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Number of ratings256 Number of reviews74 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJul 20, 2015 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 524 People helped442 Chats2,134 Group support chats1,754 Listener group chats1,532 Forum posts9,712 Forum upvotes12,971
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I CURRENTLY DO NOT TAKE CHATS AT THIS TIME. HOWEVER, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO BROWSE FOR ANOTHER ONE OF OUR MANY WONDERFUL & AVAILABLE LISTENERS. "BROWSE LISTENERS HERE"  

(My Pm's are always open if you have a question or are in need of help or assistance "outside" of chats.)~ 


Hi and welcome to 7cups! I’m PoliteOcean~ (But, You can call me "OCEAN")~ I'm a Spouse, a Parent, & also Licensed in the Healthcare Field.  I’m also a Fitness Instructor with a passion for Dance & ZUMBA Fitness. I am here to listen, support and not judge. I cannot solve all problems but I've gone through many of my own personal experiences so perhaps I can help. If I'm away, please leave me a message.


⭐️LISTENING STRENGTHS⭐️

*Family Stress

*Healthy Living 

*Parenting



⭐️CURRENTLY ACTIVE ROLES⭐️

* COMMUNITY MENTOR LEADER

* HEALTHY LIVING TEAM LEADER & SUPPORT ROOM MENTOR

*ADULT CHATROOM MENTOR & CHAT SUPPORT 

*FORUM MENTOR 

*Group Moderator

*Discussion Trainer

*Verified Listening Team 

*Door Keeper


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@Vivelespatates 

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Recent forum posts
Weekly Healthy Living Check-In April 27th, 2024
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
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7 hours ago
...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN APRIL 27th, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ *WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN"~ This is our "Last" Check-in for the Month of April~ 🌞🌺🌼 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 🌞 Hey Everyone~ Happy Weekend~.... How was your week and how are you doing today? 🌺 This is our "4th & Final" Check-in for the month "APRIL"~.... This Month has again, truly flown by!.... What do you feel was your biggest Accomplishment for the Month?.... How would you Sum up the month of April for yourself? 🌼 What are your "Feel Good Plans" for this Last Weekend and Week ahead of the month?.... In what ways will you care for yourself in positive and healthy ways? 🌞 JUST FOR FUN:... You are going on a Vacation and can only visit "ONE" place that starts with the "FIRST" Letter of your "7cups Name"... WHERE are you choosing to go?!! 🌺 What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?.... How were you able to work through your challenges?! 🌼 What is something that "YOU" want to talk about, add or share with us this week?! .... WE want to hear from YOU~   Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Regmo @purpleTree4652 @InsightfulPhoenix @nordurnStar @KateDoskocilova @SirenOfSerenity @Rebekahwriter13 @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727  @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045  @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @WayJay @orangeHuman868  **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
Wellness Wednesday: 4/24/24 (Open Discussion)
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
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Wednesday
...See more HEY EVERYONE~ WELCOME TO HEALTHY LIVING'S "WELLNESS WEDNESDAY"~  ⭐Wellness Wednesday is an Observance focused on Promoting & encouraging habits and practices that contribute to Overall Health & Wellbeing! ⭐Its a day when you can take time out to focus on yourself and do things that make you Happy & Healthy! QUESTIONS: 1.) "WHAT" DID YOU DO TODAY TO FOCUS ON YOURSELF & YOUR WELLBEING?! 2.) "WHAT" IS SOMETHING THAT YOU DID TODAY THAT MADE YOU HAPPY MENTALLY & PHYSICALLY?!
Healthy Living Icebreaker Fun: "Happy Earth Day! What's your Favorite Outdoor Activity"~ 4/22/24
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
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Monday
...See more HEY EVERYONE~ WELCOME TO "HEALTHY LIVING'S ICEBREAKERS"!...& HAPPY "EARTH DAY"!~...  🌏Today is "Earth Day" & Spending time enjoying the earth and its outdoor activities can be fun almost any day. But Especially During the Spring & Summer months! "ICEBREAKER":  What is Your Favorite Way to Get Outside and Get Active?!   
Weekly Healthy Living Check-In April 20th, 2024
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
Tuesday
...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN APRIL 20th, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ *WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN"~ 🌞🌺🌼 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 🌞 Hey Everyone~ Happy Weekend~.... How Was Your Week?! 🌺 This is our "3rd" Check-in for the month "APRIL"~.... What is something that you did or that caused you to feel "Proud" of yourself this week?~ 🌼 We have One more full week left ahead of April~.... What goal(s) will you continue to work on, or work towards achieving for yourself before this month ends? 🌞 JUST FOR FUN:... (Let's take a moment for 'Gratitude' Reflection)~... NAME 3 GOOD THINGS That you are Feeling Content with in your life and Feeling Grateful For?! 🌺 What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?.... How were you able to work through your challenges?! 🌼 What is something that "YOU" want to talk about, add or share with us this week?! .... WE want to hear from YOU~ Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Regmo @purpleTree4652 @InsightfulPhoenix @nordurnStar @KateDoskocilova @SirenOfSerenity @Rebekahwriter13 @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727  @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045  @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @WayJay @orangeHuman868  **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
Weekly Healthy Living Check-In April 13th, 2024
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
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April 14th
...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN APRIL 13th, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ *WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN"~ 🌞🌺🌼 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 🌞Hey Everyone~ Happy Weekend~ How have you been this week?.... And how many of you got to watch or experience the "Solar Eclipse"?!  🌺 This is our "2nd" Check-in for the month "APRIL".....During the past week, we had Both "WORLD HEALTH DAY", as well , 7cups is celebrating "STRESS AWARENESS WEEK".... In What ways over the past week have you taken care of yourself in Positive ways?!.....What "Healthy Habits" did you practice or incorporate over the week? 🌼 What is a Healthy Activity that causes you to feel your absolute BEST?!....How could you incorporate more of that into your day or life?! 🌞 JUST FOR FUN:... If you could spend a Beautiful Spring day with "ANYONE" in the World & do "ANYTHING" money no object, WHO would you spend that time with and WHAT would you do?! 🌺 What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?.... How were you able to work through your challenges?! 🌼 What is something that "YOU" want to talk about, add or share with us this week?! .... WE want to hear from YOU~ Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Regmo @purpleTree4652 @InsightfulPhoenix @nordurnStar @KateDoskocilova @SirenOfSerenity @Rebekahwriter13 @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727  @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045  @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @WayJay @orangeHuman868  **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
Weekly Healthy Living Check-In April 6th, 2024
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
April 14th
...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN APRIL 6th, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ *WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN"~... This is our "FIRST" Check-in for the Month of "APRIL"~ 🌞🌺🌼 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 🌞Hey Everyone~ Welcome to "APRIL"!.. How has the first week gone for you so far?... How was your Easter if you celebrated? 🌺 This is our "FIRST" Check-in for the month "APRIL"..... What things are you looking forwards to for yourself the Most in this new Month ahead?! 🌼 What are some New goals, Plans, or Intentions that you'd like to work on or set for April?!.... What things would you like to get accomplished for yourself this month?! 🌞 JUST FOR FUN:... NAME 3 THINGS that can always be found in your Refrigerator! 🌺 What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?.... How were you able to work through your challenges?! 🌼 What is something that "YOU" want to talk about, add or share with us this week?! .... WE want to hear from YOU~ Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Regmo @purpleTree4652 @InsightfulPhoenix @nordurnStar @KateDoskocilova @SirenOfSerenity @Rebekahwriter13 @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727  @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045  @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @WayJay @orangeHuman868  **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
Wellness Wednesday: 4/3/24 "It's National Walking Day"!~
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
April 5th
...See more HEY EVERYONE! WELCOME TO "WELLNESS WEDNESDAY"!~ TODAY "WEDNESDAY APRIL 3RD, IS "NATIONAL WALKING DAY"!~ 👟🚶 🌞With Sedentary lifestyles and increasing health concerns, the importance of walking has never been more evident. "National Walking Day", celebrated annually on the "First Wednesday" in April, serves as a reminder to embrace this simple yet powerful activity!~ ⭐️5 WAYS TO ADD MORE WALKING TO YOUR DAY  * Ask colleagues, friends or family to join you. * If you work remotely, take a conference call on the go. * If you have a pet, get moving together! Walking is a win-win for the health of you and your pet. * Take a family stroll after dinner. * Share a picture on social media using #WalkingDay 👟 What is something that motivates you to get outdoors to walk? 🚶 Where is your "favorite place" to walk? 👟 Do you like to listen to Music or Podcasts when you walk?....(What type of music or podcast is your favorite to listen to)? 🚶 Who is your favorite person to walk with? 👟 How does Walking make you feel Physically, mentally, & emotionally?
Weekly Healthy Living Check-In March 30th, 2024
Healthy Living / by PoliteOcean
Last post
April 5th
...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN MARCH 30th, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ *WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN"~... This is our "Last" Check-in for the Month of "March"~ 🌞🌸🌺🌼 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 🐰 Hey Everyone~ How have you been doing this week?.... And How did your week go for you? 🌞 This is our "LAST" Check-in for the month March.... This month has truly flown by so fast!~.... How do you feel this past month went for you personally overall?... What do you feel was the MOST Positive Highlight of this month for you? 🌺 This weekend many of us will celebrate the "EASTER" holiday~ (Even if you don't celebrate this holiday in any traditional sense), what are your plans for this day (& the weekend ahead)?! 🐰 JUST FOR FUN:... NAME 3 THINGS that you'd like to see in your "Easter Basket"! 🌞 What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?.... How were you able to work through your challenges?! 🌸 What is something that "YOU" want to talk about, add or share with us this week?! ....WE want to hear from YOU!~ Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Regmo @purpleTree4652 @InsightfulPhoenix @nordurnStar @KateDoskocilova @SirenOfSerenity @Rebekahwriter13 @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727  @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045  @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @WayJay @orangeHuman868  **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
Feedback & Reviews
They are sweet, helpful, listen, and offer encouraging situations.
A very excellent listener. Very kind and compassionate. Always knows the right things to say. Highly recommended.
She picked me up when someone in my life hurt me, reminded me of the good things that I have accomplished and helped me with sorting out what my plans are to go forward. Was also nice just to have a great chat about some things in life in general. Super encouraging!
A wonderful listener, so kind. Very supportive in the healthy living forums. PoliteOcean has been very helpful to me!
Definitely the nicest person I met here :) thanks
Thank you
PoliteOcean is a fantastic listener. She was able to relate to me and give me support at a time that I needed it. I highly recommend her, and if I could award her more than 5 stars, I would.
the best person in the world
Amazing listener!! Thanks for your support.
You're a great leader in the sub community for Healthy living. You're a real role model and you are an awesome human being.
Ocean is a great listener. She has awesome tastes in movies and I talk to her every now and then. She is a real shooting star and I admire her for her dedication to the healthy living team. She motivates me to be healthy and I think that's great. This positive review is for you, Ocean. Keep on being a star.
Ocean is pretty awesome. :)
You really understand me.
Great Listener. I didn't request a listener and yet they reached out to me and it meant more than anything to me tonight so Thank you!
Really caring, supportive and helpful! A wonderful listener ♥
Great listener and super supp
Quite helpful, leading to the right conclusions. Very caring and attentive. Professional.
This listener picked me up from the hole I find myself in, dusted me off, and helped me look for a route out. And all done with kindness and compassion. Couldn't ask for better. Thank you so much.
As usual, this listener was amazing :) I just can't find words adequate enough to describe her. Truly amazing.
Great listener
Amazing person. Helped me a lot. Make sure she sees my review.
just greattttt
Very good and helpful listener. Helped to sort out my problems and suggested good solution.
very good
Absolutely wonderful!
nice
She was very, very helpful. She helped me through a crisis I feel I've been going through for a long time. She is great!
she is amazing and gave me hope and i would love to talk to her again
Very helpful and nice for my anxiety about dentists and hospitals
you are making the world a better place. truly!
Best listener yet!
Very kind, supportive and understanding. This listener really gets it.
Very sweet (:
What a great listner. Im new to this and she just made me feel so comfortable. Thank you for what you do. God bless you
Thank you for chatting with me! It means a lot to me to know that there are people like you out there who care so much, and are willing to be there for someone in distress. You're an awesome listener!
First person i came across when i joined & was immediately blessed with understanding & advice. Thanks again.
Keep it up.
It was amazing, thank you!
All I have to say, " blessings for this humanitarian soul"
thank for being open minded & thank you so much for the encouragement
You were awes
Awesome amazing listener!!!
Very helpful and nice. Helped me out tremendously
Thanks for your support
Great listener~ Thank you.
the best person I have ever known, thank you
great person, one of the best I have seen in a long time, the world needs more people like this person,
amazing listener!
She is a wonderful listener I would recommend her to anyone who is looking for a listener that is good try politeocean93
Really helped me get a lot off my chest. I feel a lot better now. :)
My computer stopped working towards the end of our conversation, but up until that point this was the most productive, helpful conversationIi have had in a few weeks. What an incredible listener politeocean93 is, and I will definitely be coming back to this site to talk again, I would recommend this listener in a heartbeat as well as this website.
Thank you for caring about me when no one was thear for me.
Such a fabulous listener!! I flooded the chat upset and scared, My heart felt heaven. You made me feel welcome and very relaxed to share and I left feeling encouraged and heard.
Good. I have a lot of problems so it ok
great
content with her/him
polite
smart
empathy
cute
politeOcean93 is a really super listener! I would recommend her to anyone!
A great listener, non judgmental and very supportive. An asset to 7 cups!
very empathetic listener. i felt like she truly understood me. thank u :)
Great listener. Great advice-giver.
totally what I needed
Fantastic LIstener. Brought perspective to a situation without giving advice. Outstanding listener!
Understanding and very nice.
Totally awesome! I'm so grateful to have found this site. And for your kind words and genuine support.
Listener is very thoughtful and insightful, brings rational thought into emotional situations. I stopped feeling panicked and worried as we talked. Very helpful.
yes melissa was very helpfull and very curousely and i hope to follow up with her again
Awesome, uplifting...professional. Very good responses. Thank you so much !! =)
So very helpful.
Really good to be able to talk things out with politeOcean93. Thank you very much! Having someone to reassure you that you are trying to the do the right thing when others say you're not is a good source of comfort. Thanks again!
THey helped so much, they were so patient and talked to me for a long time and always gave really thoughtful answers!
Very helpful and calmed me down made me feel much better
This person definitely was very understanding and gentle and i enjoyed talking with them
The best so far. We need more people like you. Thank you
She was very supportive, very patient and connected with me. I'm forever grateful for her kind words to me.
great
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