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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

walkalot
L Exemplar 7 8208
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*Not taking new members for now. I need to slow down. I will still support my current members. Thanks for your understanding.* I don't claim to be an expert, but I appreciate when people listen respectfully and attentively to me. I hope to provide the same for you.
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daydreammemories
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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿 (Currently on a break from taking new chat requests, thanks for understanding ^-^ . My current member buddies, feel free to message whenever you want 😄) ------------------------- I'll be there for you              When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been? 😊 I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile.  We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow. I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) ✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story. ✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. ✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s. ✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. ✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. ✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: 🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college.  🕊️I love learning new languages. 🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. 🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.  🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows. 🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷. 🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚.  🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.  May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇 “Message in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕
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ThoughtLight
L Intermediate 10 350
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Welcome. I am a writer, a bibliophile, an art lover, a college student, a thinker and a self advocate. I love psychology and psychoanalysis. I like helping people. I've struggled with mental illness for 16 so I get it. My experiences provide me some insight you can't be taught. Unfortunately I'm not allowed to just give out advice. There's other types of support I can provide. Let me point out that I'm a verified listener. Meaning I extensively trained in active listening skills. I want to guide you to help yourself. You will feel great at the end when you realize you solved to problem yourself. I'm a believer in process. Standing back and taking a rational look. I can be your sounding board. Or just someone to talk to. I'm a believer that you've got to put your mindset on getting better. A changing perspective. I can't provide you a diagnosis or reccomend treatment. And I love to give a self esteem boost. If I had to pick an area of expertise it would be bipolar disorder followed by borderline personality disorder. But view my long list of area I work with. Please pay attention to the areas I don't work it. Please be respectful and honor that list. In my chat room we keep things respectful. I stand stand for being disrespected. I won't disrespect you. Also, complete religious tolerance is a standard. If I don't accept your request but my green light is on I'm full but will get back. If my red light is on I'm not accepting members. You can attempt a message. If I'm around I do make exceptions. Or I might actually be off site. Let's get you feeling better. Am open to having regulars. Also, I am here for faith based listening. I'm Christian. And churches have neglected the mentally ill minority. I'm working on it.  And to point out the biggest problems on the list I don't work in: PTSD, sexual abuse, relationships. I look forward to chatting with anyone who needs my help. Personal requests do draw my attention first. 
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Kristynsmama
L Sage 12 1203
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Note:  I am currently not accepting personal requests for chats from new members. *:・゚✧*:・゚˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚*:・゚✧*:・゚Hello!!*:・゚✧*:・゚˚ ༘♡ ⋆。˚*:・゚✧*:・゚ Welcome to ✨Kristynsmama's✨ Profile Page!!  ✨I am a verified listener here on 7 cups!✨  ✨I am so glad that you have stopped by!!✨ ✨I am in CST.✨ ✨I currently am not able to accept personal requests. ✨ ✨Fun Facts✨ ✨I live on a farm.✨ ✨I love animals✨ ✨I have 6 dogs, 2 indoor cats, 6 barn cats, 2 horses, 4 chickens, 2 saltwater fish tanks, 2 fresh water fishtanks, 1 donkey, 1 llama, and a partridge in a pear tree.✨ ✨I can turn any conversation into a conversation about dogs✨ 🌻I grow all of my own fruits and vegetables and they are all organic.🌻 🌻I may grow fruits and veggies, but I still believe that Chocolate should be it’s own food group🌻 ✨My favorite colors are blue and purple.✨ ✨I have an alarmingly large collection of keychains from around the world.✨  ✨My hobbies include horseback riding and jumping.  And I used to be a barrel racer.  I also enjoy painting although I’m not great at it.  And I’m an avid cyclist.  In my spare time, I enjoy riding a motorcycle. ✨I have a chronic autoimmune disease that sometimes makes my energy plummet.  I usually update my profile at the top of my profile if I’m going to be taking a self care day. ✨If you really knew me, you would know that my passion in life is to support other people through challenges that I myself have been through.  I have lived experience in grief and loss, eating disorders, addiction, depression, anxiety, and much more.✨ My current leadership roles include: ✨Approved Adult-Teen listener ✨Chatroom Mentor ✨Teen Chatroom Mentor ✨Community Mentor Leader: grief & loss ✨Forum Supporter:  Self Injury ✨Community Mentor ✨Quality Mentor ✨Academy Mentor:  LDP ✨Safety Patrol ✨Anonymous Evaluations Team ✨Academy Outreach Project Agent ✨Anonymous Evaluations Project Agent ✨Quality Mentor Project Agent ✨Communities Leadership Project Agent ✨Peer support ✨Chat support ✨Teen Chat Support ✨Chatroom Moderator (Newbie Hub) ✨Listener Discussion Leader ✨Doorkeeper ✨Kindness Crusader nominator ✨I have completed the following courses:✨ ✨Leadership Development graduate (with honors) 12/2023 ✨Internship Graduate (with honors) 12/2023 ✨Quality Listening Program Graduate (with Honors) 01/24 ✨Inner Development Goals Program Graduate 12/2023 ✨Community Builder Course Graduate 12/2023 ✨The Listener chats that I currently host are: ✨Listener check in Mondays at 9 pm EST in the LCR ✨Listener Sharing Circle:  once a month.  I will post the date and time on my bio here on the 1st of each month. ✨Grief & Loss Group Support Chat  adults:  2nd and last Wed of each month 9-11 pm EST in Support Session Adult Room ✨teens:  1st and 3rd Wed of each month from 9-10 pm EST in the Support Session for Teens Chatroom. ✨Ask Me Anything (AMA)  next one will be Tuesday, May 7th at 9 pm EST.  After that AMA’s will be the first Wed of each month at 9 pm EST. 💖If I don’t respond right away, Please find another listener here💖 💛What is 7 cups?💛 ⭐️It IS a place for you to come where you can share life’s challenges in a safe, confidential and supportive environment! ⭐️It IS a place for you to discover your own solutions to your problems with the help and guidance of a non judgmental person. 💛What 7 cups IS NOT💛 ⭐️It is not a place for crisis intervention.  If you are actively suicidal, please understand that I will not chat with you.  Instead, I will send you a list of resources.  You are welcome to reach out to me again once you are feeling better! ⭐️It is NOT a place to discuss sexual desires, fantasies, or role plays in any capacity.  I will not take sexual chats. 💛What is the role of a listener?💛 ⭐️A listener is NOT a therapist.   ⭐️They are simply volunteers who want to support you and guide you to discover your own solutions to your problems. ⭐️A listener should never give you advice! 💛My Chat guidelines💛 ✨ Please follow the community guidelines in any chat with me.  I will always do the same. ✨Please do not chat with me about sexual topics.  This includes pornography, fantasies, asking me to role play a fantasy, and asking intimate details about my own sex life or fantasies/desires. ✨All of my chats are about 60 minutes each and my time is valuable and limited.  I will do my best to give you adequate time to chat, but please know that sometimes I’m just not available. ✨Please do not ask for my instagram, Facebook, email address, phone number, etc….  I will not give out any identifying information for your safety and for mine and because it is against community policy!  Equally I will not reveal where I live, my gender or my age.  If those things are that important to you, then it's probably best you find another listener. ✨ I follow a 3 warning system.  If you choose to disregard my boundaries, I will disconnect the chat on the third warning. 🛑 Chat Topics I DO NOT TAKE: 🛑 ✨Men’s Issues (sorry guys, I’m a lady and I just don’t have knowledge). ✨Sexual Health 🔔Green: I'm online, feel free to send me a message.  🔕Orange: I am busy, but there's a chance I might be able to reply. 📭Red: I'm offline. Replies can vary, but I do my best to reply as soon as possible.   ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Listener Twins ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Jenna Averyjr23 dreamicicle8467 Dancat1128 ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 Kindness Twin: ୭̥⋆*。୭̥⋆*。 AnnaSilverberg My amazing mentor is also AnnaSilverberg and credit for my adorable profile pic also goes to Anna!
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PM1965
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Hi! My name is PM, I’m a verified Listener on Cups and looking forward to listening to you.  A little more about me I’m a husband of 33 years, father, brother and veteran! In my free time, I enjoy playing video games, listening to classic rock music and creative writing!  I have lived experience with the following topics:◾Alcohol Abuse ◾Drug Abuse ◾Bipolar Disorder ◾Childhood Sexual Abuse ◾Depression ◾LGBTQ+
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FeureVox
L Marvel 2 4267
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دلاں دیاں میلیاں نیں 💔 ، چن جہیاں صورتاں 🌙، اوے ایہناں کولوں چنگیاں نیں، مٹی دیاں مورتاں ۔  The hearts are stained, faces like the moon, yet they are better than these, the idols made of clay. .القلوب ملطخة، وجوه كالقمر، لكنها أفضل من هؤلاء، تماثيل من طين Die Herzen sind befleckt, Gesichter wie der Mond, dennoch sind sie besser als jene, die Götzen aus Lehm. ------------- Hello Beautiful Person, I'm glad to know if you are interested in discussing your challenges, and I'm here to listen and support you. I understand that sharing personal thoughts and feelings can be challenging, and I want you to feel comfortable with me. First and foremost, I want to make sure you know that this conversation is a safe space. I want you to know that whatever you share with me will remain confidential. I'm here to listen without judgment or criticism. Your feelings and experiences are valid, and I'm here to support you however I can. I want you to know that I'm genuinely interested in your words. I'm here to listen, understand, and empathize with your perspective actively. If you ever feel hesitant or unsure about sharing something, please know I respect your boundaries and pace. Your comfort is important to me. I want to share some of my experiences if you're comfortable. Sometimes, sharing our vulnerabilities can help build a stronger connection and mutual understanding. Remember, there's no rush to share everything at once. Building trust takes time, and I'm here for the long haul. Feel free to take things at your own pace, and I'll be right here whenever you're ready to talk. Thank you for opening up and allowing me to join your journey. I'm here to support you in any way I can. Take care, my good friend.
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coolvibes
L Marvel 12 2375
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Welcome to my Igloo, Please, come sit by the fire and relax with me for a while.... Hello, thanks for finding me on 7cups. I promise to do my best to help you feel heard. I look forward to speaking with you so just leave a message.I have had an exciting adventure continuing to grow as a listener. I enjoy meeting new people and sharing moments of their day with them. I live with the philosophy that you're never too old to learn something new. Being open to learning is what keeps us young mentally, no matter how fragile our bodies get. I look forward to connecting with you. My Listener Twins @Jenna @Bobcatz @bouncyCandy4246
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themerlin
L Intermediate 1 220
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I am deeply passionate about helping others and providing a listening ear to those in need because I understand firsthand the pain and struggles that life can bring. After experiencing my own share of hurt and challenges, I have come to realize the immense importance of having someone to confide in and share burdens with. It is heartbreaking to see others going through similar difficulties and feeling alone in their struggles, which is why I am driven to be there for them in their time of need. I believe that everyone deserves to have a safe space where they can express themselves freely without fear of judgment or criticism. My own experiences have taught me the power of empathy and understanding, and I am committed to being the supportive presence that I wished I had during my own darkest moments. By offering compassion, empathy, and a non-judgmental listening ear, I hope to provide solace and support to those who are navigating their own challenges. I want to be the person that I never had – someone who genuinely cares and is willing to listen without reservation or prejudice.
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Bunnylovesyou
L Guru 1 1992
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My profile picture was picked by @lovemymoonflowers! it just took me so long to get it up here!  shout out to @KateDoskocilova , my boss aha  Greetings Weary Traveler! I am so happy you stumbled upon my little page <3 I am proud of you for how far you’ve come. Why don’t you rest for a while, I am sure you need it? *offers blankets and a drink* Since you are here, why don’t we get to know each other a bit.  I am Bunny. I began my Listener journey over a year ago. I’m 16 years old, I am Homeschooled but in 10th grade (Year 11, Sophomore). I use He/They pronouns, but I know some of my members don’t feel comfortable with a male listener so I will say I am AFAB (assigned female at birth) My favorite color is Yellow. I don’t like making my bed because I like to sleep inside the blob. When I am not on 7cups, I am reading, crocheting, painting, or playing my clarinet! What about you? What is your name? Pronouns? I want to get to know you, hear about your life, the good, the bad, and the hairy. I mean scary xD.  What kind of chats do I offer? =>Support Chats on allowed Topics  =>Lighthearted Chats, for some comfort or a friend =>Book recommendation/ramble chats =>Chats with Age-regressed members  =>Jeffy chats  So you are probably wondering what all of those chats mean. Well let me break it down:  Support Chats on Allowed Topics: I do not take chats on Men’s Issues, Weight Loss, Exercise Motivation, or Cancer, due to personal triggers. I have lived experience in : Abuse, Adhd, Anxiety, Abandonment issues, Breakups, Bullying, Chronic Pain/illness, Depression, Disabilities, Dissociative Disorders, Dysphoria, Eating Disorders, Family Stress, Financial Stress, Forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Grief, LGBTQ+ Issues, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Panic Attacks, PTSD, Recovery, Relationship Stress, Self-esteem, Self Harm, Sleeping Well, Social Anxiety, Spirtuality, and Student Life. I do take chats on other topics, just not the ones in red.  Please Note that while I take chats on Sexual Health, I do not wish to be asked on advice for self-pleasure, and or talk about that, as it is a personal trigger for me. I hope you understand<3 While I take chats on spirituality, Please don't ask about my religion. I am an Atheist, who believes everyone can make their own choices, and I support Religion.  Lighthearted Chats:  I take lighthearted chats! Want a friend? Want a cookie? Want to just talk to someone? I am your pal <3 Just note I prioritize the support chats <3 Book Recommendations/Ramble Chats-  Need help figuring out what to read next? Read an amazing book you want to tell someone about? Do you want to just ramble about how your favorite character ever did something so mind exploding you can't handle it? I am here! I would love to listen to your favorite genres and favorite books and offer some recommendations, or just to talk about books!  Jeffy Chats- Message me ‘Jeffy Pic’ for a picture of my rabbit Jeffery!  My mental health journey:  Many members ask me about my journey, and what led me here. So I will share a little bit here. I live in a mentally abusive house. I have various health issues, which cause me to be in constant unbearable pain. I am hoping to have surgery this summer to help. I also have problems regulating my blood sugar, so it will drop randomly, which might cause me to have to leave our chat, I don’t want you to have an unconscious listener xD. I was in a sexually abusive relationship for 8 months last year, and I am recovering from anorexia. Rules for my chats/Things to keep in mind:  =>Swearing is okay, please don’t cuss me out  =>I allow age-regressing, but please try to make the messages comprehensible  =>Please don’t just say ‘Hello’, let me know what you'd like to talk about  =>I have PTSD, so if I randomly ask you to refer to another listener, it is because i am triggered. I want you to get the best care possible <3 =>Please don’t send messages in all caps <3 Roles on 7cups (past, current, and on break) =>Verified Listener (current) =>Newbie Hub Mod (current) =>Trauma Support Mod (current) =>Trauma Support Forum Supporter (On-break) =>LGBTQ Mod (on-break) =>LGBTQ Forum Supporter (on-break) =>Door Keeper (current) =>Anxiety Chat Host (past) =>PAT Smile Spreader (past, although i may come back) =>Safety Patrol (current) =>LRS (past) =>Peer Support (current) Thank you for reading my bio, you amazing lovely wonderful person, and I hope to hear from you soon <3
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sky2Ocean20
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Response time for New member/listener-PM: 24-48 hours (Avoid sending just "Hi". Let me know why you want to connect) I might not be available for live chat. Please reach out to live-available listeners whenever you need. You deserve it. 💛 Response time for previously connected member/listener-PM: I will be looking forward to your updates. Feel free to leave one.  **I DO NOT TAKE SEXUAL CHATS** ------------------------- A little "appreciation" sometimes does quite as much good as all the conscientious "bringing up" in the world. Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Use the button down below and you can appreciate the peer you admire or yourself for providing so much love and support :  Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] ------------------------- 🍀 My roles here on 7 Cups 🌼 Internship- Academy Outreach project Agent  🌼 Peer appreciation team 🌼 Gratitude Rain team 🌼 Room supporter for "support room 24/7" 🌼 Community Mentor for  "General support" 🌼 safety patrol team ___________ Background I was a previous member of this community. when I had no one to rely on, people I have met through this app supported me and gave me immense hope that tough times are temporary and we can go through the ups and downs of life. Quitting is not the solution.  After my recovery and ongoing healing, I decided to come back here as a listener and do my part as a form of giving back to this universe.  ------------------------- 🌻🌻 You are worthy of happiness and peace of mind. 🌻🌻 💛 🌻🌻Taking care of your mental health is an act of self-love. 🌻🌻
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Kavisphere
L Advanced 555
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You are welcome to Kavisphere. I'm 27 years old. It's not because of my wanting to help people, or I necessarily want to be happy from helping I'm here to help, but to truly only help those who want help. You can truly enjoy the freedom of talking with me about anything which would give you peace. Straight. Artist. Don't assume negative things about me please, because I had written about these things. I have experience with people here wanting to know about these things about me. It's nice to be positive. So, this place is my friend, my family, my routine. Post graduate in master of business administration. Studying master of arts in psychology. INFJ. I can help those who struggle with anything. I'm passionate, empathetic, positive, confident, attentive, loyal, poetic, deep, honest and fearless. My main likes and hobbies are writing, observing people, arts, psychology and philosophy. I know different types of people come here with different problems or issues or conditions or sufferings or struggles or minds. You can talk about anything with me, no matter whether it's silly or serious. Sometimes what's silly for others may not be silly for the person who is experiencing it. I don’t expect anything by helping you honestly. I’m highly conscious about everything, and I feel everything, though commonly I don't do anything, but I'm healthy, I have peace. You will wonder if I’m insane, and if you continue talking with me, you will wonder if I’m the most sane, and if you still continue talking with me, you will wonder if I’m the most sane or the most insane and nobody continued talking with me, so, I don’t go talk with anyone, but you are free to come talk with me. ~ Kavi  My experience:  I love me, I love them, and they love me, and after sometimes they don’t love me, but I love them though they don’t love me, and they leave me, but I love them though they left me, and I love someone else, and they also leave me, and I love me, and I love them; so I’m the soul mate of everyone, and I’m the soul mate of me also.  -If you are a listener you can skip the things in the bracket if you want to save your time.- [Different people come for help with different problems. Suppose if a listener could not help you with your problem, that listener can help another. You don’t have to block a listener or rate a listener low if that listener could not help you with your problem. If more people block listeners their accounts will be banned. It’s how the conditions of a listener’s account work. Some members and guests treat listeners like they don’t have feelings. Because of that listeners who don’t talk with members and guests are increasing. You should not disrespect them because they are dedicating their time for you. If listeners behave badly you can block them.  If you truly have a problem and if you have patience, I can help you. I won’t be talking much if you are not explaining it. If you want something else like a friend or someone to talk with for some days or anything, you can be direct; you will be getting what you want if you are serious about it. No problem in breaking rules if those breaking of rules are not going to harm anyone. Some people are not comfortable when someone breaks rules, and it’s like a disorder for them. Some rules can be broken for good.  You can be anonymous if you want to be anonymous, but, you should know why you want to be anonymous, because, I don’t want you to waste your time. I don’t want to be anonymous because I know something I'm doing, I’m not going to do anything bad, I’m not going to harm anyone, and I’m not afraid of anything.] I know, but I don’t know how I know and I’m on peace with not knowing why I don’t know how I know. ~ Kavi  My style is poetic and my ways are artistic. I know the main objective is talking with members and guests, but there is an option to talk with other listeners. You can have casual talks also, but in that there can be good talks and bad talks with some people. Extent of good talks and bad talks can be different according to the values of different people. You can ignore people if your interests are different from their interests. I’m introverted who is exclusively extroverted with the right people. I don’t use much words but I say sharp and deep things.   It’s not a lot of bragging about me and I’m not narcissistic, but I know me and I like to write. I like writing poems and stories and I lost most of them which I had written in my computer and it was twelve years of data and it was a shock for me. My honesty annoys me sometimes, because sometimes it’s not only brutal honesty, but also foolish honesty, but I’m not selfish, so I’m always honest doesn’t matter anything. ~ Kavi  If you are with me, it would be like you are wandering in a different world with me. It can be exciting, frustrating, crazy and mysteriously magnetic. I don’t want to impress anyone. I’m not deliberately behaving in a diverse way to impress people. It’s how I am. I’m seriously honestly extremely truly lonely, but I don’t struggle with loneliness, but it’s nice to have a friend, and I hope my friend exists somewhere, because hope is good, but some hopes are false hopes, but it’s nice to hope. ~ Kavi A lot of people often misinterpret the things I say and they lose me. Breaking the rules can be bad, but sometimes it’s bad not to break rules, because it’s those rules which are bad. ~ Kavi  If someone is with me what they get from me will be priceless, but commonly people are not patient, they have a lot of bad experiences, so they don't believe anyone, and also they are so distracted by different experiences they experience from this world. I’m not telling anyone to be with me by believing in me, but it can be your choice and you have the freedom to choose. I’m not afraid to be alone, and I have been alone most of the time, but I don’t have any problem with anything. You can talk about your troubles or crisis with me. My powers are in knowing things. I don’t know a lot of things and I don’t have a lot of knowledge, but I know the things I should know. I wish if you will have patience with me, because I truly talk more with time. Something conflicting or challenging for me is the academics I had and the career which I should have because I’m apt to be a psychologist and it’s a craving of me. I can also teach students and I’m good in it and I have been teaching children from six years old to eighteen years old when I didn’t had any other work. It was from a company and those guys were disrespecting the principal and my colleagues, so I disrespected those guys and I lost the work. I don’t like to work in a company because most of the company guys behave badly with others and most of the companies are dishonest. Commonly these corporate people are rich, they have people to support them for anything, and they have power in society, but they are little people. So, I feel it's about being nice people without any ego of who you become. I liked the students I was teaching, and I was a baby to them, and they were my children. When I walk through the corridor, some small children come and grab my arm and take me to their class and they celebrate. My academics is in master of business administration, so it’s against a career I like and my happiness, and I have debt because of the education loan so I should earn with some other career. I’m not complaining and I'm not sad. It doesn't matter, I can craft my own marvel in anything.  Kavisphere is where I am. Kavisphere is me. Kavisphere is a hint for you. Kavisphere is my place everywhere. Kavisphere is where you can come for anything. I had done things for love, but I didn’t know the things I do are love and I’m neither living nor dying, but loving; and it is the love which can neither be created nor destroyed, and it is the love I could access to, and it is the love which is neither good nor bad and it is the love I’m breathing, and it is the love I feel, and it is the love which is not anything, but it can be anything, and it is the love I radiate, and it is the love which can’t hurt, because it’s deeper than emotions, and it is the love which you don’t struggle with, because it doesn’t necessarily want something, and it is the love which is tough to believe, because it’s all pervasive in nothing also, and it is the love which is neither sane nor insane, and it is the love connected and disconnected but always with you through the elements of your being and conscious in everything you know and don’t know, it is the love which shall not pass, and it is the love which is merged in the oblivion of everything infinitely; and it is the love which is only love.  ~ Kavi 
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Hi! Welcome to my profile and 7 Cups! My name is Sel and I am really passionate about helping others, especially people who have mental health conditions. I have been through a lot with my mental health, so I know some coping techniques. I graduated from the Personal Support Worker program. I've wanted to help people for as long as I can remember and I have first hand experience with some mental illnesses. That is why I will approach every member in a non-judgmental way. I specialize in social anxiety, generalized anxiety, relationship stress, depression and bipolar disorder but I am open to talking about other topics as well. Even though I identify as a Catholic and have she/her pronouns, I am respectful of all cultures, religions and pronouns. I love to learn about these topics as well! This is a SAFE SPACE for everyone of all pronouns, sexual orientations, religions, and ethnicities!  Honestly, I'm doing this because I genuinely care and I want to make a difference in people's lives. This is your sign to give it time. Life is always changing. Unfortunately, I do not feel comfortable talking about sexual health. There are many listeners who are though! If you sent me a personal request and I'm busy, leave me a little message if you can and I'll get back to you! If you are in a crisis, please call these numbers Canada: 833-456-4566 USA: 1-800-273-TALK (8255) (If you are in another country and these don't work, send me a personal request and ask for the number, I will do my research and give it to you). 
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