Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Need to talk to someone?

More Filters

It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

beck1
L Sage 2 878
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
PFP made by @FrenchMarbles [https://www.7cups.com/@FrenchMarbles] After much time and thought, I have decided to leave Cups. I am leaving my account live so that people have a chance to see my messages and then eventually will be putting my account on self care break, indefinitely.  I am thankful for my time here and have learned so much from so many amazing people. Thank you to those of you who have supported me in my Listener journey and thank you to the members who have courageously trusted me with their stories. This journey is one that I will never forget
Read more...
crang17
L Proficient 1382
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last month
Hello! Welcome to 7 Cups! I have a background in Philosophy and Sociology. Now, I am taking up my masters in Clinical Psychology. I know that life can be very difficult sometimes so I am here to lend my ears to anyone who wishes to speak to someone and be able to freely express themselves.  Now, let me share with you a story of my life, through one of my favorite art pieces by Picasso.   When you look at the mirror, what do you see? How would you describe the person looking back at you? I first encountered Picasso's "Girl Before a Mirror" when I was taking up a course in Philosophy of Art back in college. The moment I saw it online as I look up for a piece to use for an essay, I am drawn to the girl in the mirror.  Growing up, I don't like looking at mirrors because they are key reminders of what I lack in life. This may be why I am drawn to this painting ever since I saw it. The more I look at it, the more I study it, the more I remove it from the meaning bestowed by Picasso and I began owning it as a reflection of my dissatisfaction and hatred to myself. Like the girl, I could only cry in the mirror. She was the only one between us who can let the tears flow down her cheeks and let the voiceless scream get out of her head.  On the other side of the mirror, the dimension is freer, gloomier but freer, and she can be sad, which I didn't have the right to be. For I had a leash on my neck that tightens once I wander farther than I was supposed to run; that would choke me once I start to bark. So, I had to be the perfect little obedient girl whose life was not her own, whose life was carefully broken into pieces for her family, school, church, and society to control. I envied her freedom to feel her emotions. I envied her chance to live her natural colors.  But who made me the person I am?  To expose myself, I would have to wipe the colorete on my face and remove the hideously neat dress I have to keep for special occasions. I would have to remove the shoes and shows the blisters I get from walking on eggshells every single day. I would have to show my soul that has grown tired for saying "I am okay." and for giving a smile that never reaches her eyes. In my mind, I know that I do not own myself. No one listens but everyone has a judgment. No one sees but everyone has plans. Isn't that how life runs its natural course? We are nothing but a pawn for someone else's blueprint. My mom calls me an investment for her retirement plan. My father blames me for being that kid who needed her mom more. My teachers complain about me being not the best. My friends would leave for my mind was always in another place. Everyone has a comparison of me against someone better than I am. I am always not enough. I am always not giving enough. In the end, I am but an abandoned ragged doll trying to take a breath of fresh air where life can only provide nothing but a stinky polluted air. A life where you don't fear rats and cockroaches anymore as you see them as nothing but part of the ecosystem you live.  And now as I look back in the mirror, trying to see the differences between my past and current self, the colors seem more vibrant and the air is more breathable but, the voices are still there. Now, the voices are headless. The voices would come strong one day and soft on another. I am more confused than in the past. I have survived but am I alive? Now, the voices are not from anybody else but deep inside me.  I have become my mother, father, brother, relatives, teachers, church, and friends. I have now embodied them and the hands holding the leash are no one else's but mine. I choke myself from wanting to be enough for everyone, even when no one is asking for it anymore. When people are now more accepting and tolerant of my shortcoming and weaknesses. I want to breathe. I must cut the leash, expose my cuts, and allow the wounds to heal. I want to see someone else in the mirror. I want to see a woman who can smile with pure joy in her heart. I want to see a more vibrant and refreshing garden at her back and I can't do that if I continue beating myself up and not seeing the real person inside me. If I cannot love myself back, how can I accept the love of another person? How can I experience life if I won't free myself from the shackles of the past and from accepting my whole: form, limitations, and potentialities?  The answer is I can't. I have to listen to my heart. I have to see the person in the mirror. I have to embrace and hug the side of me that I kept in the dark for so long. I have to be kinder and allow myself to stumble, fall, and stand up again. A long process and a tedious one but better than the leash and the fake colorete to mask the pain So if you are like me, I wish you will learn to look at the mirror too and allow yourself to cry, to smile, to be angry, and to mourn. Don't look at your good qualities but try to see the whole you, how good and bad they may be. And at the end of the day, give yourself a much needed and deserved hug. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4V3Mo61fJM
Read more...
vivelespatates
L Epitome 9 2644
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last month
English will follow  Bonjour! Je suis patate! Je suis un écoutant "vérifié" et je suis ici pour vous apporter écoute, support et réconfort dans les sujets suivants: - Anxiété, stress, attaques de panique - Autisme et TSA - Automutilation  - Vivre avec un handicap physique - problèmes de santé physique - maladies chroniques et/ou dégénératives - Intimidation, taxage, discrimination - Diversité culturelle - LGBTQA+ - Gestion des émotions - Gestion du poids, adopter un mode de vie sain. (Je prône l'alimentation intuitive, pas les diètes) - Victimes d'abus, Victimes de crimes - Expérience traumatiques, État/Trouble de Stress Post-Traumatique (ESPT/TSPT) - Travail autonome, lancement d'une entreprise - Troubles du comportement alimentaire - Stress financier - Vie étudiante Je NE prend PAS les clavardages sur les sujets suivants: - Relations - Ruptures amoureuses - Santé sexuelle - Problèmes "de garçon/d'homme ou de fille/femme" J'accepte les nouveaux membres, adolescents et adultes. Du au nombre de chats inappropriés, les requêtes hors-ligne sans sujet spécifiés ne seront pas répondu. ------------------------- Mentorat J'accepte les nouveaux mentorés. Si tu es un.e écoutant.e intéressé.e à améliorer tes compétences en écoute active, apprendre à mieux répondre aux besoin des membres ou animer des discussions de groupe, contacte moi. Que tu sois nouveau ou perdu sur le site, que tu ais besoin d'aide pour mieux répondre aux besoins des membres, que tu ais besoin de support durant un chat plus difficile ou après un mauvais chat, que tu veules t'impliquer dans des projets ou trouver le rôle qui te convient le mieux, ou simplement que tu veules animer des discussion de groupe ou t'améliorer comme un écoutant, Je peux t'aider!   Spécifiques projets pour lesquels j'offre un plus grand accompagnement car je suis engagé dans les rôles:  *Group Support Mentor* (Support Team Leader for Healthy Living) ------------------------- Hello ! I'm Patate and I'm a verified listener. I am here to listen, support and comfort you in the following subjects: Anxiety, stress, panic attacks - Autism and ASD - Self-harm - Living with a physical disability - physical health problems - chronic pain - chronic and/or degenerative diseases - Intimidation, bullying, discrimination, stigmatisation - Cultural diversity - LGBTQA+ - Managing emotions - Weight management, adopt a healthy lifestyle. (I promote intuitive eating, not diets) - Victims of Abuse, Victims of Crime - Traumatic experience, Post-Traumatic Stress State (PTSD) - Self-employment, starting a business - Eating disorders - Financial stress - Student life.  I DO NOT accept chats on the following topics: - Relationships - breakups and divorces - Sexual health - "Boy/man" or "girl/woman" issues. I currently accept new members, teens and adults. Take note that English is limited and NOT my first language. If you prefer someone fluent, you may want to check for a different listener. Due to the number of inappropriate chats, offline requests with no subject specified will not be answered. Mentoring: I accept new mentees. If you are a listener interested in improving your active listening skills, learning how to better respond to members' needs or facilitating group discussions, contact me. Whether you're new to the site or lost, need help to better meet member needs, need support during or after a bad chat, want to get involved in projects or find the role that suits you best, or simply want to lead group discussions, I can help you!  Healthy Living Team Are you a member or listener interested in leading healthy living discussions?!   The healthy living team is recruiting new discussion leaders to help members to develop good healthy habits, get support and motivation, and discuss topics in relation to their health. We have a lot of approved discussions available for you to lead!  If you are interested, message me in English or French and specify its about HL team or +Click here for more information [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/HealthyLivingAnnouncements_828/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/]!  ------------------------- Twin My listener twins are @Jenna , @PoliteOcean and @HopieRemi <3
Read more...