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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

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Hamstermum
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I'm a teacher and educator with an interest in the therapeutic role of creativity. Being human just makes me want to help, no matter what you need to talk about.  A lot of my work includes listening, so 7 Cups is a great place to practice and improve this. I listen to adults and promise to be an empathetic and patient listener (and not judge!) if you come to chat to me. I also take on long term listening, so if you need support over a period of time I can help there too. My hours vary, but at the moment I can often be found online on Friday / Saturday evenings. I am in the UK, so remember I work on GMT / BST 😁 I also rescue hamsters - hence my ID on here - and train them to be therapy animals.  🐹
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OwlBunch
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Ummm... Hoo-hoo?
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GoldenRuleJG
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FEMALE LISTENER  There are awesome community sessions which are scheduled in various rooms. You can check them out here: 7 Cups Community Calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php] Please read below about what I try to be as a listener: Although i am not a professional therapist I try to apply my knowledge of psychology, mental health on stuff (p.s. - Undergraduate Bachelors Degree in Psychology completed. YAY 🧡🤩). I aim to be unbiased yet compassionate. Not a fairy godmother. If all the above sounds good let me know if you want a chat.   When the circle near my profile pic is green that means I’m available to talk to you now. If you leave me a message and I don't respond this can because im busy (orange circle) or because im offline (red circle).  *1 hr duration chats * Bright7cups former amazing twinning buddy - thank you ❤️
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Justmeforyou
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Life can be tough sometimes, and feeling lost or alone is okay. It takes courage to reach out for help, and I want you to know you've taken a big step by considering chatting.  I have been where you are and know how it feels to be misunderstood and marginalized. But I know finding support, love, and acceptance is possible, so I'm here to help. I am a verified and trained listener with many years of experience supporting and guiding individuals. No matter what you're going through, whether it's depression, anxiety, loneliness, finances, break-ups, or bullying, I'm here to listen and offer a safe space to talk about your feelings.  I know it's not always easy to trust someone with your thoughts and emotions, but I want you to know I will always listen with empathy and compassion. I will not judge you and always keep our conversations confidential.   When we chat, we'll talk about whatever is on your mind, and I'll provide you with the support and guidance you need to move forward. Together, we'll work through your struggles and help you find a way to live your life to the fullest.   So, please don't hesitate to reach out to me.  I am here for you, and I am ready to listen and support you through whatever struggles you're facing. Take care, and I look forward to chatting with you soon. A Heartwarming Experience with "JustMeForYou" A Sweetheart and a Fantastic Listener! With an impressive 50 years of listening experience, Chris deserves sincere appreciation for the exceptional qualities he brings to this platform as a listener. His non-judgmental approach, coupled with a profound sense of empathy and compassion, sets him apart and, in my experience, may place him among the very best. Chris possesses an extraordinary talent for uplifting spirits, providing invaluable guidance, and offering the support necessary to navigate life's peaks and valleys. I express my deepest gratitude for all he has done for me. His genuine care and steadfast support have truly made a significant difference, and I consider myself fortunate to have connected with such an exceptional listener. She was 92.  We cried together.  It was a happy cry. I want to share a true story with you that has shown me the incredible power of compassion. Recently, I visited a nursing home where I met a 92-year-old woman who felt lonely, scared, and depressed. As we spoke, I realized what she needed was a connection with another person, someone who could offer comfort and companionship. I read a children's Bible at her request.  As we read, I held her hand. We cried together, and at that moment, I could feel her pain, but I also saw hope in her eyes. It was a small gesture, but it made a significant impact. By simply showing her kindness and compassion, I connected with her and brought some comfort.   It was an incredibly moving experience, reminding me of the importance of reaching out to those who may be lonely or isolated.  Seeing how a small act of kindness can instantly turn someone's day around is incredible.   So, if you can visit someone who is lonely or depressed, I encourage you to do so. Your presence and compassion can make all the difference, even if it's just for a short time. Let's spread kindness and love wherever we go and improve the world - one person at a time.  My Happiness Philosophy When I was a little boy, around 11 or 12 years old, I experienced a sense of sadness that lingered for several weeks. My parents noticed my distress and approached me with concern, hoping to understand better what was troubling me. Despite their efforts, I struggled to pinpoint the root of my feelings and underwent several medical tests that yielded no answers. It was clear that something was amiss, and I felt lost and disconnected from my usual self.  I turned to my mother for guidance, and she suggested I try reaching out to help someone in need. At such a young age, this proved to be a challenge for me, but my mother encouraged me to offer my time and assistance to our neighborhood veterinarian by taking their dogs for walks after school and on weekends, free of charge.   As it turned out, this simple act of kindness was transformative for me and set me on a path of helping others. Over the years, I have expanded my efforts from animals to people and served as a listener and mentor for over 50 years. These days, even in retirement, I have plenty of free time to continue supporting those in need through systems like 7Cups and in my community. I'm grateful to have found a sense of purpose and fulfillment through helping others, and it brings me great joy to know that I can make a positive difference in the lives of those around me.
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Sunshine0023
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Hello ! I am committed to uplifting and empowering people to enable them to lead their best lives. I am keen to support people dealing with any personal problems, family issues, emotional issues, relationship problems, Work place issues, loneliness, sadness, stress, depression etc. As life pushed me to rise from various challenges, would like to use my learnings and insights gained from higher awareness to support others in similar situations. If I am online then please feel free to start a chat. If I’m offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Hope we can find a solution for whatever it is, you are going through !!!
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LovetoGod
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Heya lovely people❤ ​​​​​​ I hope everyone that is reading this is having a really good day. And if you are not, just know that in every new minute that passes you have an opportunity to change that❤ I am LovetoGod or you can call me Love! I am here as a verified active listener. I will listen to you compassionately. I will try my best to support you as a friend. I don't know much about some specific topics or I don't have experience so please scroll down for looking at the topics which I mostly talk about. If you still want to talk about any other topic then I will try my best to listen and to help you except sexual health issues. Please don't send me personal request for sexual health issues, it's my humble request. Just keep remember that your problems are valid! It's okay to not be okay! You don't have to be happy all the time! Showing emotions is healthy and okay! You are amazing just the way you are❤ Life is not easy for anyone. Ups and downs always come in the life. But, with every up and down you learn lessons which makes you more stronger. We should try to enjoy the good times and to have the courage to go through the bad ones. It takes a lot of courage to push through hard times. But, never give up because good things are coming your way. Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations❤ And I understand some people are really alone in their life journey but I just want to tell you that you are strong enough to fight alone and the sun is alone too but it shines! I am always there to be part of their lives who are fighting alone because they deserve lots of love, support and care❤ Some facts about me :- I am an open minded person. I am really kind hearted. I love myself. I love reading deep quotes and facts about life. I love to imagine things because it gives me pleasure. I am serious but yeh kinda crazy too. I am mature enough but I love to act childish and silly all the time. I love and admire the beauty of nature. Nature is just lovely creation of God and I go for morning and night walks. I love to experience nature, it's so calming. I love watching stars and moon. I crazily love shopping, makeup and travelling but I don't do that much lol. I want to travel around this whole world. I would love to gain different experiences of different places of the world. I am kinda religious too. I really believe in God a lot. I am foodie. Food is just love xD. But yeah I try to avoid junk food as much as I can hehe. I am kinda lazy as well as sleep is the best way to comfort myself. I don't have really much stuff to do and my hobbies doesn't last long as I do get bored of things easily but yeah I try to learn different things. I am an animal lover and I would definitely love to have a pet. YouTube and Google are my true friends who are always there for me xD. I love winters and it's my dream to experience snow once hehe. I love so so so many things but that's another thing I can't remember while writing my bio lol. I try to stay positive. And I always try to learn and improve more and more to become better than before. I guess it's enough of my facts lol. And in the end, I don't want to give up ever, I want to be strong, happy and confident and I just wanna spread positivity, love and kindness everywhere❤ 🍭𝘎𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘝𝘪𝘣𝘦𝘴🍭 👀𝘋𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘉𝘢𝘤𝘬👀 🏖𝘌𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 🏖 😃𝘓𝘪𝘷𝘦,𝘓𝘰𝘷𝘦, 𝘓𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩😃 ✨𝘊𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘚𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦✨ 🥰𝘚𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘦 𝘔𝘰𝘳𝘦🥰 🏆𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘺𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘊𝘰𝘮𝘦🏆 💖𝘉𝘦 𝘒𝘪𝘯𝘥💖 🌊𝘒𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘔𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘍𝘰𝘳𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥🌊 🎊𝘊𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘛𝘰𝘥𝘢𝘺🎊 📷𝘊𝘰𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘔𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴📷 💫𝘓𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘴, 𝘓𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘚𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘠𝘰𝘶💫 😁𝘉𝘦 𝘏𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺😁 🌼𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘔𝘢𝘨𝘪𝘤🌼 💪𝘕𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘎𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘜𝘱💪 🌝𝘉𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘓𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵🌝 🌈𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘎𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵🌈 ❤𝘓𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧❤ 🤗𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘺 𝘚𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨🤗 😗𝘞𝘢𝘳𝘮 𝘔𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴😗 😺𝘚𝘢𝘺 𝘊𝘩𝘦𝘦𝘴𝘦😺 💝𝘉𝘦 𝘠𝘰𝘶, 𝘋𝘰 𝘠𝘰𝘶, 𝘍𝘰𝘳 𝘠𝘰𝘶💝 🍔𝘍𝘰𝘭𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘋𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴🍔 🌻𝘙𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘚𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦🌻 🍂𝘉𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘝𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘧 𝘠𝘰𝘶🍂 🌺𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘳𝘺 𝘓𝘦𝘴𝘴🌺 🌸𝘉𝘦 𝘎𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘭🌸 🌏𝘚𝘦𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘺 𝘪𝘯 𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨🌏 🍩𝘉𝘦 𝘗𝘰𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦🍩 🍡𝘕𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘚𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘋𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨🍡 ✍️𝘞𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘺✍️ 🌞𝘏𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘎𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘰𝘯 𝘠𝘰𝘶🌞 💛𝘊𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘣𝘺 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧💛 💞𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘓𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘺💞 *You* know who is the most beautiful person in the world? Read the first word! Never ever forget, even for one moment that you are amazing and unique in your own way. Just be yourself. By being yourself, you put something wonderful in the world that was not there before❤ Thankeww for reading my long bio, I guess I could write more xD but it seems enough hehe. *sending warmest huggieessss and pizzaaa to **you lovely human** along with a cupcake*🤗🍕🧁
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RarelyCharlie
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Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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hummingbirdheart2
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One of my favorite songs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYQX627Ucag Topics I take: Relationships stress and Breakups  For all other topics, please choose another listener.  Please note I DO NOT take inappropriate sex chats or suicide chats. 
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KindnessMatters2020
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Sometimes you just need someone to talk to about something difficult, sad, frustrating, or emotionally-charged. I am happy to just listen or to help brainstorm solutions.  Besides being a verified active listener, my other roles here include: -Quality Mentor -Listener Coaching Team -Safety Patrol Outreach Team -Verifier for Verified Listener Team
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arthurdent42
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I like to listen, analyze objectively and empathize and alleviate in my own way. I have an intellectual leaning towards Psychology and Medicine and wish to be as helpful as I can in my own capacity
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