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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Ivy229
L Intermediate 6 189
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*I AM OPEN AND LOOKING FOR MEMBERS WHO ARE SEEKING A LONG-TERM LISTENER ON A REGULAR BASIS * About Me: Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type) Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world. Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi ------------------------- I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.   We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!   You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.   Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊 And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or anything. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊   I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better. Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world.  ------------------------- If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed. If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed. If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible.   * I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited.  * If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service plus do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here.  *I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues. *My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different Current Roles @7 Cups -Group Support Leader (Room Supporter) Depression Support Room   -7 Cups Intern -7 Cups Leadership Development Program Trainee -In Process of becoming Adult-Teen Listener 
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CosmicMiracle
L Connoisseur 8 1050
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🌧️ ON SELF-CARE BREAK STARTING APRIL 2024 UNTIL FURTHER NOTICE 🌊 Hello, I'm CM, short for Cosmic Miracle. You can also call me Cosmic or Miracle if you feel like it. I have experienced many life struggles and have had to emotionally, mentally, and spiritually grow up by myself at 11 years old. I feel like an old soul in my late-30s body. I am here to offer whatever kind of conversations you need: random talks, deep conversations, philosophical discussions, current events, our favourite books and films, and how music affects us... whatever helps you, please let me. Never underestimate the power of conversations. So, what do you want to talk about? I'm waiting :) === Please consider the topics I am open to discussing (listed in a separate section). I get members who have concerns about issues I normally would not be comfortable discussing because: * I have never had that experience ergo I won't be able to help you much; * I am not confident that the experiences I had regarding those issues have made me the ideal person to talk to as it might have affected me negatively and I am still in the process of healing from it; and * I am not trained to handle some specific issues about mental health and you'd be better talking to someone who is I don't turn my back on everyone who wants to talk to me, but please manage your expectations :) In case I am unavailable, so many beautiful lightworkers are willing to listen to you and help you process your thoughts and emotions. You can find them here:  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ === Graduated from 7 Cups Internship with honours Graduated from the Content Development and Marketing Program with honours Graduated from the Leadership Development Program with honours === Do you want to appreciate a fellow member or listener? Here you go :)Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] === Polymath. Hardcore stargazer. Sunset worshipper. Astrophile. Pluviophile. Nyctophile. Thalassophile. Logophile. Selenophile. Empath. Capricorn sun. Pisces moon. Scorpio rising/ascendant. Aquarius Venus. INFJ-A Enneagram  Jungian archetype  Life Path 8  "I wanted to be to someone what no one was for me..." - Wentworth Miller You can view the full amazing speech here:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABUf30cTX-Q  === THIS IS A POEM THAT I TRY MY BEST AND HARDEST TO LIVE BY EVERY SINGLE DAY :) DESIDERATA Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for, in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labours and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. = Max Ehrmann <3
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WatermelonLover22
L Intermediate 9 216
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I may be slow to respond at the moment because I am in my exam period but I will get back to you as soon as possible. Thank you for your patience! Hii, I'm Bailey 💜 I hope you are having a wonderful day ♡ and if you are not that is okay! Everybody, has ups and downs in their life, and it's important to remember through them all, that you are only human and it's okay to ask for help. If you ever need somebody, please feel free to message me or another member of the 7cups community. We are all so proud of you for seeking support instead of staying quiet ♡ We are all cheering for you and want to help you get through this together!  🚧BIO IN CONSTRUCTION 🚧  About me 😊  ❤️I am 15 years old ❤️  ❤️I love to help people ❤️  ❤️My 3 main interests are animals, travelling and theatre ❤️  ❤️my favourite colour is purple (+ a bit of red) ❤️ ❤️ My Listener best friend is @SnowyForest26  ❤️ Daily Reminders 💜 you are loved! ♡ you are special and unique! ♡ You are so amazing! ♡ Don't let yesterday, take up too much of today! ♡ You can do anything if you put your mind to it! ♡ 7cups Roles 💙: * Verified Listener - Primarily my role is to support you and other members in the community through hardships. My role is to be an online friend when you feel alone, and even if I make you feel the tinniest bit better, that's worth it to me because you have infinite worth. * Member of the Safety Patrol Team - I try and ensure safety within the community for all listeners and members by searching for inappropriate profiles. * Peer Supporter - Listeners, I support you too! If you have had a rude or triggering chat then my role as a peer supporter is simply to ensure your wellbeing as a listener because you have the right to be happy too. You can contact the team via the form or alternately you can message me directly. * Kahoot Session Host - I am authorized to host Kahoot sessions in the teen special event room. Potential Members Hii, If you are looking for a listener, I will happily be yours. I know how lost and confused a lot of us can feel at times, and I know how important it is to have someone there to support you and care for you, and talk to without feeling judged. Don't worry, I'm not here to judge, I just want to get you going again after a fall, and help you get back on track and to feel happy, and free because that is what every human deserves. Never forget your self worth, or how important you are! ♡ As a listener, my role is to support you as best I can, and try and give you a boost when you are feeling down. This is why I aim to respond to any messages within 24 hours. I feel its important you establish trust and a connection with your listener, in order to open up and get some of the highest quality chats with them, and to do that, its best that as a listener they are on the journey with you, so therefore I will happily accept any long term members. ♡ However, please be mindful that I am human too, and any sexual / addiction topics are not ones I am comfortable with and my knowledge is limited so please let me know if you want to talk about something I may need to research. ♡ 💜 I'm looking forward to speaking to you soon! 💜 Status Meanings 🟢Green - I'm online and ready to talk. Please feel free to reach out! 🟡 Amber - I'm online but slightly busy at the moment. Please feel free to drop me a message and I will respond as soon as possible. 🔴 Red - I'm offline and not available at the moment. However feel free to drop me a message and I will aim to respond within the next 24 hours. Quotes 💚 "A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mind." "Don't let other people's perception of you define you!" "I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.” - Jimmy Dean "Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time that we fall.” - Confucius "Be gentle with yourself. You're doing the best you can." "May the flowers remind us why the rain was so necessary." — Xan Oku "You are enough, you got this!" Thank you so much for reading my bio. I hope you find what you are looking for on 7cups. Have a wonderful rest of your day! 💜💜💜 Last updated: 17th March 2024
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iStarlight
L Master 8 1169
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CALL ME STARRY Feel Free for chats, I will listen to you no matter what, I can feel your pain whenever you share yours with me. PLEASE NOTE  I dont do sexual talks, men's issue, and sexual health.Please dont force me talking about this topics, which really makes me uncomfortable   its better if you people search for a listener who are ok with talking about this above mentioned FOR BIPOLAR PEOPLE I have gained certificate and training on UNDERSTANDING BIPOLAR, feel sure to chat about your issues so that i can with there for you all and make sure you all feel safe with me while texting me and share everything I will try my best to give you all your time whenever it's about yourself. I am your own people, no matter what I'm always there for you. Promise you that you are the best, you are an angel, and you are meant to happiest person alive.
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StargirlTina
L Proficient 6 1373
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(Note: I’m currently not able to accept any members who personally reach out to me and I apologise for not responding instantly. However, I read all your messages and would try my best to reply as soon as I can! Update: As of now my schedule is really hectic and due to this and some personal issues, I'll be unable to listen to members much or be present in the community. I might however try to respond and check in every 2-3 months as possible.) Hey there! I am Tina,here to listen to your problems and to help you feel better! 💜💙💚💛🧡💖 Here is a good song dedicated to you!  https://youtu.be/BFkTu8Y1KLs Feel free to tell me about anything and know that I wont judge you! (I aim to help people get more clarity on whatever they are experiencing) "No matter what it is that you're going through, know that I'll always be here for you"  Your happiness means so much to me..🧡 Have a great day!  Lots of love and strength to you! (Ps: I am also training myself in CBT and incorporate it in chats in an effective way, building my listening style to make it even more helpful! ~) Y O U A R E    A M A Z I N G !! IMPORTANT: I do not take self-harm or sexual issues related requests and I am sure you will find a good listener for any such requests. My roles on 7cups: Peer supporter, Listener chatroom supporter, Been a quality mentor in the past, Also have been a Part of The Peer Appreciation Team, Listener Verifier Team and Anonymous Evaluations Team. Thank you so much for reading this!🧡 A special thank you and shoutout (with cookies 🍪) to my typo twin emo for the cutest gesture of making me a colourful pfp 💃🦋:∆  @emotionalTalker2260 (will be missed in the community greatly)   ~27/08/2022
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amiableUnicorn1809
L Maven 6 1291
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Hey, I'm Ami. I've been listener for a while now so feel free to text me anytime if you have anything to share I'll try my best to reply asap.( i do not take chats about loneliness, schizophrenia, weight management and eating disorders) I do not take casual chats. I'm best at relationship stress, domestic violence, student life, family stress, breakups and parenting.
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MentalOctopie9
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I am MentalOctopie9, a 16-year-old male currently in school. I am truly grateful to live in a society where organizations like 7Cups exist and I feel obliged to do my part. I have grown up in a highly adverse environment, something I would be happy to elaborate on if requested, which led me to discover my passion in psychology. Since I have since earned a diploma in forensic psychology and a certification in counseling for children and adolescents. I am based in South Africa, which comes with its obstacles but I remain compelled to offer assistance. I think that I can bring a more diverse approach to 7Cups while also learning priceless skills that are in dire need here.
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Mhereforyou7116
L Apprentice 4 105
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I love to help people and I want to help those who often feels misunderstood, neglected.  I also have an online small community, where I try to help. The fact is, us, volunteers can only help yet this help is the fundamental need a person want in their dark times.
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MilaAvery
L Specialist 6 694
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Hello there! Thanks for clicking on my profile💓  My name is Mila. I love listening to others, and hopefully, helping those who approach me. You can be yourself and free with me. 😊 Personality Type: Adventurer Personality, ISFJ-A Pronouns: She/Her/Hers Chats I am not comfortable with Men's Issues, Self-Harm ------------------------- Some of my dear friends here: @bubbleWest2798 A lovely sis💕💞 @luvinvader One of my closest friends💕💞 @Ri337 The kindest soul 💜💞 @SiriuslyMagical My gossip buddy 💞😂 Some amazing listeners that came into my life:  First and foremost, my lovely mentor, @MyNameIsNicole who is always there for me 💕💞 Next, the very lovely and kind @LavenderHere who helps me with a lot of things 💕💞 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou the loveliest listener you could ever meet! Someone that I know I can count on ❤️ @WarmLightXO aka Mr Baby Face aka Elliot,  a super kind human who always looks out for others 💕💞 Last but not the least, @sereneSunset26, the best twin ever! Lots of *hugs*✨💖 ------------------------- Have an amazing day ahead! Copy this link for a surprise! https://imgur.com/a/H6tZ9nf
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HopefulBambi
L Specialist 2 416
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BrightandGentleHand
L Discoverer 5 365
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We all go through something. I'm only here to listen.
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