How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?

I personally feel that if someone is hurting you, and doesn't care about your feelings, you need to eliminate this person from your life. If they are making you feel upset or down in anyway, you need to either approach them about it and ask them why they are doing it and if in fact they even realise that they are doing it. If they realise what they have been doing or saying has been hurting you and proceed to change how they are treating you then keep them around, they're a good person and someone to take care of. However if they don't make any change from their previous behaviour, lose them. You're better than dragging around people like that.

You need to detach yourself from that person. You are worthy and do not deserve to be hurt by someone who doesn't care and doesn't deserve someone like you. Be your own hero.

Personally I think the best course is to limit your contact with this person, and to be mindful that this person does not control you, or your feelings. You get to choose how you react and feel. Take care.

If they do not care about you, then you should remind yourself that there is nothing they can do to hurt you because even though it doesn't feel like it they aren't a good person to be around.

How do you care for yourself when you have bad feelings? You're hurt when people don't care about how you feel and that's understandable. We all deserve to be heard and validated. Why do you think it hurts you when others show they don't care about your feelings? Are you asking how to stop feeling hurt when people don't care? Perhaps you mean to ask how to make others care? Remember, you ultimately have no control over other people's opinions or actions, and their opinions are not representative of you - they only represent those people. Your own opinions about your feelings are what will be important in the long-run. Thinking about why these things affect you and thinking patterns or life style changes that you can make to change your reactions over time can help, but ultimately you know what is best for you. You know your feelings matter and that's important.

Every time I need him.. need to talk just want him to listen. Told him many times I’m not mad I’m hurt an all I need is to be held an told it’s all gonna be okay.. i get nothing.. I have him a choice 3 times in a row game or me.. well needless to say I’m not what he choose so... what’s my next step?

Ignore them then walk away from them. Let them know that you want nothing to do with them anymore.

Cut them off from your life. Although extreme, it follows the principle of not wasting your time with people who does not respect or value your feelings. However, if you feel like this person is worth at the end of the day, have a serious talk with him/her about it. Perhaps he/she does not even realize that they are hurting you.

In this case, it is important to set appropriate boundaries with the person and the relationship so you don't continue to get hurt. If the relationship is with someone close to you, like family, appropriate boundaries can be set so the person doesn't continue to hurt you. If the person hurting you is a friend or another relationship, boundaries need to be set as well as possibly not having that person as a friend anymore. Ultimately, your safety in relationships is the most important. Remember that you have value and you matter. You deserve to have people in your life that value you. Keep your head up. :)

You're going to get this response alot; IGNORE THEM. The amount of satisfaction they get from seeing you respond is unimaginable. Trust me, ignoring someone who is trying to hurt you will make them get bored and choose someone else to do it to until they ignore them, too.

Cutting all contact. You do not need toxic company. They need to know you are not someone to tolerate being mistreated. and They need to be out of your life this instant!

First, it depends of the place they have in your life. If they are a family member, you should probably try harder to fix that because you cannot change blood relationships. However, if they are not, ignore them and detach yourself from them. Avoid the places they go, do not talk to them or about them, delete them from your social medias, avoid eyes contact, keep yourself busy so that they see you have no time for them, listen to music when you are obliged to be near them so that you cannot hear what they say. Time will pass by and they will leave you alone. Good luck!

This happened to me when I was 14 and it didn't stop in till I decided not to allow them to hurt my feelings by not caring about what they thought of me

Ditch them. Its hard to get rid of them but its easier to live without them. Life without them at all will leave more room for the people that do care about you.

you have to know your self worth. Know what you are worth and don't let anyone hurt your feelings. You have to know how much you your self are worth and know that you are amazing know matter what.

Don't associate with then anymore. You already know they don't seem to care so why should u waste your energy in someone like that. At the end of the day you have to make the hardest decision in order to open more opportunities to meet new people. So the hardest decision being letting go of the person.

We have the freedom to love anyone... Expecting is the worst thing I would do to myself.. When they don't care about my feelings, they're not interested that much in our life

Besides the obvious answer, AVOIDANCE, if you are hurt by someone who doesn't care about your feelings, you first have to realize that some people do not have the capacity to care for other's feelings. We each, as individuals, have different feelings to the same issues. Some people are much more compassionate, but Empathy is not something everyone expresses. The more caring and compassionate one is, the more likely they are to feel as if others don't respect their feelings, thus leaving them to be hurt by their own emotions. We do not have control of how others may treat us, but we have the control to ALLOW how those individuals affect us. We can CHOOSE to let them continue to hurt us emotionally or we can CHOOSE to remove ourselves, pick up the pieces, and carry on, one step at a time. Sometimes, you just have to cut your losses and walk away. But it is a CHOICE.

Sometimes the best thing to do when somebody doesn't care about your feelings is to let them go and not let them be a part of your life anymore for your own good. That doesn't mean to be mean to them or not wave back at them if they see you somewhere, but don't give them the chance to hurt you.

Talk to them and have an honest conversation. If they still don't understand, there's always an option to leave that person out of your life.

Build healthy boundaries around yourself. Learn to say 'No' politely in 19 different ways. Nasty people don't deserve how we feel.

Don't allow the things they say or do affect you. Walk away from the situation and calmly relax, or find a outlet to de-stress.

When my feelings are hurt by someone, it's more my choice than theirs. Everyone is a random person until I choose to give them the space in my heart and life to the extent that they are able to influence my emotions in any way. If someone chooses to hurt me and not care about my feelings, I can stop that by creating an emotional wall between their choices and my emotions. Physical hurt of course requires physical distance to avoid it, in the same way, we create emotional distance to avoid emotional hurt until the person proves themselves worthy of a space in our heart and life.

Assert to them how they are hurting you. If they refuse to listen, then it is up to you whether to stop associating with that person. You deserve to be with people who care about your feelings. Your feelings are valid. Let no one tell you otherwise.

If they don't care about your feeling the best way to make them stop is to avoid them altogether, they aren't worth your time or effort.

Remember that you don't have to have anyone in your life that doesn't care about you. I suggest talking to them and and telling them you don't feel like you're cared about in the relationship.

I would just sort of review if it is worth it to let that person keep doing it. Is it really worth my happiness? Do I really want to continue to live in pain just to keep from losing that person? My answers would be no. Because I want to be happy and not be in pain. And if they get upset, then oh well. They can deal with it. But I want to be happy and my happiness is worth more than my distress. And I would pick happiness over that someone every time.

A person who genuinely does not care for your feelings either misunderstands them and can be persuaded to understand, or they are potentially toxic to your well-being. Communication is key. If you feel safe enough, start the conversation. If their response isn't what you need, consider moving on from this relationship for your own emotional health.

If they don't care about your feelings, it's probably safe to assume there's nothing you could do to stop them from hurting you. Take care of yourself and do what's best for you and your safety.

You don't need such a person in your life. Eventually you'll learn that, in the end they're not worth it. So leave them. Chin up, be brave, be strong, and stand up for yourself. You can only live peacefully and happily with someone who respects you.