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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

CommunityModLou
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My name is Lou and I am a Community moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats.  
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Lou73
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--- Not accepting new member chats, March 2024 --- Hello I'm Lou (she/her) 🦋 Welcome to 7 Cups! Please read my bio before sending a message 💙 Part of the LGBTQ+ community 🌈 My Leadership Roles:  Group Support Mentor Leader (GSML), Support Team Leader (STL) - Member Sharing Circles Chatroom Moderator: -Sharing Circle (and Newbie hub) -Personality Disorders Community -Global Mod Doorkeeper and Safety Patrol Team - Feel free to send a message if you need a room opened or closed or a profile flagging.  Member Sharing Circle Host: Mon and Tues 6PM ET Proud recipient of the Persistence Badge 🌸 Previous roles: Forum Supporter - Hobby Zone 🎨 Chatroom Supporter - Hobby Zone 🦉 Smile Spreader for Peer Appreciation Team ------------------------- For member chats: Please no chats for: - sexual health, abuse, men's issues, domestic violence, relationship issues, addiction - dissociative disorders, pregnancy or bulimia - casual chats Accepting chats for: - borderline personality disorder (BPD or EUPD), managing emotions - anxiety, depression, panic attacks, social anxiety, bullying, family stress - student life, work stress Usually online between 5pm and 8pm (Cups time) or leave me a message and I'll reply when I can 😊 -------------------------
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Hello! I'm Silver.    (⊃。•́‿•̀。)⊃━⭑・゚゚・*:༅。.。༅:*゚:*:✼✿  I'm here to listen to you with empathy and support you with compassion. 💙  I have struggled with BPD (borderline personality disorder), NPD (narcissistic personality disorder), panic attacks, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, and family stress. These are the topics I'm comfortable with, but feel free to message me about other topics you'd like to talk about.  Status Icons  🟢 Online—I am active and available for live chats.  🟠 Busy—I am online, but my replies may be slow.  🔴 Offline—I am occupied or offline. Kindly expect that it might take a while for me to reply.  。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🍪 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。 My Current Roles Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] Adult-teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/] Academy Mentor (CDM) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/content/CDMAnnouncementsandUpdates_2194/CDMMentorRole_274485/] Forum Supporter (Content Volunteer Team) [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSehAkk72S0RWV1oQ5zShECQ6s-_fDYaxPE974iHorzqNRo1Ag/viewform] ------------------------- 7 Cups Academy Quality Listening Program Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/7CupsAcademyQualityListeningProgramLaunch_238010/] Content Development and Marketing Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/7CupsAcademyContentDevelopmentandMarketingCDMProgram_236685/] 7 Cups Internship Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/Jointhe7CupsInternshipProgram_238009/] Leadership Development Program Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/LeadershipDevelopmentCourseStartHere_2118/LeadershipDevelopmentProgramBecomealeader_288442/] Community Building Course Completion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/CommunityBuildingCourse_2308/CommunityBuildingCourse_291468/] Time Management Course Completion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/7CupsAcademyTimeManagementCourse_280718/] ------------------------- Previous Roles Forum Supporter (Personality Disorders Support) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/personalitydisorders/] On-spot Host (Listener Sharing Circle) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerSharingCircles_2133/LCDHostingOpportunitiesListenerSharingCircle_257571/] Project Agent (Listener Events Team) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ProjectAgentsWantedListenerChatroomTrack_264063/] Forum Team Member (Listener Learning & Journey) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/?rid=17140016] 。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🦪 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。 (∩^o^)⊃━☆ My Listener Twinnies:  @horizon22 @BlueRiverCares @Mellifluous11 [https://www.7cups.com/@Mellifluous11] @jasishereforallofu; 💫 I miss you, @fallenAngel19 @LexIris @Goodhomespring. 。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🐙 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。
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Mustafa97Ee
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توقفتُ عن اخذ طلبات الاستماع الجديدة. Not available for new listening requests ----- 😊اعتذر ولكن لا استقبل طلبات الاستماع للعلاقات العاطفية الرومانسية لغير المتزوجين وكذلك حالات المثلية Sorry but I do not accept requests to listen to the romantic relationships of unmarried people and lgbtq+ people. 😊 My name is Mustafa. an Arabic name which means "The Chosen One" or "The pure one". but it is just a name💚 I am a soul, among many souls on this globe, flaming in the inside, watery on the outside "earth". But I am Iraqi, a mixture of ancient civilizations, scientific and medical progress. I live between my love of religion and mental liberation 💚 I do not like to answer someone like a robot, but I like to immerse myself in the feelings and words of the other person and reply with words that I would say to myself if I were in the same situation. 💚
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innateJoy9602
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🌿Hello!🌿 I'm Joy! Here to support you as best as I can! <3  Here take a flower & Appreciate a friend!  🌺  Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Read some articles I've posted! How to Make, and Keep, Friends in Adulthood [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowtoMakeandKeepFriendsinAdulthood_287542/] Common Ways We Excuse Toxic Behavior [https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/CopingToolsResourcesforRelationships_1161/CommonWaysWeExcuseToxicBehavior_302371/]  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowtoMakeandKeepFriendsinAdulthood_287542/]Yes, Crying Can be a Form of Self-care [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/YesCryingCanbeaFormofSelfcare_297051/] The Power Of Reading Books [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerOfReadingBooks_285908/] Know Your Personality Type! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/KnowYourPersonalityType_286202/]  Why You Should Build A Hobby [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhyYouShouldBuildAHobby_285882/] Music Is a Beautiful And Powerful Painkiller [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/MusicIsaBeautifulAndPowerfulPainkiller_285356/]  The Pleasure of Comfort Food [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePleasureofComfortFood_288849/] 5 Ways Journaling Can Help You Cope With Big Life Changes [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/5WaysJournalingCanHelpYouCopeWithBigLifeChanges_284488/]  The Power of Honesty [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerofHonesty_285193/] The Power of Compassion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerofCompassion_287180/] What Is Your (Psychological) Superpower? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhatIsYourPsychologicalSuperpower_287010/] Using Art Therapy to Find Purpose [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/UsingArtTherapytoFindPurpose_286868/] Use This Simple Trick To Beat Procrastination [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/UseThisSimpleTrickToBeatProcrastination_284721/]  How To Communicate Your Needs When You Have Social Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowToCommunicateYourNeedsWhenYouHaveSocialAnxiety_285725/]  The Four DISC Personality Types. Which One Are You? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/TheFourDISCPersonalityTypesWhichOneAreYou_285568/]  Self-Care Tips for the Body [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/SelfCareTipsfortheBody_285516/]  How Long It Can Take To Recover From A Breakup, According To Research [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowLongItCanTakeToRecoverFromABreakupAccordingToResearch_284286/] If You Could Know The Future, Would You Want To Know? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/IfYouCouldKnowTheFutureWouldYouWantToKnow_284651/]  How Can I Tell if I’m Depressed or Burned Out? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowCanITellifImDepressedorBurnedOut_284345/]  Self-compassion Makes You A Better Person. Here’s How to Practice It [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/SelfcompassionMakesYouABetterPersonHeresHowtoPracticeIt_283575/]  No One Is Watching: The Spotlight Effect [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/NoOneIsWatchingTheSpotlightEffect_287251/] The Kinds of Loneliness No One Is Talking About [https://www.7cups.com/forum/generalsupport/ManagingEmotions_1599/TheKindsofLonelinessNoOneIsTalkingAbout_300453/] Wow! The Awe-Inspiring Health Benefits of Sunrises and Sunsets [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WowTheAweInspiringHealthBenefitsofSunrisesandSunsets_296378/] Is It Unhealthy to Spend a Lot of Time Alone? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/IsItUnhealthytoSpendaLotofTimeAlone_295991/]  10 Things To Do When You Feel Unmotivated [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/10ThingsToDoWhenYouFeelUnmotivated_286044/] What's In My Control vs. Out of My Control [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhatsInMyControlvsOutofMyControl_296980/] Quote: You Don't Have To Be Positive All The Time [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/QuoteYouDontHaveToBePositiveAllTheTime_296900/]
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YellowRose27
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CommunityModEver
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Hello there! My name is Ever, and I am a Community Moderator. Unfortunately, I'm not available for 1-1 support chats.
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Hello! My name is Christine and I am a Community moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats.
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LoveLilly
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Hello to everyone checking out my bio! NOT CURRENTLY TAKING NEW CHATS I am Lilliana, but go by Lilly, Lils, Lilliana and Ana or any other nickname you know of and it is so wonderful to meet you all. I love listening to people and supporting you whatever you are going through. You are strong and it is so brave of you to be reaching out for support. I am friendly and kind and will listen to you for sessions between 15-45 mins. Feel free to send me a message and I will respond when I can. You can also find me hanging out in the group support chat rooms. I bring cookies and hugs ❤️ Take care❤️🌻  #EdGang #Edgangforlife (spreading awareness and support for eating disorders and love for my eating disorder team)     Chat topics I have experience with and am best at supporting: -Anxiety -Panic Attacks -Eating Disorders  ​​​​​​-Spirituality -General Mental Health  -Social Anxiety Hugs for you for reading my bio ❤️❤️
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DreamTouch
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Hello there! Thank you for checking out my profile. I'm Dream, a listener here since January 2020. I'm here to provide a safe and non judgmental place for you to share your thoughts or feelings.  Unfortunately I'm not able to take 1-1 support chats currently. Please click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to view other available listeners. Some topics I'm more suited to provide support includes depression, anxiety, panic attacks, self-harm, student life and a few other I've mentioned in the 'categories' session below. Please note that I do not take any chats on sexual health or related topics. Thank you for understanding! I believe that personal development and self-improvement is a life long journey of trial and error. We are all work in progress and we all deserve respect and understanding in the process of self-discovery. ------------------------- What I do on 7cups: Adult-Teen Listener Academy Ambassador (LDP) ------------------------- My listener twins: @positivePumpkin22 and @lueurspace
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cristlecares
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When you can't look at the bright side, I will sit with you in the dark💜... (Did you know that you can't breath when you're smiling😮🌻?? Try it and see😮) (Expect late replies to your msgs due to my off cups commitments🌻💜 I'll try to reply back to your messages as soon as I can😇 Thank you so much for understanding 🌻) If you want to have a chat with me then please state the topics (please look at the topics I am not comfortable listening to, Thanks) you want to talk/share or if you are a listener looking for a mentor,  then please let me know🌻💙 ------------------------- Heyloooo🌻 This is cris😄 Nice to meet ya Amazing hooman bean💙 My roles :  Smile spreader ( Peer Appreciation Team member)🌻💙 Listener sharing circle host❄️ Peer support🌻✨ Doorkeeper 🚪😇 Room supporter ( Newbie hub, Mindfulness center and 50+ community)😃 ATL ( Verified Adult & Teen listener)💙 Chatroom/Listener mentor🌻 Chat Support (CS)💜 ------------------------- I am not comfortable with issues related to sexual health/relationships/self harm/abuse/domestic violence/addiction/eating disorders. I hope you will understand🌸 ------------------------- Even if you don't sleep, Dawn will break as you gaze over it.. Things will change, Things will end, things will begin It's never "Until here" but always "From here"  Even if you lose your way, cry and scream, it'll all eventually stop.. That's why even if it is scary, you can keep on living... When the sun rises, you can start walking again... - Mafuyu (given)🌻 ------------------------- If you wanna appreciate your fellow listeners/members please use this form👇 Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] If you want to become the part of peer appreciation team, apply here👇 Smile Spreader [https://forms.gle/rgPfNwytBgJRChp7A] ------------------------- Amazing Chat Support Twinnie : @Star001✨💙 Awesome Listener Twinnie : @Comphi🌼💚 Lovely Chatroom Mentor Twinnie : @BlueRivercares 💐💙 ------------------------- Take care of yourself🌸💙 Have a nice time in here😇🤗 Take some cookies too🍪🍪🍪🍪
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