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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

TogetherForeverAlways
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CriSun
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世上千千万万聆听者,我是之一。 "The world has millions of listeners, I'm the one of them."
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annegray2018
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Hi! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with relationship issues, family problems or friendship. I enjoy reading novels, watching comedy films, cracking jokes to cheer people up but above all I derive pleasure in seeing someone happy and influenced positively by my actions. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online then feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Maximum chat limit is 1 hour. Glad you are here!
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daydreammemories
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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿 (Currently accepting new member buddies, feel free to reach out. It's a pleasure to talk to you all😄) ------------------------- I'll be there for you              When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been? 😊 I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile.  We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow. I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) ✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story. ✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. ✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s. ✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. ✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. ✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: 🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college.  🕊️I love learning new languages. 🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. 🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.  🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows. 🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷. 🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚.  🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.  May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇 “Message in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕
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DanCat1128
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╭──────༺♡༻──────╮ 𝐻𝑖 𝐼'𝑚 𝐷𝑎𝑛𝑑𝑎𝑛!  𝐼 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑠𝑎𝑦. 𝑀𝑦 𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑠 𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑙𝑢𝑑𝑒 𝑛𝑜 𝑠𝑒𝑥𝑢𝑎𝑙 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑡𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑎𝑛𝑦 𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑑, 𝑛𝑜 𝑑𝑒𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑡𝑠 𝑎𝑠 𝑖𝑡 𝑒𝑓𝑓𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑠 𝑚𝑦 𝑚𝑜𝑜𝑑𝑠. 𝑀𝑦 ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑚𝑖𝑑𝑛𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑡𝑜 8𝑎𝑚 𝑒𝑠𝑡. ✧༺♥༻✧ 𝐼 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑦 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑔𝑢𝑖𝑡𝑎𝑟 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑝𝑖𝑎𝑛𝑜. 𝐼 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑦 𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑛𝑖𝑠. 𝐼 𝑔𝑟𝑎𝑑𝑒 𝑝𝑎𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑠 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑚𝑜𝑚, 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑘 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑜𝑙𝑑𝑒𝑟 𝑔𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑤ℎ𝑜 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑑𝑖𝑠𝑎𝑏𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑒𝑠. 𝐼 𝑎𝑚 𝑎𝑛 𝑎𝑟𝑚𝑦 𝑏𝑟𝑎𝑡. 𝐼 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 8 𝑠𝑖𝑏𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑠 𝑎𝑛𝑑 1 𝑛𝑖𝑒𝑐𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 1 𝑛𝑒𝑝ℎ𝑒𝑤. ✧༺♥༻✧ 𝑀𝑦 𝑟𝑜𝑙𝑒𝑠 𝑎𝑟𝑒 🐱 𝐴𝑐𝑎𝑑𝑒𝑚𝑦 𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑜𝑟 (𝐼𝑛𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑛𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑝)  🐱 𝐴𝑐𝑎𝑑𝑒𝑚𝑦 𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑜𝑟 (𝑞𝑙𝑝 𝑞𝑢𝑎𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑦  𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑝𝑟𝑜𝑔𝑟𝑎𝑚)  🐱 𝐴𝑇𝐿 (𝑎𝑑𝑢𝑙𝑡 𝑡𝑒𝑒𝑛 𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟)  🐱 𝐶ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑆𝑢𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑒𝑟 🐱 𝐿𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟 𝐷𝑖𝑠𝑐𝑢𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑇𝑒𝑎𝑚 🐱 𝑃𝑒𝑒𝑟 𝑆𝑢𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑒𝑟 🐱 𝑅𝑜𝑜𝑚 𝑆𝑢𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑒𝑟 (𝑃𝑜𝑠𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑣𝑖𝑡𝑦 𝐶𝑜𝑟𝑛𝑒𝑟)  🐱 𝑉𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑓𝑖𝑒𝑟𝑠 𝑇𝑒𝑎𝑚 ╰──────༺♡༻──────╯
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I’m PeacePink, and since 2021, I’ve been an active listener on 7Cups, driven by a desire to support individuals navigating through unique and challenging experiences. Having faced my own battles with chronic illness, sexual violence, and other adversities, I find purpose in guiding others towards meaning, resilience, and connection. Central to my approach is the creation of a safe haven where individuals can freely express their thoughts, emotions, and concerns. I strive to cultivate a non-judgmental environment where your experiences and perspective are deeply understood and respected. Whether you seek a listening ear, a space to vent, or company, know that I’m here to offer unwavering support. You are the expert of your own journey, and my role is to actively listen, provide encouragement, and empower you to discover your own strengths and solutions. Together, let’s embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and growth. I’m committed to supporting you every step of the way, and I look forward to connecting. Verified Listener: I graduated with honors from the 7 Cups Internship Program and the Quality Listening Program; additionally, I serve as a forum supporter for the PTSD/Trauma forum. Currently pursuing my undergraduate degree in psychology with aspirations to become a psychiatrist or neurosurgeon, I bring both academic knowledge and lived experience to our conversations. However, please note that I cannot provide diagnoses or clinical advice. What I Offer: I’m committed to providing support for any chat topic. I also welcome more casual conversations about everyday events and interests. Unlike many listeners, I provide long-term support, meaning you can connect with me almost every week and schedule appointments. I’m located in Pacific Time Zone (PT).
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Welcome to my Igloo, Please, come sit by the fire and relax with me for a while.... Hello, thanks for finding me on 7cups. I promise to do my best to help you feel heard. I look forward to speaking with you so just leave a message.I have had an exciting adventure continuing to grow as a listener. I enjoy meeting new people and sharing moments of their day with them. I live with the philosophy that you're never too old to learn something new. Being open to learning is what keeps us young mentally, no matter how fragile our bodies get. I look forward to connecting with you. My Listener Twins @Jenna @Bobcatz @bouncyCandy4246
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starryCandy6123
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I am 67 year old male i live with my 3 cats I am I a relationship with a wonderful woman . I have just been passed as a verified listener. I have began to reconnect with reiki this week
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ChillingRain
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Back from my long self-care break.  Please read my bio before messaging me. Heya. I'm Rain. It's very nice meeting you! I'm a college student from Turkey. Despite my young age I have been through a lot journeying life, so I promise to offer a compassionate and judgment-free environment in our chats. I commend your courage and strength: reaching out for support is never easy!  **As listed on my profile, I only offer support chats in English. Although I am fluent in more languages, I have taken my training in English, thus I feel comfortable offering support in that language.** **I am quite busy lately and most likely won't find the time to reply to any new member requests.** Topics I am most comfortable offering support with: - Anxiety & Anxiety Attacks - Depression - Panic Attacks - Break-Ups - Self-Harm - Domestic Abuse - Relationship Stress Topics I prefer not to discuss: - LGBTQIA+ Issues - Personality Disorders - Schizophrenia - Grief - Politics or religion.  **Please note; I prefer not to discuss these topics since they are triggering for me so I am not equipped to offer support with them.** Graduate of Quality Listening, Leadership Development, and Internship with honors.  Listener Twins: @Ralien! Amazing listener and a great friend! Ralien is super supportive and always willing to improve. Like an Oriental Lilly!  ✧⁠◝⁠(⁠⁰⁠▿⁠⁰⁠)⁠◜⁠✧(⁠´⁠∩⁠。⁠•⁠ ⁠ᵕ⁠ ⁠•⁠。⁠∩⁠`⁠) @LittleBirdie30 Best team leader ever! One of the nicest people I've talked to. You're a Lilly of the Valley! (⁠◠⁠‿⁠・⁠)⁠—⁠☆(⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠) @Lunaire00 Extraordinarily kind person! And an excellent Listener Verifier. You're like an Azalea flower! (⁠♡⁠ω⁠♡⁠ ⁠)⁠ ⁠~⁠♪(⁠ ⁠´⁠◡⁠‿⁠ゝ⁠◡⁠`⁠) @SirenOfSerenity If Siren was a chemical substance they'd be Thaumatin. Extremely sweet! (⁠。⁠・⁠ω⁠・⁠。⁠)⁠ノ⁠♡(⁠人⁠ ⁠•͈⁠ᴗ⁠•͈⁠) @KindnessMatters2020 Best Mentor I could ask for! If they were a flower, they'd be a Jasmine; graceful and sweet. (⁠☆⁠▽⁠☆⁠)(⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠♡ @Suryansh I don't know how a human being can be so sweet and easy to approach. Surya is amazing, like a Nicotiana! (⁠ ⁠ꈍ⁠ᴗ⁠ꈍ⁠)(⁠*⁠˘⁠︶⁠˘⁠*⁠)⁠.⁠。⁠*⁠♡ @AuRewolf My amazing peer, Wolf. Like a Sweet William, your presence lights up each group support room you're in! (⁠◡⁠ ⁠ω⁠ ⁠◡⁠)⊂⁠(⁠´⁠・⁠◡⁠・⁠⊂⁠ ⁠)⁠∘⁠˚⁠˳⁠° @FaithfulZareia Your presence in TL lights up the room! I'd say you're like a Anise Hyssop! Sweet, super helpful and kind, and just gorgeous! (⁠☆⁠▽⁠☆⁠)⊂⁠(⁠•⁠‿⁠•⁠⊂⁠ ⁠)⁠*⁠.⁠✧ My Leadership Roles: - Adult-Teen Listener - Care Team Project Agent - Chatroom Mentor (for adult and teen side) - Chat Support (for adult and teen side) - Peer Support - Doorkeeper - Listener Community Discussions Host (on break) - Anonymous Evaluations Team (former role) - Listener Verifiers' Team (former role)
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Ivy229
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*I AM OPEN AND LOOKING FOR MEMBERS WHO ARE SEEKING A LONG-TERM LISTENER ON A REGULAR BASIS * *Working on coming back from a self-care break away from 7Cups, so please excuse if I am not still available as I previously was as I get refamiliarized with the 7Cups community and what happened while I was away.* About Me: Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type) Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world. Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi ------------------------- I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.   We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!   You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.   Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊 And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or anything. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊   I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better. Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world.  ------------------------- If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed. If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed. If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible.   * I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited.  * If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service plus do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here.  *I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues. *My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different
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Omurice1904
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SunshineNaina
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Please note that for all requests of one-on-one chats, I will be allotting an hour for each chat in order to manage things well. The timing can differ based on the conversation. Hello! I'm glad you're here. There are sometimes stages in life when you cannot disclose your feelings or thoughts to a close one. 7 Cups of Tea is here for you, providing an anonymous listener and guess what! speaking to a stranger does help you. So, here I'm for you all. A listener for you as I'll like to help you out.
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