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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

sophiasanae
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Hello there! Welcome to my profile. My name is Sophia (she/her) and I'm a verified adult-teen listener from the United States. As a listener, it is my role to provide a safe space for you to feel heard and validated. I know it can be difficult to talk to someone, but I will never judge you for anything you share with me. I'm so proud of you for taking the first step to reach out to someone! You deserve respect, empathy, and kindness and I'm here to support you to the best of my ability. Feel free to send me a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Time Zone: PST (Pacific Standard Time) Please note that I do not take chats on sexual health, self-harm, and eating disorders. I specialize in topics relating to social anxiety, self-esteem, and SA. Roles and Qualifications (Former/Current):  Verified Listener - I have been verified by my community on 7 Cups as a high-quality listener. Safety Patrol Member - I help keep 7 Cups safe by flagging inappropriate content. Let me know if you see a profile that needs flagging! Teen Quality Star - Mentor. 7 Cups Intern Graduate - I graduated from the 7 Cups Internship program September 2020 with honors.  QLP Graduate - I graduated from the Quality Listening Program July 2021 with honors. CDM Graduate - I graduated from the Content Development and Marketing Program in September of 2021. Support Team Teen Star - I lead the Group Support Team for TOZ. Please message me if you have any teen discussion-related questions or are interested in becoming a discussion leader or script-writer/editor. (Team currently on hiatus). Doorkeeper - I can open/close group chat rooms. Message me if you need help opening/closing a room! Forum Supporter - I write and edit posts for the Group Support Team in the TOZ forum space. Chatroom Moderator - I assisted in the Teen Listeners room. Growth Path Author - I created a growth path called Sophia's Daily Steps for Positive Focus which you can view HERE [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/sophia-s-daily-steps-for-positive-focus/].  Listener Shoutouts: Thank you to all the listeners who have had a huge impact on me and have helped me on my 7Cups journey: @hopedreamlove [https://www.7cups.com/@hopedreamlove] @TheAtticusFinch [https://www.7cups.com/@TheAtticusFinch] @SophieWX [https://www.7cups.com/error/pausedAccount.php] @LoveLilly [https://www.7cups.com/@LoveLilly] @enchantedlove @EmmaE 
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KatieTheWingedOne
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Long-Term inactive. This profile is for record of my work and impact only.  Hello there :).  ​ I'm Katie, glad to meet you!  -💙 I greatly value feedback, please consider leaving a review so I can reflect on our experience💙- Please read through my profile before reaching out to me. ​​​ ⬇️ Availability: I am consistently available from 6pm - 9pm BST, Wednesday till Friday each week.  Though, my availability is additionally signified by the markers in my profile [Green= I am active and in a position to provide support so please reach out to me! Orange= I am online but may be working on other areas of the site meaning I am not exclusively active. Red= I am not online and am not in a position to provide support at the moment].  Expectations of chats and my role within them: As an active listener I take pride in my role of providing support, through maintaining a structure within chats and upholding standards within my therapeutic relationships formed within them. * As such chats are structured to last between 30 minutes and 2 hours. * Experiences can be held as a single interaction, inconsistent sessions, or scheduled sessions! Within chats I will take an active role and will exclusively focus on you. * My listening style reflects this!: * I take a person-centred approach to listening, tying in aspects of other therapeutical models to best support everyone. This means that I take a non-judgemental and supportive approach to communicating, so will aim to empower you to be able to help yourself to process your emotions and experiences through our conversations.  * Due to this I, unfortunately, do not take casual conversations. Please expect sessions to be introspective :) Compatibility/ experiences:  Thank you for considering me to support you :)  In finding a listener it is helpful to seek someone who can provide an insight into your own experiences and outlook, often by sharing similar experiences and mindsets.   As such I would like to share some of my experiences.  Many of my experiences fall into these categories :  -Depression -Anxiety -Family stress  -relationship stress -self-esteem -Sexual trauma  -C-PTSD  Though the majority of my experiences fall into those areas they are not limited to the scope of them. I am capable of talking about almost every topic, applying those experiences and lessons to better understand you. As your situation is completely unique I appreciate every chat is a new experience, I'd be very glad to listen to you vent, provide support or simply keep a conversation☺️. It is worth noting during our conversations, though I will try to listen to all experiences, I am not confident in handling some topics so will not take chats with the main focus on some topics. So would recommend searching for another listener who may be better able to respond to your specific needs in the following topics: -Disordered eating -Drug addiction  -Alcohol addiction  -Sexual health problems   --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Some loving reminders ( ˘ ³˘)♥ ​​-​​​♡ You deserve respect and care, feeling alone or hurt can be such a painful thing, regardless of where you are in life you deserve respect and appreciation. -♡ You are capable and wonderful, insecurity and experiences can make you forget what you're truly able to do. Recognise your abilities :) -♡ You deserve great things. Don't let negative thoughts or people overwhelm you, it can be difficult to believe but you deserve a lot from this life. -♡ You can get better! sometimes when you've felt down or hurt for so long it feels like recovery is impossible. But healing is completely possible, and so many people are here for you   -♡ Take care of yourself -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My Roles within the wider community:  Current Roles:  *  - I am a trained active listener [I regularly recap training and am always searching for the best ways to support people]. * - I am a verified listener [meaning I passed a mock chat to ensure my quality within listener. * -I am a peer support [which means that I am trained to support listeners after difficult chats]. *  - I am the host of sharing circle group session every Tuesday at 3 pm EST/ 8pm GMT. feel free to come alone :) I have hosted for over two years now! Previous Roles: * - I was both a host at one point in time, and co-host of the listener sharing circle (every Sunday from 8am - 9am EST // with a combined time of hosting being five months). * - I was an assigned host for the healthy habits sessions before they got discontinued (I hosted every Tuesday since I first joined till the sessions merged with sharing circles, hosting for 9 months). * - At one point I also hosted friendship room weekly sessions mine was self-care Saturday! (I hosted every Saturday and played a significant role in writing the script, of which is still used to this day). * - I was a dedicated member of the LGBTQ+/MOGII forum community being forum supporter, having this responsibility for 8 months. * - I was a Forum Supporter more significantly for the Positivity and Gratitude sub-community, posting regularly and supporting the community through major contributions site-wide such as hosting a month long event for mental health awareness month, collaborating with other community leaders.  * - I was additionally a Forum Supporter for the needs reply team, wherein I dedicated my time to reducing the needs reply section of forums. * - I was once a contributor to project lightship, an outreach programme, wherein I promoted this website and the valuable work done here through social media. You can find my profile here! : @katie7cups / KatieTheRockOne7cups  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ A message to the community:                    As a fellow listener, I am compassionate about creating a warm welcoming community between both members and listeners alike. I love welcoming new listeners and will always be available to take  listener chats with you all (I'm peer support, please feel free to message me after a hard chat I'm here for you 🤗)    ~ 💙My listener twin is BrightHeart116//love you MishiS💙 ~           To every beautiful listener, I've had the good fortune to meet, thank you! I hope you realise not only how much you matter to me but how much you truly enrich this community and life too!            To every wonderful member, I've come across along my journey, never forget your worth and how splendid you are to know!  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ​​💫To all individuals I've come to accept the loss of, know I'll forever mourn you, You will remain eternal in my heart and the hearts of those who cared💫 ☺️💙☺️Have a lovely day all 💙
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bubblingBreeze14
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Hi all! Hope you are doing fine  I'm Bubbling Breeze, of course you can call me Breeze. I'm a verified listener here at 7 cups & i would be more than happy to help anyone. If you feel like you want to have a chat with me, you can simply leave me a message & i promise i will reply as soon as possible. Hope to have a chat with you all soon. Have a nice day!
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Abzolutely14
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I'm just another lost soul in this world
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N0rlin22
L Master 4 1064
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Peace and blessings among you all. I would like to send out a message to all of you. When so many people ask themselves on a daily “why me? Why was I the one to go through all the burdens in this life?”. They don’t understand that God gives tests to the strongest of soldiers, this is what we believe in the religion Islam. This life is a test, & God has given us that free will in this life and we will be judged accordingly after death. Islam teaches that in order for us to freely perform in the test of life, He has given us free will to lead our lives as we wish, but the outcome of each of our actions is governed by the will of God. Islam is the only monotheistic religion. We worship and obey one and only God.  PROOF ISLAM IS THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE RELIGION. All of this was written in the Quran 1400 years ago. HUMAN CREATION: “We made the sperm-drop into a clinging clot, and We made the clot into a lump [of flesh], and We made [from] the lump, bones, and We covered the bones with flesh; then We developed him into another creation. So blessed is Allah, the best of creators [23:14].” LIFE: We made every living thing from water. Will they not believe?" (Quran 21:30) Recently it has been discovered that the Pacific & Atlantic oceans do not mix. You can search up a picture. This was already written by the Creator himself.  “He Released the two seas, meeting [side by side]; * Between them is a barrier [so] neither of them transgresses. (55:19 [https://quran.com/55/19-20])  IRON: For the people of today, iron is a metal that is found on earth. However, according to scientists today, the original source of iron is not a metal of this earth rather it came from space. Quran mentions iron in the following way: "We sent down iron, in which is (material for) mighty war, as well as many benefits for mankind." (57:25) JUGULAR VEIN: “Indeed, ˹it is˺ We ˹Who˺ created humankind and ˹fully˺ know what their souls whisper to them, and We are closer to them than ˹their˺ jugular vein.” The Jugular is the CLOSEST vein in our body. God mentions he is closer to us then that vein, how in the world would anyone know this? 
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IqRAwords
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Hi, I welcome you on my profile. I am an ear you can trust on about your stories. I am here to support you by hearing. Have a great experience on 7 cups.
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Izzy274
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Hi, I’m Izzy. I used to be very active on 7 Cups a couple years ago, and helped out in many different leadership positions, hence the large number of badges you can see on my profile. I am no longer in these positions, please reach out to a current mentor if you are a listener seeking support 💕. I’m rejoining 7 cups because I want to be able to make a difference. Over the past few years I’ve learned a lot about mental health through my own personal struggles, and I know the power that having someone to listen to you holds. I’m not here to solve your problems. That’s almost certainly something I cannot do. But if you’d like to chat something through, bounce ideas off a buddy or simply get something off your chest, feel free to shoot me a message. I am happy to talk about most topics aside from those sexual in nature. I have most lived experience with: eating disorders, anxiety, social anxiety and depression. I am also autistic and asexual so am happy to support neurodivergent individuals and those who are part of the LGBTQ+ community :).
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StarlitSky4762
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Personal update 04/19/2022 [forum link] [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BorderlinePersonalityDisorderSupportCommunity_81/General_2436/starlitskypersonalupdatelearningtobalancelearningtosayno_303441/] I am a community leader for the Personality Disorders community. (currently semi-active) Please note: all upcoming groups are listed on the Community calendar [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] - use CTRL+F to search "personality disorders" Topics: DBT/mindfulness, understanding schemas, healing shame & self-compassion >> Everyone is welcome!! No diagnosis is needed. <<    If you are new to 7cups and want to unlock the "Topic Rooms" like Personality disorder room, follow these steps  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/NewCriteriaUpdatesGroupChatsEasierToAccessNow_280544/]https://tinyurl.com/36h5cr6h For LISTENERS: How to support members with personality disorder - 7 Cups Forum [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BorderlinePersonalityDisorderSupportCommunity_81/ResourcesInformationonPersonalityDisorders_459/ResourceListenerguidestosupportingmemberswithpersonalitydisorder_233845/]  ( + more resources [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerSupportGuidesMockChatTranscripts_1850/PersonalityDisorderChats_233827/1/])  Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/PersonalityDisorderSupportCommunityTeamEvents_432/NavigatingPersonalityDisordersCommunityandEventsMasterThread_254844/] for a masterpost about what the Personality Disorders community provides. I am not taking new 1-to-1 member chats, except for members who participate in Personality Disorders groups.  Apply to be a Room Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform?fbzx=1067715697025948349] for the Personality Disorders team!! Both Members and Listeners are welcome to join!!  Resources: DBT Resources:  *  A guide to naming emotions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/ForumandGroupSupportDiscussions_1312/Howdoyoufeelacolorfulguidetonamingemotions_238928/] *  DBT Mindfulness skills (beginner's guide)     [the "WHAT" Skills: Observe, Describe, Participate [https://dbtselfhelp.com/dbt-skills-list/mindfulness/what-skills/]        & "HOW" Skills: One-Mindfully, Non-Judgmentally, Effectively [https://dbtselfhelp.com/dbt-skills-list/mindfulness/how-skills/]] * DBT videos [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjZkvz33S-5_i6Ri12X0SwQ/playlists] (free, high quality, created by a therapist) * https://dialecticalbehavioraltherapy.wordpress.com/wise-mind/  * 7cups - DBTuesday Masterpost [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PersonalityDisordersSupport_81/DBTuesday_2147/DBTuesdayMasterpost_274756/?post=2996298]with almost all skills! * https://dbtselfhelp.com/ - excellent, free Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Self-Help resource * Dialectical Behavior Therapy [https://dialecticalbehaviortherapy.com/] - lots of free worksheets --------------------------------------------------------------------- *  Treatment resources [https://tinyurl.com/ysunhxtv] (treatment types for personality disorders, provider database, low-cost options, & peer support) *  Out of the Fog [https://outofthefog.website/] - is a resource for people affected by personality disorders and their loved ones.           *  Coping Toolbox  [https://outofthefog.website/what-to-do-1]for individuals and loved ones          *  Collection of resource links [https://outofthefog.website/links]  General resources:  *  My favorite CBT skill: ACE technique [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1HVRlsYHeFBTRVjfqyPXwPU4D9YuHV-cq/view?usp=sharing] for balance in life [source [https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/ace.htm]] *  free CBT worksheets [https://thinkcbt.com/think-cbt-worksheets]  *  general self-help [https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/sitemap/#]  *  Resource kit - coping with anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Resourcekitcopingwithanxiety_255863/] *  Developing your support system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupportCommunity_52/CopingWithLoneliness_599/Developingyoursupportsystemideasandresources_241138/] *  Crisis Resources [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines]
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FrenchToast
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Please note that I am no longer an active ambassador. Hello everyone, I'm Toast! Welcome to 7 Cups and my profile :) I try my best to contribute positively to the community. Unfortunately, at this time, I do not have the time to take up regular member chats. I do have some occasional times that I might be able to, but my status will be green at that time and I only take one-off chats so if you are looking for long-term support, please reach out to another listener. I also only do 60-minute-long chats. But otherwise, my other life commitments restrict me from responding in a timely manner. Please look at my profile for topics I am and I am not comfortable with. That being said, my PMs are always open! I will get back to you as soon as I can, please bear with me on my response time. Feel free to always resend a message if need be! ------------------------- {the undercurrent pulls my body it sweeps pulling my out its anger it keeps the undercurrent draws a turbulent tempt it tumbles my heart with vehement intent the undercurrent rages But I'm sturdy and strong adept in the water for that's where I belong the undercurrent subsides I'm floating serene my eyes see the sun I still live, I still dream -Eileen Manassian, "The deleted poems". } ------------------------- "Our wounds are often the openings into the best and the most beautiful part of us." -David Richo
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gentleLight37
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Hi! I'm glad you're looking for a listener, because that is such an important step, if it's your first time or your millionth time chatting with a listener. I want to hear about your problems and what you're struggling with so that I can help you in any way I can. I was in a severe car accident many years ago and have struggled with various issues since, including broken bones, a concussion that took a while to heal, and PTSD, depression, and anxiety. I've learned a lot during my recovery and really want to share this or help other people in any way I can. Besides being a listener, I'm a dancer and a nature lover. Best wishes. <3
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YellowButton223
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CURRENTLY UNAVAILABLE I am a highly trained, verified active listener happy to support you. Please be aware that I am based in the UK so due to time zone restrictions I might not be the best listener to support you right now.
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