_2147/DBTuesdayMasterpost_274756/?post=2996298]with almost all skills! * https://dbtselfhelp.com/ - excellent, free Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Self-Help resource * Dialectical Behavior Therapy [https://dialecticalbehaviortherapy.com/] - lots of free worksheets --------------------------------------------------------------------- *  Treatment resources [https://tinyurl.com/ysunhxtv] (treatment types for personality disorders, provider database, low-cost options, & peer support) *  Out of the Fog [https://outofthefog.website/] - is a resource for people affected by personality disorders and their loved ones.           *  Coping Toolbox  [https://outofthefog.website/what-to-do-1]for individuals and loved ones          *  Collection of resource links [https://outofthefog.website/links]  General resources:  *  My favorite CBT skill: ACE technique [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1HVRlsYHeFBTRVjfqyPXwPU4D9YuHV-cq/view?usp=sharing] for balance in life [source [https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/ace.htm]] *  free CBT worksheets [https://thinkcbt.com/think-cbt-worksheets]  *  general self-help [https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/sitemap/#]  *  Resource kit - coping with anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Resourcekitcopingwithanxiety_255863/] *  Developing your support system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupportCommunity_52/CopingWithLoneliness_599/Developingyoursupportsystemideasandresources_241138/] *  Crisis Resources [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines]
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SomebodySpicy13
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Thankyou for taking the time to look at my profile 🥰🌸🩷 ** I am on UK time (BST / GMT+1) ** Hello, I am SomebodySpicy13 but you can simply call me spicy! (Or Amy, I don't mind 😊) I'm glad you have found me here. I'm a neurodivergent (suspected Autism) 26 year old from the UK (I am not diagnosed with ADHD, as I didn't meet criteria, but I have had an official assessment)  i will always try to reply to your messages as quickly as I can, but always feel free to leave me a message and I will reply when I'm back online online - available to take chats and will reply as quickly as possible busy - will take chats but replies may be slower offline - not available for chats, but please leave a message and I will reply when I'm back online Please bear in mind I cannot and won't be giving anyone advice as this goes against guidelines. I will however be here for support when needed People looking for inappropriate sexual chats and/ or interested in making any sexual advances towards me~ this is a mental health platform ~ and we do *not* entertain such kinds of conversations here. PLEASE DO NOT ASK QUESTIONS ABOUT MY OWN SEXUAL ORIENTATION (unless relevant to conversation) I WILL NOT TOLERATE PEOPLE MAKING ASSUMPTIONS AND ASKING INVASIVE QUESTIONS Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] ⋅•⋅⋅•⋅⊰⋅•⋅⋅•⋅⋅•⋅⋅•⋅∙∘☽༓☾∘∙•⋅⋅⋅•⋅⋅⊰⋅•⋅⋅•⋅⋅•⋅⋅•⋅
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