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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

audienta
L Guru 5 978
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Bio in German/auf Deutsch [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YWfxu7AqLNtqkRbzt_u5kePsWKYc6s4jVEkxXFrFdrk/edit] ------------------------- I'm currenty sick so I'll not be able to respond to you messages. Due to my health, I might be offline for some days without a warning from time to time. But don't worry, eventually I'll come back. ------------------------- About me Hey, I am audienta (they/them). I have been here on 7 Cups since 2017, so I have had the chance to gather a lot of experiences I am very grateful for. Sometimes life just does not work like we would like it to, but the conversations showed me again and again how resilient we as human beings are. My own mental and physical health have been challenging me for a while now. I have had to learn how to set boundaries and listen to my own needs. There are days when I can do that and there are others where it does not work. And that is okay. We all give our best to accept and live our life. I had the honour to be interviewed for the Living with Leaders series [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/InnerWisdomandLight_280987/], so if you want to know more about me, that might be an option. ------------------------- Offers and Boundaries My Offers: Trained, verified active Listener: I take 1-1 member chats which take between 30 and 60 minutes and listen to you. I am a patient and non-judgemental listener. I cannot give you advice, but I can ask questions and am open to offer peer support and share my experiences if you wish that. Adult Teen Listener: I can take chats from adults as well as from teens. Chat Topics that I have experience with and am okay to talk about: * Anxiety * Autism Spectrum Disorder * Bullying * Chronic Illness * Dissociative Disorders * LGBTQ+ * Self-Care * Student Life Languages: I can listen to you in English, German and Swissgerman. My Boundaries:  Only offline chats: I'll respond to your messages within 1-3 days, but I'm currently not able to do live chats. Chat Topics that I am not able to provide support for because of a lack of experience or trigger risk: * Family Stress * Financial Stress * Parenting * Relationship Stress/Breakups * Self Harm * Sexual Health * Weight Management ------------------------- Projects Trauma Support Community Mentor Leader: I support the trauma support sub-community as a community mentor leader. If you have feedback, questions or ideas regarding this community, please leave me a pm or use this form:  Trauma Sub-Community Feedback Form [https://forms.gle/tvajKJmLKhqfxwrH9] Anonymous Evaluations Outreach Team Quality Mentor Leader: I make sure that people who had three good evaluations get a chance to be verified and listeners who need help get connected to the Listener Coaching Team. Sub-Community Leadership Team (PA): I'm helping with recruiting and onboarding new forum supporters. Quality Mentor: As a mentor, I can take you as a mentee. I can help you improve your listening skills, do mock chats with you, give you resources, provide emotional support, and answer your questions. Chat Supporter: If you struggle with an ongoing chat, I can provide tips and resources to you. I can do that either in the Listener Support Room, or, if you need to describe the chat with more than 5 words, in the pms.  Adult Teen Listener with the Peter Pan, Teen Chat Support, and Teen Quality Mentor badge: I can provide support to adult and teen listeners. Doorkeeper: You can pm me if you want a room opened or closed. ------------------------- Most Important Resources Suicidal ideation, self harm: On 7 Cups we cannot offer crisis support.  7 Cups Crisis [/www.7cups.com/crisis] Chat Support: If you are a listener and need help with an ongoing chat, take a look at the linked document. Chat Support [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit] New Listener Links: If you are a new listener, the following document with a bunch of links might be helpful to you. New Listener Links [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LTMvBFOgWICNHLlfNvzeQf2vkF3PPRn_jQUxJxjASOk/edit] ------------------------- Smile and take care everyone! :) audienta ------------------------- PS: A big thank you to my great peers who showed me so much love, acceptance, and appreciation during the last couple of years! You really made my life a little brighter. Tagging my twinnie @MelodyoftheOcean.
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Rui00
L Intermediate 4 140
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Listens toTo Teens Last activein last week
Unfortunately due to school, long term members and other roles I'm not able to take new 1-1 chats. If I talked to you before, If I accepted your request or if you were refered to me this does not apply. Sorry for the bother 💙. ------------------------- ~Back From Break~ Hi my name is Rui and I'm here to listen and support you through whatever you are going through 💛. Topics  I take all topics but the ones I have most experience in are: * * -Anxiety; * -Panic Attacks; * -Relationship stress; * -Breakups; * -Cancer; * -OCD; My roles ✅ Verified Listener ✅ ✨ QLP Academy Mentor ✨ 🌿 Room Supporter 🌿 ☄️ Anonymous Evaluations ☄️ 🚩Safety Patrol and SPOT 🚩 ❤️ Chat Support ❤️ 💙 Peer Support 💙 🌺 AL Project Agent 🌺 🌍 Member of the Translation Project Team 🌍 ☀️ Chatroom Moderator ☀️ 🚪Doorkeeper 🚪 (If you need to open or close a room I'm just a message away) My hostings --- Want to make someones day 💙☀️? Find out how here: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Status: 🟢 I'm online and free (Response time usually 2-5 min). 🟡 I'm online but I'm busy. Feel free to text me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can. 🔴 I'm offline but fell free to text me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can (Usually in 24 hours).
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Asloo
L Guru 2371
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
(ENG BELOW) Merhaba arkadaşlar. Ben Asloo. Ve evet Türk'üm. Eğer herhangi konuda bir sıkıntınız olursa ya da sadece gelip öyle havadan sudan falan konuşmak isterseniz gelin ya. Hem tanışmış oluruz falan hoş olur işte. Ha bi de eğer online değilsem de yazın ben size en yakın zamanda cevap veririm :) İyi bakın kendinizee( Ha iki de ben hep açılış olarak "Hey I am Asloo. How are you?" derim yani yabancı sanıp öyle kaçmanıza çıkmanıza gerek yok yani Türk olduğunuzu belirtseniz yeter :) ) Hello! I'm Asloo. I'm a listener, a friend, a girl that you can talk about anything. l really want to support you about life. I am here to help you as long as and as much as I can. If I'm online you can message me anytime. But if I am offline then feel free to message me and I will reply to you as soon as I can. And if you want/need, you can send me messages. Have a great life xxx
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Listeningsarinn
L Genius 11 4391
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
7cups availability: no longer available for new support chats on 7cups, if we have talked before you are welcome to send me a text please use browse listeners page if you need support, there are many awesome listeners available 💙 ------------------------- Hey, I'm Sarinn and I'm here for you, this chat page is a safe place, A place, where you won’t be judged  and you have nothing to be ashamed of, I'm already proud of you and sending you my love ------------------------- What are some reasons you can text me for? if you are a member you can text me to share about anything that is making you struggle,  busying your mind or feeling heavy on you, you aren't alone, we can talk and face it all together if you are a listener You can reach out to me for chat support (help handling a hard chat) or if you need help figuring anything out on cups As a trained mentor, I can help you with Chat situations, mock chats, figuring out sub-communities, leadership roles or finding resources and regardless of if you are a member or listener you can always text me for random hugs you can spam me with song recommendation which I'll love or to casually chat and get to know each other and have a fun time ------------------------- you can expect me to reply right away only ~if my status shows online/green ~if i was in a room and you are messaging after asking me if you could pm me ~if we have scheduled the date and time to chat together otherwise, please keep in mind that I'll take up to 72 hours to reply ------------------------- there are 3 things that I tend to do 1. I call my friends "love" both in real life and here 2. I am a hug person, I love hugs and I might send you virtual hugs 3. I might leave you random texts and check in sometimes if any of these, or anything else in the chat, makes you uncomfortable, or if there are triggers that I need to avoid, let me know and I'll be careful not to repeat ------------------------- ~lgbtq+ Ally~ ------------------------- some people i miss badly on cups *~* @kimmkimm (miss you awesomeness) @ruby2468 (I can’t think of a way to reach you rn, but I’m thinking of you, missing you and hoping you are doing okie) @brokentearss (miss you lampshade, and will never forget you) @ALeXaNdEr0712 (you are missed, and on my mind at random times) @tazzie (rest in peace taz) @tallwalker4850 @serenn @bluewalker8200 @exuberantplane4067 @swiftygirl13 @ri337 @jaja25 ------------------------- reminders~ your feelings are real, and you have every right to feel them, to speak them but just remember that you won't always feel the same way trying your best is enough and it's all you ever gotta do you are a human, and as a human, you have the right to make mistakes  your choices, thoughts, feeling and actions, make sense in the bigger picture of your life, and by a big chance anyone else, exactly in your shoes would do the same  and always remember; love yourself: speak yourself  'cause "life gets hard and it gets messed up when you give so much but it's not enough when the high's too high and the low's too low  ....  don't you let it kill you,  even when it hurts like hell oh whatever tears you apart,    don't let it break your heart"    sometimes, it can feel so heavy, to be a human to feel, to get thru daily life,  sometimes, it feels so lonely to be who you are, sometimes, mind gets cruel, too much thoughts and memories,  when you really just want it to stop, to go silent and to give you a rest sometimes, it's panic, other times, sadness anger, exhaustion, frustration sometimes, it is too much to process, other times, numbness and regardless of what it is, how big or small you don't have to face it alone by a big chance, i can't solve the problem, but hey, dark places are much less scary when not alone sharing, talking and feeling understood can help you feel much more ready to face, get thru and sometimes, solve the problems 
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ines273
L Sage 4 2976
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hi! My name is Inês. How are you feeling? Whatever you are feeling, it’s ok. I am willing and available for a chat or two!
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Itsokay091
L Genius 9 3967
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Hello! I believe that loneliness doesn't come from being alone but from unable to communicate. I have been through this loneliness and know how bad it is. So I am here to LISTEN to you and we will try to overcome this TOGETHER.....feel free to contact me.
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sunsetparadise16
L Discoverer 368
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Hi! I'm not available. Please look for another listener in case you need to talk ❤️ wish you the best and I'll be back eventually Hello ! I'm glad you found me on 7 Cups of Tea! I like to support teens who struggle with anxiety, bullying, breakups, social anxiety, depression, relationships, etc. I've overcome a lot in my life and would like to help by listening to you. We can talk about everything in general and not just your problems. I'll try my best to help. If I'm online, feel free to chat with me. If I'm offline, send me a message so we can set up a time to connect! 
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jackinpain5
L Genius 4 3831
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Too lazy for that!   Please note that i am not available for any serious chats till September.
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LoneWolf1010
L Exemplar 7 7105
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Hi!!!   ನಮಸ್ಕಾರ  నమస్కారం  नमस्ते  Vanakkam Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barkatahu You can call me wolf!! and I don't bite😅  A teacher, engineer, animal behaviorist, travel enthusiast and a big fat foodie✌🏻😅 Do you Feel like talking about anything or just wanna vent off? You know where to tap... What are you waiting for? Grab a steaming chai.. maybe a kettle too for refills.. Let's talk!!! *currently  accepting  personal  requests   only* welcome aboard  Feel free to leave feedbacks    
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Rebekah
L Paragon 5 1705
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
I'm on break from all 7 Cups duties and teams until late May.  🌞 Introduction 🌞  Life is hard; we all know it. It's full of positive and negative moments, very few of which we have complete control over. You don't predict the future, the future predicts you. It's great to see that you're reaching out for support today. It may feel incredibly difficult to ask for guidance, be it for a current or a past situation - you are not alone in how you feel. Members: I'm currently... available for chats! Please feel free to send me a message, though do make sure that your situation matches with one of the topics listed in my profile. Listeners: I'm currently unavailable for all types of mentoring chats. Please refer to another mentor here [https://www.7cups.com/listener/listenerMentors.php?_gl=1*21f6t5*_ga*OTc5NTI0OTE2LjE2NzQ4NDk4Mjc.*_ga_B4EP65N395*MTY5MjEwMDY4OS4xNTguMS4xNjkyMTAyNDYwLjAuMC4w]. How I Listen: 🌞 I will ensure that you, as a person, are validated. How you feel is perfectly okay. 🌞 Please be aware that I will not be offering advice, as it could be very harmful to both you and your situation, and could cause offence. 🌞 You will suffer no judgement from me. 🌞 Our chat will be as supportive and comforting as possible. 🌞 Finally, I will make sure that you are heard. Your voice deserves to be listened to. -------------------------  🌻 My Involvements 🌻   🌻 Quality 🌻  o Verified Adult-Teen Listener: I completed an interview and a mock chat with a highly experienced listener to show that I'm suitable to chat with teens, and a listener of high quality.  🌻 o Listener Verifier Team: I verify listeners through the Verified Listener project! Would you like to become Verified? Learn more here [https://bit.ly/3fwev9Y]!  🌻 o [Teen] Quality Mentoring: I mentor adult and teen listener quality!  🌻 o Quality Mentor Leading: I lead the Safety Patrol Outreach Team. Find out more about this team by sending me a message, or by going here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/SafetyPatrolTeam_1685/SafetyPatrolSPandtheSafetyPatrolOutreachTeamSPOT_265908/]!  🌻 o Quality Ambassador: I am so privileged to be an ambassador for 7 Cups!   🌻 Safety 🌻  o Safety Patrolling: I flag profiles that have violations.  🌻 o Safety Patrol Outreach Team [SPOT] Leader: I co-lead SPOT! On this team, we reach out to those who have fixable profile violations, as well as grade Safety Patrol applications.   🌻 Chat Rooms 🌻  o Doorkeeping: I'm able to open & close chat rooms.  🌻 o Peer Supporting: I offer support to listeners after a difficult chat (*not* for personal issues. That is what member accounts are for).  🌻 o Chat Supporting: I offer support to listeners during a tricky chat.  🌻 o Global Chatroom Moderation: I help to create a positive and inclusive environment in all member chat rooms!  🌻 o [Teen] Chatroom Mentor: I moderate in the listener chat rooms to ensure they stay safe and inclusive!  -------------------------  🧁 About Me 🧁   🧁 I love video gaming, specifically The Sims 4 and Resident Evil.   🧁 I love Doctor Who (10th Doctor is my favourite)!   🧁 I am once again questioning my sexuality, and I don't mind what pronouns you use! 🌈💙  🧁 My favourite music genres are classic rock, heavy metal, 70s/80s pop/rock, punk rock, and indie/alternative.   🧁 I am currently dealing with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and complex-post traumatic stress disorder (c-PTSD).   🧁 My favourite artists are; My Chemical Romance // Lady Gaga // Green Day // Joji // Amy Winehouse // Måneskin -------------------------  ✨ VIPs ✨ @bouncySalamander26 [https://www.7cups.com/@bouncysalamander26]; Sal is a joy. He's funny, kind, a fantastic friend. Thank you, for always being awesome!  P.S. "snoozy sponge!" @Gracey [https://www.7cups.com/@Gracey]; I will never be able to thank Grace enough for her kindness and support over the years. She is sweet, understanding, patient, and always knows how to help out. Thank you, for always being a good friend 💙 @Tazzie [https://www.7cups.com/@Tazzie]; I miss you. You were an amazing listener, a dedicated leader, and an outstanding person. Thank you, for always believing in me. Rest eternally in peace 🕯️ #Sun4Lyf 💙
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Chinmay96
L Proficient 10 1638
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 Heyy there, Welcome to 7Cups and my little profile!  ^_^   It's a very brave step of yours to come here to speak about yourself and find answers.   Lets hold our hands so I can guide you first through my profile and then we sail together our journey over here till the very end and I won't leave you until you're satisfied with my service just like BAYMAX!  It's really nice that we met here! And think of me as your close friend; I'll really like to listen to you and help you in any way I can!  Feel free to talk with me anytime! Even if I am offline, just drop a text; I will try my best to be there besides you SUPER SOON!!  #WARNINGS: 1. YOU'RE ABOUT TO SIGN UP FOR FREE UNLIMITED VIRTUAL HUGS!!!!!!  2. YOU WILL HAVE A LISTENER WHO WON'T BE LEAVING YOUR SIDE EVER! NO MATTER HOW LOW YOU FEEL AND GIVE UP ON EVERYTHING. 3. YOU ARE BASICALLY GOING TO SIGN UP FOR YOUR "BESTEST FRIEND EVER" WHO IS COMPLETLY NON JUDGEMENTAL, SUPER CARING, LOVING AND AFFECTIONATE! 4. IN SHORT YOU'RE NEVER EVER GOING TO BE ALONE AND ALWAYS LOVED MY BEST FRIEND! Okay! Okay! I guess enough self praises about me already. xD Also needless to say I'll be professional  to the core!   #BASIC INFO ABOUT ME: NAME:   So I'm CHINMAY but you can call that or 'Chin' or "Chinu' or 'May' or basically anything you wish to say! GENDER:  I prefer to be a listener with gender based on your requirement! If you feel free to open up with a FEMALE listener, I'll be a female listener; If it's a BOYS talk, I will be a male listener. Same goes for my AGE! *AGE AND GENDER HINT FOR SMARTIES - IT's SCATTERED SOMEWHERE IN MY PROFILE ONLY. GO BE SHERLOCKS! :P Let's break the old boundaries that only a person from our OWN GENDER can understand us and promote EQUALITY!!!!  P.S. I didn't mention LGBTQ+ because I feel I honestly won't be able help beyond a point, but if it's an 'OPEN EAR' and 'FRIEND' you need, I'll also be an LGBT for you!  WHY I BECAME LISTENER: I felt sad of how our life normally revolves around a selfish circle of rat-race and just looing after self. Also I love helping others, making new friends and listening to them; may it be friends, animals and strangers! So when I came to know about 7 Cups, I actually found my SECOND HOME!!!    BIO: Blogger, Writer 📑, इंजीनियर 🎓. Atheist, but finding God. 😇 Introvert, Social Anxiety, Shy, Weird, Nerd, OCD 😰. Pets 🐕, Social Causes 🌈, Music (All) 🎶, Games 🎮, Foodie 🍗. Sarcasm 💙, Curiosity to know everything 🤔, Infatuated Dreamer 😴. Travelling 🌍, Capturing WORLD in my Camera <3, Astronomy 🌌. ​​​​​​Zombies & Ghosts 👻, Marvel & DC 🔥, Coffee & Tea ☕, , Old School 👵 blah blah blah... P.S. #YOLO so want to enjoy life to the fullest while also helping others. 😌         And if you ever feel I am offline and really want to talk with someone, feel free to  these COOL KIDS in the link below!!!        YOU'RE SPECIAL, CLICK FOR LOVE! [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]             CURRENT ROLES:      7CUPS Intern       Safety Patrol Team   *applied*          Your BFF          LANGUAGE:  Apart from the ones I speak, if you still need to converse with me (due to inavailability of listeners or you just wish to talk), I use Google Translate, so language would never be a hurdle in our chats!        My 2 Cups On 7Cups:   *NARRATING LIKE A CENTURIES OLD BOOMER TO THE NEW GEN KIDS* "So in our days 7Cups was 7Cups of Tea and we had different leaders like Washington was once in US!  We used to have something called 'Feed', Yes! you read it right! Feed! We could post and share so many awesome, beautiful, colorful and inspiring posts... There was a followers system, so as 7cups can't save old chats, it was easier to connect with old members as they could be traced in followers menu" Also I lost lots of Listener buddies who I would like to pay respect as I finally end my bio xD :  "My young lion cub, and my other side! ": @Chin96  "My only past friend I got in touch who is also a beautiful soul! ": @Gracey      "My Listener twin who has almost everything similar to me and I am glad I met her here accidently!" : @ElectrifyingSoul26      "My Sweetest, Kindest friend and Mentor for life!" : @myNightSky      "My Bestiee for life" : @MyNameIsSelini        "Also currently looking for a Listener Twin. If you came this far and see this kindly adpot me :P"    *P.S. Still sticking to my 5 years old teenage written bio so kindly accept the immature cringe! *      
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IrizzaCares
L Veteran 11 2080
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Not taking Self-Harm, Addiction OR Suicide chats
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