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A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

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On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

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If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

BlueRivercares
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šŸŒŠšŸŒŠInactive..friends can still messagešŸŒŠšŸŒŠ pfp by @Aurewolf BROWSE LISTENER [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] CARE TEAM REQUEST [http://bit.ly/7cupsCTReferralForm] šŸŒ·Dear MembersšŸŒ· Ā šŸ’™I will listen to you without judging and i won't force you to do anything (it's not necessary to answer things you are uncomfortable with) šŸ’™I will be your private and safe space where you can vent out your problems , anger, sadness and happiness on me :) ------------------------- šŸŒ·Important notešŸŒ· Ā šŸ’™triggered by words like 'warning, hate'šŸ’™ Ā šŸ’™also i don't take chats based on sexual topicsšŸ’™ Ā šŸ’™triggered with capsšŸ’™ Ā šŸ’™triggered by calling me dear , sweetie, honey if I don't know you wellšŸ’™ Ā šŸ’™I don't tolerate pranks also even if it's friendlyšŸ’™ šŸ’™I don't provide chat support on relationships, violence (any kind) and sexual topicšŸ’™ (new) ------------------------- šŸŒ·Some general navigation if you are new to 7cupsšŸŒ· https://www.7cups.com [https://www.7cups.com/113046774] šŸ’™Ā If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements.Ā  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]check themĀ here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/NewCriteriaUpdatesGroupChatsEasierToAccessNow_280544]Ā šŸ’™ šŸ’™link to all chatrooms activeĀ Chatrooms [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]šŸ’™ šŸ’™feel free to pm me or all active usersĀ with a Safety Patrol badge [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=405]Ā Ā (for inappropriate bios, names and pfp only )šŸ’™ Ā šŸ’™Care request form to nominate listeners :Ā form [http://bit.ly/7cupsCTReferralForm]šŸ’™ šŸ’™had a hard chat fellow listener? feel free to fill a peer support form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczCTVNWvFp9e9EwyYNT5oTcoBdfRxROzPvcXhHk0cXLvwyQw/viewform]šŸ’™ļ»æļ»æ šŸ’™If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/view] šŸ’™ Ā šŸ’™or request for a chat support using this emergency form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc2yFIiL6az6UEOc5LNqOOERpM7D0g8F49x0qjbIq7QwhJOBQ/viewform]šŸ’™ Ā šŸ’™comprehensive slide deck on all leadership roles [https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/10oh0pBR1rt9C6tMAhRvjF1TfgAEHbyDQyimizN4hdfU/edit?usp=drive_link]šŸ’™ Ā šŸ’™Are you a member? You can nominate a listener for the tulip badge here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/AppreciationGratitude_1159/ProjectTulip_224864/1/].šŸ’™ ------------------------- My roles āœ·Ā verified Adult-teen listener (ATL) āœ· Chatroom mentor (listener mod) āœ· Chat Support (if you need help with ongoing chats for adults and teens) āœ· Doorkeeper āœ· GSP Graduate with Honours āœ· LCT Project Agent (can reach out to me if interested to become a Listener coach) āœ· CommunityĀ Mentor (Music & Dance [https://www.7cups.com/forum/music/]) click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/music/CommunitySpace_2579/HelpWantedMusicDancesubcommunity_315718/] if you are interested in joining the M&D Team ------------------------- šŸŒ·PeoplešŸŒ·Ā  Ā šŸ’• twinning with amazing @aticuest , @confidentRabbit7311, @SilverSeastar and @Alexia000 šŸ’• šŸ’œ@cristlecaresšŸŒ»šŸ“ø my charming Chatroom Mentor twinšŸ’œ šŸ’š@AuRewolf [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3427622] my appreciating twinšŸ’š šŸ§”@Suryansh my Smart twinšŸ§” šŸ’™@melodyoftheoceanšŸŒŠ my cups siblingšŸ’™ ā™„ļøŽ@Jenna my left-handed palā™„ļøŽ ā¤ļømiss you @fallenangel19šŸ˜ø , i know you are here with me foreverā¤ļø šŸ’™ some other people close to my (appreciation link included) šŸ’™ Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] @kindnessmater2020 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2892233] @Starlasky [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2924260] @artsysoul22 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2932261] @lueurspace [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2937203] @hopezzy [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2942797]Ā  @lavender [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2954445] @mamtasha22 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2955549] @luvinvader [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2957969]Ā  @swiftygirl13 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2994957]Ā @Emmae [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2994952]Ā @feelicity08 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215] @sparkygizmo [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215] @varyingcloud [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215]Ā  @brightfuture82 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215] @brahmm [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2998215]Ā  @FighterArpi [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931091] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089]@ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089]Estrellitaa [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2931089]Ā  @Sparklingseashells [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2990114] @Sunisshiningandsoareyou [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3154524] @Kyoshi [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3148173] @confidentRabbit7311 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3146465]Ā  @rose644 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3160540] @Rosshini [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=2953707] @dTanushree [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3178851] @navyacai8433 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3179496] @LilacLeopard [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3186246] @Chetan [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3194076] @fristo [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3192533] @waterfallnature [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3196952] @fromthelandofhope [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3204546] @Jasmineishereforu [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3206611] @thoughtfulblossom [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3219770] @GentleEmperor [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3219424] @tabbycat97 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3230845]Ā @shinequeen001 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3216528] @amiablebunny4016 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3214346] @Aurewolf [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3237343] @richuyulin [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3209341] @EvelyneRose [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3240541]Ā @erica [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3246588]Ā @hopedreamlove [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3256764]Ā @sirenofserenity [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitud/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3254881]Ā @beck [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3280606]Ā Ā @yourcaringconfidant [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3324003]Ā Ā @stargirltina [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3351751]Ā @AnnaSilverberg [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3363364]Ā @Jenna [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3366819]Ā @Suryansh [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3390478]Ā @KateDoskocilova [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3418939]Ā Ā ( still need to finish) just an amazing link [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Gratitude/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/?post=3198413] my self care interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AddictionSupport_131/PreventingandOvercoming7cupsAddiction_2339/ATalkOnSelfCareWithBlueRiver5968_277783/]Ā  living with leaders interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/SittingonthebankofCaringBlueRiver_297783/] some of the shoutouts i got which melted my heart :pĀ @Pluviophile1802 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/CommunityAdministrationCultureandGuidelines_141/ListenerShoutOutsAppreciatefellowlisteners_227537/?post=3283951]Ā @serenePineapple7180 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/CommunityAdministrationCultureandGuidelines_141/ListenerShoutOutsAppreciatefellowlisteners_227537/?post=3200971]
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ASilentObserver
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"You are always one decision away from a totally different life." Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team [https://www.7cups.com/about/communityGuidelines.php].Ā  Here are some resources in case you need them -Ā  If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ASilentObserversOffice_2008/WeeklyGroupSupportLetterWeekofFeb10_217277/]Ā  Join us in various group discussions.Ā check the community calendar for the schedule and details.Ā  [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Group Support Frequently Asked Questions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/ObsDesk_2008/FrequentlyAskedQuestionsGroupSupport_215692/] Weekly Communi. a listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/CommunityModeratorWeeklySchedule_1640/CommunityModScheduleWeekofJan06_214569/] If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource [https://www.google.com/url?q=https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit?usp%3Dsharing&sa=D&ust=1581950130116000&usg=AFQjCNFZd4GUNuPdJ94r__2tXhDNc9oL5Q]Ā  Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts.Ā  I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here-Ā Ā Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/].Ā We all are here with you to listen to and support you.Ā  Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les Brown Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!
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Yougotmyback
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Not taking member chats and totally unavailable. *Kitty Hugs* āœØWould you let me see beneath your beautiful? ā¤ļø (Note : Please type up the topic of your chat instead of just a 'hi' so that it helps me know if I would be the right listener for you or not.) I can't save you but I can be with you and support you while you save yourself. Some important links : Connect with some amazing listeners Here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners].You deserve to be seen and heard. Here's aĀ Member Pack [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CL9Yu_6zixlapOjdrhCgKLy9JN5wY3HWdrGH7PIO2WI/edit] for you to navigate the site better. Here are someĀ Forums [https://www.7cups.com/forum/] you can join to find support and positivity. Here's aĀ Listener's [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1dJwbNslw0nzUKqts1caZ477H3p4tpKQnB6Fkgg1QR44/edit?pli=1] [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1dJwbNslw0nzUKqts1caZ477H3p4tpKQnB6Fkgg1QR44/edit?pli=1]Pack [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1dJwbNslw0nzUKqts1caZ477H3p4tpKQnB6Fkgg1QR44/edit?pli=1] for the new listeners. Two simple Steps to Submit a review - https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/FeatureUpdates_2525/TwoSimpleStepstoSubmittheListenerReview_315363/ ------------------------------------- Please don't substitute this with therapy or counseling. I ask for your forgiveness if I fail to help you. If you think someone else can help you better, you can browse for other amazing listeners fromĀ Here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners]. You can also try out Online Therapy with a caring, licensed therapistĀ here [https://www.7cups.com/online-therapy/]. Click Here [https://www.7cups.com/therapists/search.php] to find the therapists nearby.There are certain issues that are personal, sensitive or need more attention and guidance and I don't want to disappoint you in any way due to my lack of knowledge or experience. And, some issues can be triggering for me. (I don't take chats about sexual issues, parenting, financial issues, religion, disabilities, chronic health issues, extramarital affairs, cheating & LGBTQ+).Ā We can still talk if you just need a listening ear and I'll be here for you, with you. - 7cups isĀ notĀ a crisis resource. If you are in crisis (having thoughts/intentions of suicide or are currently harming yourself), please contact crisis resourcesĀ here [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis]Ā or contact emergency services if you are in an immediate medical emergency. _____________________________________ Sign that you're meant to be here (1) [https://www.youtube.com/shorts/GjziAsA6vmk] Sign that you're meant to be here (2) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3KrCmBNiJRI&ab_channel=Source] Do find your own! (: āœØā¤ļø Zendagi migzara. "When life gets you down do you know what you've gotta do?...Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming, swimming, swimming." Availablility: You can leave me a text anytime. If I'm offline, I will get back to you as soon as possible.Ā Chats are limited to 30 minutes. However, you can send texts in between. Thank you for understanding. Disrespect will not be tolerated. It's always nice to appreciate the beautiful people around you!Ā Click Here [https://tinyurl.com/Peer-Appreciation-Form] for the Peer Appreciation form. Interested in music? Here's 7 cups Spotify Playlist [https://spotify.link/KkzvsAII1Db] for you! Trying to fill your cup with hopes and smiles. Sending positive vibes your way! šŸ«¶šŸ»
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MistyMagic
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. . .Ā  if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? Something to think about perhaps when approaching a listener for the first time. It is much more helpful for everyone to actually say something that can lead to a good listening experience. I am unable to take on new chats from members right now. Please understand and choose another listener instead. Don't forget to use the filter/search function to find a more suitable listenerĀ https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/Ā  "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas -Ā anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships,Ā love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities.Ā I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need. If I am not online then you are welcome toĀ leave me a message -Ā Ā but pleaseĀ tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind thatĀ I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? If you are a teen turning 18 soon then you can apply for one of the Teen Transitioning Team to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.Ā  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM [https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM] If you have any feedback or ideas for theĀ Hobby Zone sub-community then please fill out this form ~~>Ā https://bit.ly/7CupsHZformĀ  At weekendsĀ my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7Cups,Ā and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday.Ā IĀ  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax.Ā  ONE STEP AT A TIME "We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life. Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction. Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while, Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves. But each and every footstep is important in so many ways. Ways that we may not even know about. Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow."Ā  Listening ... one step at a time Quote of Acceptance When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger, When we accept it, it becomes tolerance. When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear, When we accept it, it becomes an adventure,Ā  When we don't accept other's bad behavior toward us, it becomes hatred, When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness. When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration. Acceptance is the key to handling life well !! Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time! "Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill) "Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"Ā  (B. Disraeli) Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant.
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Mya000
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šŸŒ·Ā Hi there! I'm Mya, a 23-year-old verified volunteer listener for adults. I am fluent in both English and French, and I'm here to lend an empathetic ear and provide support.Ā I serve in various roles: * Chat Supporter for Listeners * Community Mentor for the Women's Issues Community * Doorkeeper šŸŒĀ I usually don't respond quickly due to the high volume of messages I receive, but rest assured that I make it a point to reply to every messageĀ within 2ā€“3 days at most. Your patience is greatly appreciated, as I am doing my best to be there for each of you. šŸŖ»Ā If you prefer a real-time conversation, we can schedule a live chat lasting up to one hour.Ā I am typically available between 8 AM to 12 AM EDT on Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays. Please let me know your availability so that we can find a suitable time that works for both of us.ļ»æ šŸ¦Ā Mutual respect is essential for meaningful conversations. I won't tolerate any form of disrespect or discrimination towards myself or anyone else. This space is safe, and everyone deserves to be treated with kindness and understanding. šŸŒ¼Ā Please don't hesitate to reach out whenever you need someone to talk to. I'm here for you, ready to listen and support.Ā Take care of yourself! ------------------------- šŸš«Ā Please note that I don't engage in chats about sexual issues. If you're seeking support about this topic, I recommend finding another listener:Ā https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
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crypticwhisperss1
L Intermediate 3 120
5.0 star rating
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Hello everyone! My name is Xaverie. My pronouns are she/her. It's nice to meet you!Ā  I have decided to join this community to offer emotional support to struggling individuals and make a difference in people's lives. I am deeply passionate about psychology and learning about nonverbal language. My hobbies include writing; reading; singing; watching horror/mystery TV series; and sometimes sketching. My favorite color is wine red (as you can probably tell), and I absolutely love savory food! šŸŒ¹āœØ So far, I am a Verified Listener! I am working hard to acquire different skills and interact with as many community members as possible. If you are a Member who is interested in texting me for support, then please read the following!:Ā  ā™« I am comfortable with all topics except Domestic Violence, Sexual Health,Ā and Sexual Abuse. Please refer to other listeners if you are encountering any problem related to these topics. We are here for you! šŸ„°šŸ’– ā™« My texting style is very formal, and I am interested in supporting others by typing them paragraphs. However, I ask every Member at the beginning of our conversation if text walls trigger them. Kindly answer the question truthfully so that I can adjust my texts and make you feel convenient while we are progressing through the conversation. I highly appreciate your collaboration. šŸ’ž ā™« For any Member who is reading this, all my texts will show empathy, validation, and support. You are welcome to discuss any matters with me, so long as you avoid the topics that I don't feel comfortable discussing! Additionally, I sometimes send videos or websites related to your problem so that you can have a wider perspective of it and think of solutions. šŸ˜Š ā™« I hope that you don't send me short responses like "ok", "yeah", "sure", "idk", etc. If I ask you any thought-provoking answer and you don't have a definite answer to it, please inform me so that I can ask simpler questions. However, please do not be too brief because I am here to understand your problems and help you. I would appreciate even the slightest elaboration! šŸ˜šŸŒ· A message to anyone reading this:Ā  Life isn't meant to be a linear path. Sometimes, you have to reach the peak of a mountain of success only to find yourself drowning in mistakes once more. That is completely alright, and it does not define your intelligence or worth. You are completely valid, in this community and everywhere you go. You are worthy of support, attention, and a listening ear. You are a very strong individual, and there is nothing that can stop you from proving your power to everyone. I am immensely proud of you because I know that you are trying your best. Keep your head up, and don't lower it for temporary problems! I believe in you. šŸ’—šŸ’— ā€œHe who knows no hardships will know no hardihood. He who faces no calamity will need no courage. Mysterious though it is, the characteristics in human nature which we love best grow in a soil with a strong mixture of troubles.ā€Ā  Harry EmersonĀ 
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soulsings
L Epitome 19 4708
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Sorry if you are a member or guest looking to chat, I am not currently accepting new personal requests for chats. You can browse for a listener. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ . You may also find these helpful https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php Ā  Ā  https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Some people find that mindfulness helps them cope. The video Resource Library https://www.7cups.com/forum/mindfulness/ResourceLibrary_1062/2016presentMindfulnessVideos_72071/ If you might consider a paid text therapy on 7cups, then this may be of interest https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/ExcitingNewFeaturefor7CupsOnlineTherapyandCoaching_319430/ The other resource is various therapy topics Ā https://www.7cups.com/experts/catalog/topics/ All the best to you. Again sorry I cannot help you but my personal workload does not allow openings for that at this time. Ā 
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amiablePeace77
L Epitome 19 7027
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
I'm sorry but I'm not able to take any 1:1 chats/pm chats atm. If you are looking for a listener please browse hereĀ https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ Hello, Ā Iā€™mĀ  Ami,Ā  a verified listener on 7cups. My support will be confidential, without any judgement. There are no topics which make me feelĀ uncomfortable and I will do everything I can to make you feel welcome, safe and understood.Ā  7 Cups is not equipped to support crisis situations.Ā If you are in crisis please reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support. Here are some sourced crisis lines and resources to help you: * (U.S.)Ā The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/]Ā at 1-800-273-8255 * Crisis Text Lin [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in]e * (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 * (Canada) Text HOME to 686868 * International Association for Suicide Prevention [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] * Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645Ā Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]Ā  * UK * CallĀ Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/]Ā 116 123 * CallĀ Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/]Ā 080020068204141 or text 0778620209697 * AustraliaĀ Lifeline Crisis SupportĀ  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services]Ā call Ā 13 11 14 * India click the link to find a local crisis line withĀ Befrienders India [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php] My listening times are Monday to FridayĀ  as per arrangement , usually my listening time will be 45 to 60 min. once a week or 2 x 30 min. twice a week. A few things about me: Some of my favorite activities are exercising, Ā yoga,Ā  meditation, Ā nature walks and cooking. My approach to life is holistic, keeping the mind, body and spirits balanced. I consider living in harmony with natureĀ  very important. I had many challenges in my life and learned to cope and overcome them and would be glad to support you to achieve the same.Ā Ā Volunteering here on 7 cups Ā means a lot to be, Ā Ā I am very passionate about helping others. I want to acknowledge the courage that it takes to reach out, this is not easy, but you made the first step. Please feel free to message me any time, I promise I will get back to you as soon as I can.
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NewYorker11
L Master 9 1021
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
i am available on weekends for member chats! i enjoy chatting with new people and i hope that i can take your chat sometime soon! best regards!
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chyni
L Expert 4 617
4.5 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
ā€œsuccess is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.ā€ ā€”winston churchill šŸ¦‹šŸ¦‹šŸ¦‹ IMPORTANT NOTICE šŸ“£Ā  please DO NOTĀ send me a message saying "hi" or "hey" as i normally overlook these messages as spam/nothing serious, and rarely reply or never. i also ask users to do this as it helps me to understand better about the topic weā€™d be speaking on, as iā€™m not comfortable discussing certain things. if you have an issue that you'd like to speak on, please send me a brief message stating your issue/s and I'll get back to you ASAP when I'm available, thank you. also, my chats are normally 30-60 mins, depending on you šŸ˜ŠĀ  hello there, my name is chyni. welcome to my profile and to the 7 cups of tea site. there are a range of issues that iā€™m comfortable offering compassionate support for. these include:Ā  anxietyĀ ā€¢ā€¢ breakupsĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā bullying ā€¢ā€¢Ā chronic painĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā depressionĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā domestic violenceĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā lonelinessĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā managing emotionsĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā relationship stressĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā social anxietyĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā student lifeĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā exercise motivationĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā family stressĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā forgivenessĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā financial stressĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā getting unstuckĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā griefĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)Ā ā€¢ā€¢Ā panic attacksĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā self-esteemĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā spiritualityĀ ā€¢ā€¢Ā work stress i am a trained and verified listener, my goal here while serving my time on the 7 cups of Tea site is to, change or help change patterns of your thinking or behaviorĀ that are behind your difficulties, and so, change the way you feel.Ā  šŸ¦‹šŸ¦‹šŸ¦‹ my leadership roles: peer support verified listener room supporter ā€” depression supportĀ  forum supporter ā€” motivation & accountability communityĀ  forum supporter ā€” 7 cups academy communityĀ  chatroom supporterĀ ā€”Ā listener support roomĀ  šŸ¦‹šŸ¦‹šŸ¦‹ i donā€™t have a specific time for my availability, itā€™s whenever my status indicates that iā€™m available. if the status color is green, it means that iā€™m online, yellowā€“ busy, and redā€“ offline.Ā  i look forward to chatting with you and understanding how best I can help you.Ā  best wishes, chyni šŸ¤
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Bunnylovesyou
L Guru 2 2021
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Listens toTo Teens Last activein last week
My profile picture was picked by @lovemymoonflowers! it just took me so long to get it up here!Ā  shout out to @KateDoskocilova , my boss ahaĀ  Greetings Weary Traveler! I am so happy you stumbled upon my little page <3 I am proud of you for how far youā€™ve come. Why donā€™t you rest for a while, I am sure you need it? *offers blankets and a drink* Since you are here, why donā€™t we get to know each other a bit.Ā  I am Bunny. I began my Listener journey over a year ago. Iā€™m 16 years old, I am Homeschooled but in 10th grade (Year 11, Sophomore). I use He/They pronouns, but I know some of my members donā€™t feel comfortable with a male listener so I will say I am AFAB (assigned female at birth) My favorite color is Yellow. I donā€™t like making my bed because I like to sleep inside the blob. When I am not on 7cups, I am reading, crocheting, painting, or playing my clarinet! What about you? What is your name? Pronouns? I want to get to know you, hear about your life, the good, the bad, and the hairy. I mean scary xD.Ā  What kind of chats do I offer? =>Support Chats on allowed TopicsĀ  =>Lighthearted Chats, for some comfort or a friend =>Book recommendation/ramble chats =>Chats with Age-regressed membersĀ  =>Jeffy chatsĀ  So you are probably wondering what all of those chats mean. Well let me break it down:Ā  Support Chats on Allowed Topics: I do not take chats on Menā€™s Issues, Weight Loss, Exercise Motivation, or Cancer, due to personal triggers. I have lived experience in : Abuse, Adhd, Anxiety, Abandonment issues, Breakups, Bullying, Chronic Pain/illness, Depression, Disabilities, Dissociative Disorders, Dysphoria, Eating Disorders, Family Stress, Financial Stress, Forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Grief, LGBTQ+ Issues, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Panic Attacks, PTSD, Recovery, Relationship Stress, Self-esteem, Self Harm, Sleeping Well, Social Anxiety, Spirtuality, and Student Life. I do take chats on other topics, just not the ones in red.Ā  Please Note that while I take chats on Sexual Health, I do not wish to be asked on advice for self-pleasure, and or talk about that, as it is a personal trigger for me. I hope you understand<3 While I take chats on spirituality, Please don't ask about my religion. I am an Atheist, who believes everyone can make their own choices, and I support Religion.Ā  Lighthearted Chats:Ā  I take lighthearted chats! Want a friend? Want a cookie? Want to just talk to someone? I am your pal <3 Just note I prioritize the support chats <3 Book Recommendations/Ramble Chats-Ā  Need help figuring out what to read next? Read an amazing book you want to tell someone about? Do you want to just ramble about how your favorite character ever did something so mind exploding you can't handle it? I am here! I would love to listen to your favorite genres and favorite books and offer some recommendations, or just to talk about books!Ā  Jeffy Chats- Message me ā€˜Jeffy Picā€™ for a picture of my rabbit Jeffery!Ā  My mental health journey:Ā  Many members ask me about my journey, and what led me here. So I will share a little bit here. I live in a mentally abusive house. I have various health issues, which cause me to be in constant unbearable pain. I am hoping to have surgery this summer to help. I also have problems regulating my blood sugar, so it will drop randomly, which might cause me to have to leave our chat, I donā€™t want you to have an unconscious listener xD. I was in a sexually abusive relationship for 8 months last year, and I am recovering from anorexia. Rules for my chats/Things to keep in mind:Ā  =>Swearing is okay, please donā€™t cuss me outĀ  =>I allow age-regressing, but please try to make the messages comprehensibleĀ  =>Please donā€™t just say ā€˜Helloā€™, let me know what you'd like to talk aboutĀ  =>I have PTSD, so if I randomly ask you to refer to another listener, it is because i am triggered. I want you to get the best care possible <3 =>Please donā€™t send messages in all caps <3 Roles on 7cups (past, current, and on break) =>Verified Listener (current) =>Newbie Hub Mod (current) =>Trauma Support Mod (current) =>Trauma Support Forum Supporter (On-break) =>LGBTQ Mod (on-break) =>LGBTQ Forum Supporter (on-break) =>Door Keeper (current) =>Anxiety Chat Host (past) =>PAT Smile Spreader (past, although i may come back) =>Safety Patrol (current) =>LRS (past) =>Peer Support (current) Thank you for reading my bio, you amazing lovely wonderful person, and I hope to hear from you soon <3
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GlenM
L Specialist 3 478
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Welcome to 7 Cups! I'm the chief cook and bottle washer here. I love 7 cups and the community we have built. Really proud of all that we've accomplished and excited to see how we continue to evolve. I unfortunately do not have much time for listening, but please drop me a note if you have thoughts or feeback. Glad you are here!
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