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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Sunisshiningandsoareyou
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(Updated, current month 2024) ❤️ *on a break* ❤️  ------------------------- Response Time/ PM-land access:  🌻 Members:  New Member Chats: I'm completely unavailable for new members. (Members I've never talked to before whether new or old on cups)  Regular/ Recurring/ Old Member Chats: People I've talked to/ supported over a committed time frame, I love to hear updates from you, and am happy to see your messages. But please know that I'm unavailable for LIVE chats and can only reply offline, when I'm able to. (Responses may be several days delayed) So whether you're a new member or someone I've talked to before, if you need Live/ Immediate/ Urgent/ Regular/ Long-term support chat, please reach out to another available listener in cups.  You deserve prompt support, which I cannot offer, for an unforeseeable time! ❤ 🌻 Listeners:  I'm available for Peer Support and Chat Support only when I've accepted your request either through Chat Support/ Peer Supporter request forms or in the LSR, so please before messaging me for any of it, ask me in the room, as otherwise I may not be available to respond timely! Mentees/ Coachees: I'm so proud of you for trying your best to improve as a listener, and happy to hear any updates from you!  I'm typically unavailable for Live chats, and offline responses may vary, feel free to drop your questions though, if not too urgent, and I'll respond as soon as possible!  If you need a live chat, let me know a little in advance, mentioning the topic for the chat/ kind of support needed, your time/ availability in ET pr cups-time and hopefully, we can schedule for a live chat sometime!  Not available for any personal chats/ PMs unless stated/ agreed to otherwise. (Due to a high influx of messages, I'm unable to prioritize replying to messages with just a "hey/hi/ greeting", thank you for greeting me, but please do share a bit about "what" you're reaching out for, whether as a listener or a member, as it helps me understand how to respond better and faster. Messages with only "hey/ hi/ greetings" are missed often.)  I'll be around, in the forums and chatrooms when I can though, feel welcome to tag me in your posts or replies, happy to see you! 🥰 I've sadly not been getting notifications for all the tags lately, apologies if missed your tag. Feel free to send another tag or a personal message, if needed.  (I know) Extremely slow response rate: I'm on a break from several activities/roles here, but have been catching up with PMs and tags as much as possible. Responses will be slow and delayed, your patience is appreciated. Send a follow-up, if I missed your important message or if you need an urgent reply. <3 Support shouldn't be delayed, so I highly recommend browsing for other listeners when you need some emotional support. Please remember you are awesome and not alone here. ❤ Stay great and take good care, everyone.   Response time for all my current (regular) members/ listeners (and mentees) would vary as I am not logging in here regularly as earlier, I apologize if messages are delayed.  Send a follow-up, if needed. Thank you for understanding, YOU do come first and there's plenty of support available at all times, please do find an amazing currently active listener  HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/], and I hope you receive the best support available! 💖 ------------------------- Hello, Amazing Human, Welcoming hugs and high fives and cookies for you! (Take what you need hehe) I am Sun, Thank you for finding me here, I understand life isn't always smooth sailing, we all have our ups and downs. I know I won't be able to solve all your problems, but problems shared are problems halved, right? Or even if not halved, I do feel sharing can help reduce the burden of overwhelming thoughts and feelings in your mind ~ your mind is not a notepad, it shouldn't be a place to "store" thoughts and feelings ~ share away, your mind deserves to feel lighter and better and so do *you* ... Besides being a trained verified listener here, I can offer you a kind, empathetic and non-judgmental ear and help you guide through these dark times. Feel free to Talk/ Share/ Vent and I'll be more than happy to listen to you, provide you with a safe and comfortable space and help you feel better in any way I can. Please do keep in mind that I can't and won't advise you, I can help you guide through the roads, but the steering wheel will always be in your hand and the direction to choose will always be your decision solely since you know your journey and your destination, the best. Rest assured, you've got your passenger seat covered for any support and encouragement always!  I am a persun who believes in the power of sharing smiles, happiness, kindness, encouragement, hope and positivity And I would love to share these with you too if you allow me to (always at your pace and comfort of course).🌻 I am pretty respectful and polite to everyone and personally do not use any offensive language including any kind of passive-aggressive/ provoking remarks, so would certainly expect and appreciate the same from you. Everyone deserves basic respect and decency! 💛  People looking for inappropriate sexual chats and/ or interested in making any sexual advances towards me~ this is an emotional support platform ~ and we do *not* entertain such kinds of conversations here. Please refrain from sending any messages, if you're here for any reason other than seeking emotional support, thankyou. I don't take chats on topics such as chronic pain, panic attacks, sexual health and self-harm. Feel free to browse other amazing listeners for these topics and those not listed under "categories" HERE [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]. ❤  💛If you are currently having crisis thoughts (active or passive, or actively harming yourself) *offers hugs*, I know how terrible it can be to be in this hopeless situation, please however respect our boundaries as a listener, our limits and that 7 cups is not a crisis platform, we do care and therefore ask you to reach out to relevant channels of support. You can find resources here:-  7cups.com/crisis, please do connect with a hotline. You may not believe it at the moment, but you are *not* unworthy of living, you are not taking space unnecessarily, you are not your current situation neither your current thoughts. Nobody exactly knows, but we gotta keep hanging on tightly, to see for ourselves when and how it gets better because it does, *someday* and you need to be here to experience it.  Brave it in this very moment, reach out for help. You owe it to *yourself*. 💛 The topics I am comfortable providing support for include general mental health struggles, getting unstuck, managing emotions, student life-related topics, friendship/ relationship/ family stress, social anxiety, self-esteem issues etc. and more are listed below, under categories! Feel free to send a message if you see me online (green status) and I will get back to you as soon as I can, we can then schedule a time and day for a chat or agree upon offline messaging, whichever is more comfortable and suitable for us. 🤗 At Last, remember that you are not alone, your mental health is important, you are a brave person to seek support,  you are here and I am proud of you for that.  If you give me a chance I'll try my best to be there for you, to be there with you and remind you that even if the clouds appear to be very dark at any point in time,  the Sun Is Shining And So Are Youuuu. 🌻🌞🌻 You are one Amazing human, you are important, you matter and You are deserving of kindness, happiness, support, love and all things amazing in life! It's cool to be kind, people!🤗 Have an amazing day/ night ahead! ------------------------- MY ROLES @7 CUPS- The most important and my favourite one is to provide everyone with a  friendly, supportive,  inclusive and cheerful environment along with sharing some cookies and hugs. 🥰 🍪🌻🤗 # Trained and Verified Listener to provide quality listening to members  # Safety Patrol  (profile flagging ) Team member to try and keep the community safe for all.  # Peer Supporter (for listeners needing support after a hard or triggering chat  or in general not feeling good about their listener role and needing a space to vent about "mild" site-related issues)  # Chat Support  (I can provide support with ongoing chats to listeners)  # Listener's Verifiers Team member  (I take mock chats for listeners under the verification process)  Want to get verified? Check here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/NewAdditionalCriteriaToBecomeVerifiedListenerGoingLive_230276/] or feel free to message me for more information.  #Quality Mentor  #Listener Coach  # Global community mentor and forum supporter ( Needs Reply Team ) #Listener Chatroom Supporter  #Doorkeeper (feel free to message me if you'd like to open / close rooms)  #Ocassional- Events, Pop up discussions, listener events and safety support sessions Host  # Advisor/ Helper for the Peer Appreciation Program. Click the button below to appreciate yourself or a peer In the community  Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Join our team by clicking the following button: Smile Spreader [https://forms.gle/rgPfNwytBgJRChp7A] #7 cups Internship,  Leadership Development Program, Group Leadership Dynamics,  Building Community Program and the Content Development and Marketing program's graduate. ~ proud 7 Cups Academy Alumni hehe!  ------------------------- THANK YOU FOR READING, FEEL FREE TO SEND A TEXT ANYTIME, I'D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU  SOON!  STAY AWESOME, STAY HYDRATED  and TAKE CARE! 🌻❤ #ByeByeCliques, do check out this [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupModZone_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/WarmWelcomeEveryoneByeByeCliqueChallenge_238987/#] post for more information and to join the movement. We are a safe and inclusive place for all, and *you* do matter! 🤗
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Suryansh
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 I am presently not taking any new member chats. Feel free to search for other listeners from HERE [/BrowseListeners]. Thank You for understanding me. On-Break: I'm taking complete break from 7 Cups until May 28, 2024. During my break, for anything related to Chat Support and Chatroom Mentor/Teen Star projects, you can contact other Chatroom Leaders, namely, @hopedreamlove, @EmmaE or @ASilentObserver, and for anything related to Group Support Projects, feel free to contact @ASilentObserver. When I return, I'll resume my roles and responsibilities. Thank you for your understanding!  Hello Hello! Welcome to my profile page, thanks for visiting. I am Suryansh, or Surya, a young man from India. My time zone is IST (Indian Standard Time). My favourite subject is Physics. I really enjoy listening to music, watching series shows and tech movies, traveling, and getting to know our world and its history. I like coffee, and I am fond of writing and reading thoughts and quotes. After a few years, I aim to join the Indian Administrative Service, serve the nation, and continue listening and supporting people. I am a trained, verified listener here on 7 Cups. I like listening to people and supporting them with whatever they are going through. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard and understood. I cannot solve your problems, but I assure you that I will provide you with a safe listening ear and support you. Your feelings are absolutely valid, and I vow to you that I will never judge you. I would appreciate receiving ratings and reviews, as they help me improve, learn, and grow. I greatly believe in respect, patience, and kindness, which I will always embody in our conversation, and I would greatly appreciate it if I received the same attitude as mine back from the other person. I substantially care about you! I am available from Monday to Friday; weekends are days off from 7 Cups for me as I practice Self-Care on these days. We all deserve to have some me-time to care for ourselves. My general response time is within 2–3 days. If I am unavailable or offline, you are so welcome to leave me a message, and I will try to respond as soon as possible. I have some triggers that make me feel uncomfortable in chat. Please avoid sending one-word messages involving 'okay', 'k', 'huh', 'heh', ok', 'oh', 'ah' and 'hmm'. I would appreciate your understanding nature toward me. My Involvement in 7 Cups Group Support & Chatroom Ambassador  As a Group Support Ambassador, my focus area includes Group Support Leadership, Engagement and Quality Aspects of the rooms. As a Chatroom Ambassador, my focus area includes complete management of the Chat Support Team. I also assist with Chatroom Mentor/Teen Star applications & onboarding processes. Global Community Mentor As a Global Community Mentor, I moderate the forums and take steps towards building engagement in the sub-communities with various types of activities. I can edit, delete, or transfer any forum post/thread from any sub-community. Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member As a Forum Moderator/Forum Flag Team Member, I take steps to keep the forums clean and free of toxicity. I am allowed to review flagged posts, approve, edit, or delete them, according to the community's forum guidelines. Listener Verifier As a Listener Verifier, I can conduct mock chats or grade forms, in order to verify listeners, based on their Active Listening skills.  Global Moderator As a Global Moderator, I have moderation (Mod) access in all the member group support rooms. I moderate the rooms to keep them a safe place for everyone and maintain a supportive environment in the rooms. Safety Patrol As a Safety Patrol, I flag inappropriate profiles on 7 Cups, to help maintain the community guidelines, and with the ultimate aim of maintaining a positive and appropriate environment in the community.  Chat Support As a Chat Supporter, I provide support to our listeners through ongoing chat. Peer Support As a Peer Supporter, I provide support to our listeners after a hard/difficult chat. Doorkeeper As a Doorkeeper, I can open or close any room on 7 Cups.  You are always welcome to drop me a message if you would like to get any information, want any room to be closed or opened, or just have a casual chat. I reassure you that you will be provided with a safe and non-judgmental environment to have a chat with me. Thank you for visiting my profile.  Congratulations! You have reached the end. I have a cup of coffee for you HERE [https://thumbs.gfycat.com/BonyDecentChameleon-max-1mb.gif]. Thank You :)
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blindHeart12
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Hey!!  After long break i am back to my listening journey.  I am mom of 2 kids.  In my dark phase 7cups played a role to give strength.  Wish i could support the same to others . Right now I won't be taking intense issue 
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soulsings
L Epitome 19 4708
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Sorry if you are a member or guest looking to chat, I am not currently accepting new personal requests for chats. You can browse for a listener. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ . You may also find these helpful https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php     https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php Some people find that mindfulness helps them cope. The video Resource Library https://www.7cups.com/forum/mindfulness/ResourceLibrary_1062/2016presentMindfulnessVideos_72071/ If you might consider a paid text therapy on 7cups, then this may be of interest https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/ExcitingNewFeaturefor7CupsOnlineTherapyandCoaching_319430/ The other resource is various therapy topics  https://www.7cups.com/experts/catalog/topics/ All the best to you. Again sorry I cannot help you but my personal workload does not allow openings for that at this time.  
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amiablePeace77
L Epitome 19 7026
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I'm sorry but I'm not able to take any 1:1 chats/pm chats atm. If you are looking for a listener please browse here https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ Hello,  I’m  Ami,  a verified listener on 7cups. My support will be confidential, without any judgement. There are no topics which make me feel uncomfortable and I will do everything I can to make you feel welcome, safe and understood.  7 Cups is not equipped to support crisis situations. If you are in crisis please reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support. Here are some sourced crisis lines and resources to help you: * (U.S.) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] at 1-800-273-8255 * Crisis Text Lin [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in]e * (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 * (Canada) Text HOME to 686868 * International Association for Suicide Prevention [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] * Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645 Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]  * UK * Call Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/] 116 123 * Call Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/] 080020068204141 or text 0778620209697 * Australia Lifeline Crisis Support  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services] call  13 11 14 * India click the link to find a local crisis line with Befrienders India [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php] My listening times are Monday to Friday  as per arrangement , usually my listening time will be 45 to 60 min. once a week or 2 x 30 min. twice a week. A few things about me: Some of my favorite activities are exercising,  yoga,  meditation,  nature walks and cooking. My approach to life is holistic, keeping the mind, body and spirits balanced. I consider living in harmony with nature  very important. I had many challenges in my life and learned to cope and overcome them and would be glad to support you to achieve the same.  Volunteering here on 7 cups  means a lot to be,   I am very passionate about helping others. I want to acknowledge the courage that it takes to reach out, this is not easy, but you made the first step. Please feel free to message me any time, I promise I will get back to you as soon as I can.
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FawkesCare12
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Hello to the amazing person reading this. I'm here to help total strangers deal with all too familiar problems. If you just want someone to listen to you and understand you, I hope to be able to do that for you. Asking for help and speaking about our problems is really hard. So if you're here, you've already overcome a huge hurdle. So if you want to talk or just need someone to vent to, I'm here .This is a completely non- judgemental space, where you are accepted just the way you are because you are doing the best you can and that makes you all the more amazing .
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DreamTouch
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Hello there! Thank you for checking out my profile. I'm Dream, a listener here since January 2020. I'm here to provide a safe and non judgmental place for you to share your thoughts or feelings.  Unfortunately I'm not able to take 1-1 support chats currently. Please click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to view other available listeners. Some topics I'm more suited to provide support includes depression, anxiety, panic attacks, self-harm, student life and a few other I've mentioned in the 'categories' session below. Please note that I do not take any chats on sexual health or related topics. Thank you for understanding! I believe that personal development and self-improvement is a life long journey of trial and error. We are all work in progress and we all deserve respect and understanding in the process of self-discovery. ------------------------- What I do on 7cups: Adult-Teen Listener Academy Ambassador (LDP) ------------------------- My listener twins: @positivePumpkin22 and @lueurspace
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Endure777
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"I'm still standing better than I ever did, looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid. I'm still standing after all this time." - Elton John I'm Endure, but you can call me Cole :) I am a recovering addict/alcoholic and person with Bipolar 1 Disorder, severe anxiety, and PSTD. I have many years of mental health and listening experience. I have been to the darkest depths of not only the mind but this world as well. I'm here for you, to help you move on and overcome your problems. You don't have to be or feel alone. <3 My Roles in 7 Cups:  Listener Room Supporter Safety Patrol  
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Asher
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Hello, my name is Asher. I'm currently a student working on my Master of Business Administration/ Master of Public Health. Looking forward to working with you. I have also provided 5,000 hours of Peer Support for those in need, while focusing on a holistic approach for each member. I do take all issues and will support you on them to the best of my ability (except issues of suicide or active self-harm) 7 Cups Leadership Roles Project Lead, Being Asher Former Roles Community Ambassador  Executive Editor, 7 Cups Newsletter Community Admin Support, Group Support in Community Engagement Community Mentor Leader of 7 Cups Leadership Quality Mentor, Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Project Lead of International Resource Database Chatroom Support/ Teen Chatroom Support Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Peer Support / Teen Peer Support Forum Supporter, Need Replies "Cause I'll be there when you can finally make it home"                                                                 - Missing Piece, Vance Joy "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"                                             - Up, Disney            "Go big, get loud, or go home. You gotta check that bucket list before going to the crypt"                                                                                        - Chaz Cardigom                                                 
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EvelyneRose
L Epitome 18 1282
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Hello! I chose the picture of an apple because it represents to me growth and potential. The apple can grow to become the best apple it can be. I think we all have potential, and I also believe that most people are not solely good or bad- we are a combination of light and dark. That's just human nature. I've been here since 2013, and I am now in my 30s. I have always been told I'm a good listener and person to come to. People have come to me years after talking to them because they remembered I was someone to confide in. I like to think of myself as open minded, non judgmental, and compassionate. I try to be honest, but tactfully so. I find the best people in my life are those that tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear, and that is something I practice with others. I hope to be here for you, and I will cheerlead you on. I cannot give advice, but I will be a support for you. I take casual chats, so even if you're just bored or need someone to talk to and don't have a pressing issue, I am happy to talk to you.  My strengths lie in the subjects I have listed on my profile, so I will not be the best fit for everyone (and that is okay!). I hope everyone can get the help they need from whoever it is, even if it's not me. If I cannot help you, I will let you know and try to connect you with someone that can. I do the best with chats that can be asynchronous, as my schedule varies and I don't want to promise I can sit down for a real time chat if I cannot. That is unfair to both of us time wise, and time is a precious thing. Updated March 23, 2023 I have joined the admin team as a Quality Specialist for the volunteer community. I am still involved in all the things below, but as I am now involved widely across the site in different ways, if you need to know who to talk to regarding any of the below activities, please PM me and I will direct you to who you should talk to, whether it be me or someone else. If you have questions about anything Quality related, please PM me!
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audienta
L Guru 5 978
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Bio in German/auf Deutsch [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YWfxu7AqLNtqkRbzt_u5kePsWKYc6s4jVEkxXFrFdrk/edit] ------------------------- I'm currenty sick so I'll not be able to respond to you messages. Due to my health, I might be offline for some days without a warning from time to time. But don't worry, eventually I'll come back. ------------------------- About me Hey, I am audienta (they/them). I have been here on 7 Cups since 2017, so I have had the chance to gather a lot of experiences I am very grateful for. Sometimes life just does not work like we would like it to, but the conversations showed me again and again how resilient we as human beings are. My own mental and physical health have been challenging me for a while now. I have had to learn how to set boundaries and listen to my own needs. There are days when I can do that and there are others where it does not work. And that is okay. We all give our best to accept and live our life. I had the honour to be interviewed for the Living with Leaders series [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/InnerWisdomandLight_280987/], so if you want to know more about me, that might be an option. ------------------------- Offers and Boundaries My Offers: Trained, verified active Listener: I take 1-1 member chats which take between 30 and 60 minutes and listen to you. I am a patient and non-judgemental listener. I cannot give you advice, but I can ask questions and am open to offer peer support and share my experiences if you wish that. Adult Teen Listener: I can take chats from adults as well as from teens. Chat Topics that I have experience with and am okay to talk about: * Anxiety * Autism Spectrum Disorder * Bullying * Chronic Illness * Dissociative Disorders * LGBTQ+ * Self-Care * Student Life Languages: I can listen to you in English, German and Swissgerman. My Boundaries:  Only offline chats: I'll respond to your messages within 1-3 days, but I'm currently not able to do live chats. Chat Topics that I am not able to provide support for because of a lack of experience or trigger risk: * Family Stress * Financial Stress * Parenting * Relationship Stress/Breakups * Self Harm * Sexual Health * Weight Management ------------------------- Projects Trauma Support Community Mentor Leader: I support the trauma support sub-community as a community mentor leader. If you have feedback, questions or ideas regarding this community, please leave me a pm or use this form:  Trauma Sub-Community Feedback Form [https://forms.gle/tvajKJmLKhqfxwrH9] Anonymous Evaluations Outreach Team Quality Mentor Leader: I make sure that people who had three good evaluations get a chance to be verified and listeners who need help get connected to the Listener Coaching Team. Sub-Community Leadership Team (PA): I'm helping with recruiting and onboarding new forum supporters. Quality Mentor: As a mentor, I can take you as a mentee. I can help you improve your listening skills, do mock chats with you, give you resources, provide emotional support, and answer your questions. Chat Supporter: If you struggle with an ongoing chat, I can provide tips and resources to you. I can do that either in the Listener Support Room, or, if you need to describe the chat with more than 5 words, in the pms.  Adult Teen Listener with the Peter Pan, Teen Chat Support, and Teen Quality Mentor badge: I can provide support to adult and teen listeners. Doorkeeper: You can pm me if you want a room opened or closed. ------------------------- Most Important Resources Suicidal ideation, self harm: On 7 Cups we cannot offer crisis support.  7 Cups Crisis [/www.7cups.com/crisis] Chat Support: If you are a listener and need help with an ongoing chat, take a look at the linked document. Chat Support [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jf7BqGrwkY0zFhU3PKaAaRVCoEd6O2TD0vNhuiRHRD8/edit] New Listener Links: If you are a new listener, the following document with a bunch of links might be helpful to you. New Listener Links [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LTMvBFOgWICNHLlfNvzeQf2vkF3PPRn_jQUxJxjASOk/edit] ------------------------- Smile and take care everyone! :) audienta ------------------------- PS: A big thank you to my great peers who showed me so much love, acceptance, and appreciation during the last couple of years! You really made my life a little brighter. Tagging my twinnie @MelodyoftheOcean.
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7cups availability: no longer available for new support chats on 7cups, if we have talked before you are welcome to send me a text please use browse listeners page if you need support, there are many awesome listeners available 💙 ------------------------- Hey, I'm Sarinn and I'm here for you, this chat page is a safe place, A place, where you won’t be judged  and you have nothing to be ashamed of, I'm already proud of you and sending you my love ------------------------- What are some reasons you can text me for? if you are a member you can text me to share about anything that is making you struggle,  busying your mind or feeling heavy on you, you aren't alone, we can talk and face it all together if you are a listener You can reach out to me for chat support (help handling a hard chat) or if you need help figuring anything out on cups As a trained mentor, I can help you with Chat situations, mock chats, figuring out sub-communities, leadership roles or finding resources and regardless of if you are a member or listener you can always text me for random hugs you can spam me with song recommendation which I'll love or to casually chat and get to know each other and have a fun time ------------------------- you can expect me to reply right away only ~if my status shows online/green ~if i was in a room and you are messaging after asking me if you could pm me ~if we have scheduled the date and time to chat together otherwise, please keep in mind that I'll take up to 72 hours to reply ------------------------- there are 3 things that I tend to do 1. I call my friends "love" both in real life and here 2. I am a hug person, I love hugs and I might send you virtual hugs 3. I might leave you random texts and check in sometimes if any of these, or anything else in the chat, makes you uncomfortable, or if there are triggers that I need to avoid, let me know and I'll be careful not to repeat ------------------------- ~lgbtq+ Ally~ ------------------------- some people i miss badly on cups *~* @kimmkimm (miss you awesomeness) @ruby2468 (I can’t think of a way to reach you rn, but I’m thinking of you, missing you and hoping you are doing okie) @brokentearss (miss you lampshade, and will never forget you) @ALeXaNdEr0712 (you are missed, and on my mind at random times) @tazzie (rest in peace taz) @tallwalker4850 @serenn @bluewalker8200 @exuberantplane4067 @swiftygirl13 @ri337 @jaja25 ------------------------- reminders~ your feelings are real, and you have every right to feel them, to speak them but just remember that you won't always feel the same way trying your best is enough and it's all you ever gotta do you are a human, and as a human, you have the right to make mistakes  your choices, thoughts, feeling and actions, make sense in the bigger picture of your life, and by a big chance anyone else, exactly in your shoes would do the same  and always remember; love yourself: speak yourself  'cause "life gets hard and it gets messed up when you give so much but it's not enough when the high's too high and the low's too low  ....  don't you let it kill you,  even when it hurts like hell oh whatever tears you apart,    don't let it break your heart"    sometimes, it can feel so heavy, to be a human to feel, to get thru daily life,  sometimes, it feels so lonely to be who you are, sometimes, mind gets cruel, too much thoughts and memories,  when you really just want it to stop, to go silent and to give you a rest sometimes, it's panic, other times, sadness anger, exhaustion, frustration sometimes, it is too much to process, other times, numbness and regardless of what it is, how big or small you don't have to face it alone by a big chance, i can't solve the problem, but hey, dark places are much less scary when not alone sharing, talking and feeling understood can help you feel much more ready to face, get thru and sometimes, solve the problems 
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