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Optimisticempath
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PathStep 238 Compassion hearts13,790 Forum posts4,584 Forum upvotes9,656 Current upvotes9,656 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2024 Member sinceJuly 20, 2020
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*Exists* 

*apologizes for existing* 

"Can't come to the phone right now. Why? Cause this person does not exist!"💀 

Be kind to everyone Or at least try💗

"Stop sulking! Get over it"

"Keep your guard up always, it's the only way to survive you know anyway"

Appreciate anyone in cups (you can appreciate yourself also) by Clicking on button below🔽

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Special people: 
(if you want to be added to this you can remind me 💕) 

💫mytwistedsoul (they are the light of my life, extremely sweet and loving and kind and always so caring *loves soul)


💫amiablebunny4016 (bunweee bestie is the bestest ever, always v sweet and thoughtful 💕)



💫theriverissinging (they a vv kind listener and do amazing in cups) 
 
💫nonethewiser (they maybe left cups 😔 but they vv kind and supportive and always had good things to say, i hope you're well Jess) 

 I'll mention more people when I get the chance to 😅 but please if you read this, you're special already and I hope you're doing ok💕










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Positivity & Gratitude / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 16 hours ago
...See more v proud of you everyday 💕 keep trying your best 💕💕
so proud of you 💕💕
Depression Support / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 18 hours ago
...See more not many know and im glad they dont.... how difficult and exhausting it is to wake up and get through the day when you're struggling .... so really if all you did today was just breathe and got through the day... im vvv proud of you 💕💕💕 ik it feels like a chore at some point..and it's not even fun or something to look forward to but despite that you are trying your best and it doesn't feel like you always are so hoping it helps a little to hear from someone else 💕💕💕
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Grief & Loss / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 18 hours ago
...See more CW:  memes related to the unhelpful things people usually say when someone's grieving   if any of these offend you....im sorry.... but im currently just in that space where i cannot stop thinking about some very unhelpful things people have told me and idk id like to get it off my mind....when words dont help ....memes do ... 💕 
Unhelpful
Grief & Loss / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more What's the most unhelpful thing someone has said to you during your time of grief?  I think sometimes even if people mean well... they just use the weirdest phrasing ever and make it worse :( maybe it can help us to know what to avoid to say and what to say to someone who's grieving that may help more? also if you're grieving... what would you like to hear more? 💕💕💕💕
exhausted
General Support / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 April 3rd
...See more um hi 😔 idk why im here...nothing really makes enough sense and idk what am i even wanting or hoping for here ... i just really have no other place to turn to and tbh i don't even wanna turn anywhere  everything is just too fricking exhausting...like literally breathing.. existing..its all so very exhausting and tiring and im not really sure what is even going on more than half the time ... i think trees are more main character than my role in my life smh ... people.... they exhaust me... they keep talking... wrong things often and idk I lose track and zone out...im not fully present in the conversations yet they keep talking sometimes....it makes me feel awful because idk if id want no one around...id want that definitely yes but id also want to be not seen...like just dont talk...dont ask me stuff...don't make me think about stuff...don't pretend to care...don't be around and let me be... lately ... and lately seems like forever lately... but the fear of being a disappointment to everyone isn't even a feqr anymore....its becoming more real... it's just what it is... an utter waste of space ... an absolute disappointment....... too scary rn but this loneliness is both painful yet the only thing im seeking a little bit of comfort in... idk if that even makes any sense smh but  yeah.. rotting in bed is tiring....but so is literally anything and everything else...urgh 😔  im sorry for you wasting your time reading this..🥺 hope your ok tho 💕  um hugs....anyone...please?😭
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General Support / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 March 26th
...See more are you really independent or have you never had anyone to actually rely on... are you really self sufficient or did you never learn to ask for help.. do you really not like talking about yourself or have you never had anyone who actually wants to know you.. listen to you.. are you really a giver or do you just never want anyone else to feel the way you did when you've always been only taken-from.. do you really feel like you'll be fine alone or are you scared to get abandoned by someone... again.. are you really selective of people  or do you accept you have walls and nobody really cares trying to climb them for you... are you really ok...or do you feel disconnected from reality at all times and you'd never wanna really know how you actually are... do you actually don't know how to self care or do you not even care about self to do self care ...(both for this one lmao) can go on... thoughts...thoughts...🤡  so much of who i thought I was... were actually just trauma responses lmao....coping mechanisms....defenses .... survival instincts....over the years...it's been just one unfold after another... and idk who i am actually.... so lost and devoid of any energy or will to find or explore or like do anything...at all...😔 
reply limit 😕
General Support / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 March 23rd
...See more night #6271792880 of wondering why there's a reply limit in forums 🤡.....it gets so annoying when the conversation gets interrupted because of trying to figure how to reply when the button poofs... in busy threads specially... its tuff making out what reply is meant for which one ...😫  can this limit be removed or increased or something please ??
wondering...
General Support / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 February 11th
...See more idk why am I even making this post but this ones a troubling thought often and specially rn and i just ... dont know.. could use some other thoughts .. if that makes sense?😅 so questions for everyone comfy to answer as truthfully possibly... do you like yourself? why or why not? what does liking yourself mean to you? what does not liking you, mean to you? if yes then have you liked yourself always?  if not then what do you not like about you and how long?  any parts of you you don't like or any parts of you dont like the most in you?  what do you like most about you?  what do you do to remind yourself you like you?  is it important to like yourself to take care of you? how to want to care about you? this might sound very nonsensical but fr how to actually want to care or do nice and be nice to yourself?? me thinks sometimes ... i realise people who like themself are more aware of their needs and actually want to take care of them and be better or improve in different spheres in life ... I haven't really liked myself in a long time and idk how this liking self looks like..  self care or self anything is just an alien concept 😔 what does one even do when they dont want to do anything with them .... smh this is gonna get real sad real quick so ill shush away but like i genuinely want to know how does liking self look like .... and if it has anything to do with treating yourself more humanly and nicely?? its something im finding myself incapable of doing for myself... so if anyone comfy sharing to any of the questions please do 💕💕  any tips and words of encouragement are always welcome too 👀
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